What do you do if your best friend doesn't want to be with you anymore?
I have been in your situation.Not once, but twice.When the same person who you trusted a lot, the one who used to share everything with you, the one who literally has other friends because of you, for the one you did all that you could ever do turns out to be the one who stops talking to you, not just this, the person refuses to give you a reason and ignores you constantly. It sucks, it really does.But that's how most of the people are.In my case I tried everything, called them pinged them, confronted them, only to face ignorance.Not every one is as sensitive as you. I felt so bad initially, I didn't give up. I wanted my friend back at any cost. No matter what. But there is a slight boundary between ego and dignity called self respect and you must respect your self respect.Sometimes you just have to accept the fact that people don't need you anymore in their life.Their work is done, maybe they are just bored of you. Accept their decision and move on.Also remember one thing, too much of attachment can be really really harmful.Sometimes, it's better to embrace solitude rather than cribbing over the fact that people don't need you. You need yourself. It hurts but You are stronger than that.
Does my best friend not want to be friends anymore?
Okay, I have a very, very best friend that I met 2 years ago. We did everything together. I always went to her house. And we text 24/7. After school she would say Hi and all that. But in march of 2007 she wouldn't text, or call me anymore. Or not invite me over anymore. Everytime I texted her she was never doing anything. And I asked her why she doesn't talk to me anymore she said: because. She wouldn't give a reason. And she gets mad at me, mean, and she cus at me for no reason. I did nothing to her hurt her. Doesa she not want to be friends anymore? she sayu's she is still my friend. But I dont feel that way. Please help me. What should I do? :(
I think my best friend doesn't like me anymore?
She's been my best friend for 8-9 years and I don't think she likes me anymore. She's been hanging out with this group of girls a lot lately and even more with another girl that I have no problem with. We used to go to each other's house every day and weekend but whenever I ask her if I can come over she says she's either busy or just says I have to go somewhere. I know she's lying but idk what to do. We have the same classes with other friends too and she ignores me. We hardly even talk during class. We used to carpool every single day but lately she's been going to school with the girl I told you about before. Idk what to do because if I confront her then I know she's gonna lie and say that she does like me and then not even hang out with me still. Thanks.
I think my best friend doesn't like me anymore ):?
Okay so first of all I'm 14 years old, and so has she. We've been best friends sine 5th grade. We used to spend every weekend together, and some weekdays, talk a lot during school, && and we spent everyyy day together during the summers. Like seriously we're like, twins! Everyone says we look alike && EVERYBODY at school and stuff thinks we're sisters because we're such best friends. But earlier in the school year, we stopped spending as much time together. We're not in any of the same classes, and she's become good friends with a girl in her class. She barely calls me anymore, and im always the one to call her. It seems like she only wants to hang out with me when we go places, and its like she doesn't want to hang around just me anymore. i'll be happy just hanging out with her, doing absolutely nothing :b. and likee, several days ago she said she has something to tell me and she would call me after school. well she didnt so i called her, and after a few minutes she was like "g2g my sisters calling" well like 2 hours later she never called back so i called her. Her mom answered and I heard her mom talking to her and her mom was like "she'll call you back." but she never called back. So the next day at school, when the bell rang I caught up to her in the hall. but she was walking with this other girl in her class & they've become friends I guess, even though she always talks bad about her. So anyways I walked up to her and was like "Why didn't you ever call me back?" and she kind of glanced at me & said "i forgot." then continued walking and talking with that other girl, just ignoring me. I mean, best friends aren't supposed to do that, right? && it seems like she only talks to me when she wants to go somewhere like, the movies. Because my parents are always the ones to take us and they always buy her things too. It's like she never just wants to hang out, anymore. And when we're in public && we see people we know she completely ignores me. She acts more cheerful and friendly around her FRIENDS, than me, her BEST friend. :/ I keep telling myself it's just in my head, and she really cares about me, but now I'm just not sure. I don't really know what to do. ):
I feel like my best friend doesn't need me anymore?
I have (or had, i don't know anymore) this really good friend and I considered her my best friend and she considered me on and we were so close. she knows everything about me and we told eachother everything. however, now, she has this big groupchat with like 11 other girls and they all got really close with it. my other best friend is in that chat but she still talks to me every single day and I don't feel this way towards her. anyway, I just feel like she doesn't need me anymore. why I went to talk to her at out high school orientation, she talked to me then looked around and was like "I lost my girls" and walked away and found them. then when we were in the auditorium she passed by me but sat with those other group of girls. I'm happy she made so many new friends, but I just feel like she doesn't really consider me a best friend anymore since she doesn't really tell me anything and I'm usually starting the conversations. I just don't know what to do. I asked one of my other friends (not the one who's in the groupchat with her) and she said to talk to her. but I don't want to yet cause idk if I'm overreacting or overthinking it but I'm pretty hurt by the whole thing. I don't wanna lose her. please help!!
My best friend doesn't have any time for me anymore?
I am going through a similar kind of situation like yours. I have best friends from high school who go to the same college together whereas I go to a university that is in a totally different part of the neighborhood. We still hang out together, but we don't spend as much time together as we used to because their schedule is completely different from what I have. When that happened, their interests began to change in terms of friends and priorities. I feel what you are going through because I also don't have that many friends in my school because they and everyone else (including myself) are busy doing their own thing. I spend a lot of my time at home as well, but I see it as an opportunity to be productive and get A LOT of things done. Your best friend doesn't have time for you anymore because her priorities and schedule is different from yours. You said you dropped your other friends because you felt they were bad influences on you. You did this because your interests and priorities were not in line with theirs. It is difficult to make new friends the older you become because you won't know new people the way you knew your old friends when you were younger. But don't worry; things do get better and you will probably run into someone who will be your friend and hold common interests with you. And when this happens, the both of you may be encouraging the best out of each other. Try to make yourself busy for now. There is always someone out there who is feeling the way you are and who may want to be your friend.
Why won't my best friend talk to me anymore? Does he hate me?
May be jealousy. When I was 12 years old, I had the best of the best friends you can imagine, some of them were very beautiful, very successful with the boys, etc. Their parent were better off than mine, so they always had the best dress and shoes. Vacations .When the time came to go to high school, and then College( university ) I found my self alone, no more friends, the could not make to graduation of high school neverthe less get to College. I did it. They move from the neighborhood for a better houses, no even said good by to me. That was hard for me, because I never was in competition with any one. That was 55 years ago.
My friends don't like me anymore....=(?
One thing I have always tried to teach my kids is that you should never let someone else's actions effect your well being or self worth. My suggestion would be to make new friends at school. Don't be mean to your former best friends. In fact if they want to hang out with you go ahead and do stuff with them. But do it on your terms not theirs. When you do make new friends, AND YOU WILL, don't blow them off to hang out with your other friends. Be kind to everyone, even the people that are not so nice to you. Just don't let yourself be walked on.
Is it weird that me and my best friend don't talk anymore?
It is not weird, but I’m afraid to say that he/she is no longer your friend/consider you as a friend.I've been through this situation with two of my bestfriends (yes, I’m sure they also considered [past tense] me as one).The first friend, we were “forcedly” separated because I had to move from the neighborhood and after several months, she moved to. After that, we don't have each other contact but then I found her instagram account and tried to reach her out but she never reply so I took that as a rejection or ignorance that maybe she forgot me.The second friend, we were bestfriend since in junior high. She and I are like two different personality and I felt safe with her. In fact, I don't think she gained anything from me. In high school, she was the people person who had no struggles to befriend with anyone, meanwhile I still clinged to her and didn't care about my new friends. Now, that we’re in college, she never tries to contact me even if in social media. Not anymore. I believe that she has more good friends.This is one of the reason I quit social medias especially Instagram, because this platform is the only place I can get in touch with my old bestfriends but they don't seem like want to be bothered by me.