Does my best friend not want to be friends anymore?
Okay, I have a very, very best friend that I met 2 years ago. We did everything together. I always went to her house. And we text 24/7. After school she would say Hi and all that. But in march of 2007 she wouldn't text, or call me anymore. Or not invite me over anymore. Everytime I texted her she was never doing anything. And I asked her why she doesn't talk to me anymore she said: because. She wouldn't give a reason. And she gets mad at me, mean, and she cus at me for no reason. I did nothing to her hurt her. Doesa she not want to be friends anymore? she sayu's she is still my friend. But I dont feel that way. Please help me. What should I do? :(
Why Doesn't My Best Friend Want Me To Meet Her Boyfriend?
My best friend and I have been best friends for 8 years. But for someone reason she doesn't want me to meet her boyfriend. She is now pregnant for her boyfriend and I still haven't laid my eyes on him. One time I called her on his cell phone and he told her that I sounded like I looked good. Could that be a reason? Maybe shes afraid that he'll try to make a move on me or something. Or maybe she thinks he is ugly or something? Does anyone have an idea why she doesn't want me to see him?
My best friend doesn't want to be best friends anymore :(?
Trust me, honey. You lose SO many friends as you grow up, but I promise you that the ones you keep will be your friends for ages and ages. Last year me and this girl were really really close but then she started ignoring me and flat out said how much she hates me. We're still not friends to this day, and I'm so better off without her in my life. I don't hate her, and I don't think she hates me, but some times these things work out for the better. if your so-called best friend is being so rude to you, let her leave. You never know, she might come back around, but if she doesn't don't get worked up about it. The other friends you will meet in your life will be so much nicer and you'll learn from your experience :)
What do you do when your ex girlfriend still wants to be best friends with you?
Well, if you BOTH can truthfully say that you have no remnant romantic feelings for each other then go for it. I have a number of friends of whom I dated and some of these I have known for years!However, it takes both parties to be honest about it and perhaps a certain personality or outlook on relationship that from experience I can tell you not everyone has or is mature enough to handle.Since usually, the standard issue scenarios for most people tend to be one of the two following one which generally always end in disaster:1-) Usually the one who did the breaking wants to be friends. Main reason, they either really want to be friends or they are just saying that as a way to minimize their guilt for having initialized the break up. Usually they will bring this up immaterial of the other person’s feelings. Because they think they are doing the right thing and to be honest, since they have a better hand their feelings they might think you might too, until it is too late and discover that assessment is not true. The correct path is NOT to be friends. Give each other some time apart.2-) It is the person who got broken up who suggests it under the optimistic impression that it is better to have you hanging around then not at all. Still under the hope that somehow, someday you might change your mind.Again the best way to handle it is simply not to play at all. People always need some space if they are any remnant feelings. But most many people are not very good at being mature and honest about their feelings, either to themselves or their exes, so again, drama is bound to ensue. Generally in the form of jealousy.Best thing is to give each other space, unless, as I previously stated, both parties are 100% and mature. Otherwise, avoid at all cost unless you want unnecessary drama in your life.
What do you do if your best friend doesn't want to be with you anymore?
I have been in your situation.Not once, but twice.When the same person who you trusted a lot, the one who used to share everything with you, the one who literally has other friends because of you, for the one you did all that you could ever do turns out to be the one who stops talking to you, not just this, the person refuses to give you a reason and ignores you constantly. It sucks, it really does.But that's how most of the people are.In my case I tried everything, called them pinged them, confronted them, only to face ignorance.Not every one is as sensitive as you. I felt so bad initially, I didn't give up. I wanted my friend back at any cost. No matter what. But there is a slight boundary between ego and dignity called self respect and you must respect your self respect.Sometimes you just have to accept the fact that people don't need you anymore in their life.Their work is done, maybe they are just bored of you. Accept their decision and move on.Also remember one thing, too much of attachment can be really really harmful.Sometimes, it's better to embrace solitude rather than cribbing over the fact that people don't need you. You need yourself. It hurts but You are stronger than that.
My boyfriend still wants to be best friends with his ex who's loved him for years. Am I wrong to be uncomfortable?
It depends what you mean. Are you wrong to feel uncomfortable? No, of course not. Feelings are not right or wrong because they aren't under your control. They just happen.Let me give you an example. My partner was setting next to me last night and I was texting a friend of mine. She said “Just so you know, I'm feeling very anxious because you're messaging. I just wanted you to know but I don't want you to stop or anything. I trust you and I love you.” She was feeling uncomfortable because she's been cheated on and lied to. It makes perfect sense she would be uncomfortable and there is nothing wrong with that.However, if you use your uncomfortable feeling to attempt to control you're partner by says “You can't talk to your ex!” it would be a good idea to ask yourself why? Do you not trust your partner? Are you insecure and think he will find someone better? These are serious problems that can and will undermine your relationship. They can cause last harm to yourself and your partner by acting on them.So, no you're not wrong to be uncomfortable. However, if you let your uncomfortable feeling be an excuse for you to abuse your partner, then you are wrong. If you fell you're unable to control your actions, you should seek profession help. That's what counselors and psychiatrist are there for. I wish you the best of luck!
Why does my ex boyfriend believe we can be best friends?
He probably likes you a lot but doesn’t want to be restrained from having relationships with other women.This is the best of the both worlds. Chances are you would probably still be sexually active with your ex if you remained “best friends” because you do actually like him and want to be with him but you wouldn’t be able to have any say about what he does when he’s not with you. It’s the best way to cheat without technically cheating with you.I advise you entertain his friendly relationship but cut off all sexual activity, then if he still wants to remain friendly, just take him for his word.If he’s not as friendly due to the sex shut off then you’ll have your answer.If he still wants to be friends despite the lack of sex, then believe him. He must have some other reason for wanting to be just friends instead of in a relationship.I’m still, albeit not best friends, with most of my ex’s because my vetting process led me to some extraordinary women, but the only reason I didn’t get back with them was due to having a fantasy Disney movie, romantic comedy illusion about a girl out there who was perfect for me.It wasn’t until I met somebody who looked perfect for the job but turned out to be evil as fuck that I realized that some of my ex’s were excellent partners for a successful relationship and I was just blinded by romantic entertainment propaganda.
Best friend doesn't have time for me anymore?
This is why we shouldn't just have one friend. It isn't right what your friend is doing and he will learn but it's going to take some time before he realizes what he is doing. He believes that now that he has a girlfriend that she is who should get his time. What he doesn't know is that he is hurting you and he should be balancing his time............people all do the wrong thing when they start seeing someone. You should never give up anyone in your life for any person. This is a lesson for you when you start seeing someone.........you will know what this feels like and you wont do it to anyone else (so thank your friend for that). And if you do it to someone else, you will be just as wrong as your friend. So, now you have told him how you felt and he needs to think about what he is doing. If he doesn't take the time for you than he is not a real friend............he was using you and that is even harder to accept :( Find other friends and don't settle for just one friend anymore.........open your heart up to more :)
What does it mean when your ex girlfriend wants you as her best friend?
Well, two thoughts come to my mind: 1) She really enjoys your company but just not enough to be in a romantic relationship. This happens sometimes but often means that one person sticks around hoping you'll fall back in love, again. 2) It's a matter of control. She doesn't want you as a boyfriend but she also wants to make sure you don't forget about her. There could be a third or a fourth reason but I think that would need to come from the ex herself.