My mom ALWAYS pays attention to my little sister & brother.?
jeaoulsy.... lock your self in a room and dont get out untill they notice and will nock and tell you to get out..... =] trust me that will work and if you will get bored put the music on high
My boyfriend hates my brother? I want to break up with him but he says if he does he will kill himself? Help?
I had a toxic best friend years ago in high school, about your age who did the same to her boyfriend. She wanted him all to herself and if anyone else, friends, family....anyone got in the middle of what she thought was hers, she would threaten to kill herself. Her boyfriend did everything for her and every time she had a problem with something, she would threaten to kill herself. He told her that he wanted to break up with her one day because he couldn't take always worrying about her. I witnessed as she dialed his phone number over and over again. She tried to find him at school, but he always dodged her. She never killed herself. She eventually said a lot of bad things about him and it was like she never liked him. Mind point is, he is only making threats and will never follow through with it. It's obvious he wants you all to himself and if that might sound romantic to you, it's not. He has some issues of self esteem and confidence. He is using you as his confidence and doesn't want anyone else to block that. Your brother being around you and touching you threatens that confidence. This kid needs professional help. You want to break up with him because you know he's in the wrong for threatening a 12 yr old CHILD. He might not kill himself, but he will eventually hurt your brother. My question to you would be, is your brother's safety more important? What about your mental well being? Do you always want to be afraid and worried and stay with someone ONLY because of that? He's going to smother your life. He's not well and you need to tell your mother, his mother, and anyone else important that you can about what's going on. And you need to break up with him NOW. The best thing my now EX- best friend's boyfriend ever did was break up and avoid her. My advice is to let people know he needs help. You aren't his savior honey and you are much too young to be. You are also not equipped to handle this situation. Don't deal with this alone.
I hate my elder brother immensely and I don't want to do that. I don't want to talk to him or see him but I just want myself to stop hating him. How can I do that?
“Kismat unki bhi hoti hai jinke haath nahi hote.”I smell jealousy amd remorse.Ask yourself, why do your parents look upto him?While reading your question I could completely relate you to my situation.For two decades, I have suffered from the same problem as you.My family always has loved and pampered me most among the siblings but my elder brother is the one they look upto, and this always hurt my ego.Last year I was able to overcome this problem once and for all.You know what I did?I found great success in life last year and I became independent, financially and emotionally.The kid they saw me as till now was banished and an adult was shown to them.They started trusting and relying on my abilities.I should go anonymous and shoudnt comment about my brotherly rivalry but i will honestly tell you that I used to be very jealous of him.Now, for their needs, my parents first look upto me, and my elder brother does not seem to mind it AT ALL.This is the DIFFERENCE between me and my brother. I got jealous of him but he still is not, because he is maturer than I am.I realized how it was all just made up in my mind.My parents relying on him more does not make me a loser or less loved.Ask yourself, why do your parents treat him like a king?Only you know the answers.Start doing the things which he did to win their hearts.Your brother overpowering you or misusing the advantage should not bother you.Let your parents be the judge.Prove your worth and value to them.The day you are able to reach out to them, your sorrows will end.
My brother treats my sister way better than me and he hates me. What could I do to change that?
I am sorry that you are having this experience with your brother. Since you came to your dad's tells me that you haven't always been around for reasons that I don't know and you probably couldn't control, but your brother is feeling threatened. Some people don't react well when confronted with new situations, new relationships especially ones they feel are being forced onto them.That doesn't mean you are doing the forcing. You may or may not be, but your presence is a reminder that life has changed for him.Does your brother do this kind of thing in front of your father? Ignore you? Treat you badly? What does Dad do about it?Have you tried talking to your dad about this? Tell him how you feel, let him know that you want a decent respectable relationship with your siblings and you feel left out.He should be the one to help mediate the problem for you. With his help, things should hopefully improve, but older siblings can still be a problem when Dad's not around.No matter what anybody else tells you, you are good enough.Don't forget that and never let anybody convince you differently, OK?With time and patience, we can hope big brother grows up and realizes he could be nicer to you. Remember he's a teenager too, raging hormones and all. Teenagers going through puberty are just a little crazy and they can't help it. So be patient with him, be nice as you have been, and hope for the best.I hope this helps you. PS Your brother is too old to be sleeping in his sisters bed with her and he shouldn't be sleeping with you either.
What should you do if you literally hate one of your brothers?
Shun him. Don’t speak to him. Don’t say anything to him or even look at him when he’s around, even if he’s trying to get your attention. Ignore him, like he’s a bad dream. You wrote it yourself: have absolutely nothing to do with him. He has other siblings; it’s their turn to take your place.And when possible, leave and be with your friends or stay in your room, alone, with the door locked, headphones firmly in place.Some people really like kids (your parents), and some can’t stand them (like you with this one), and it’s okay.If you get called out for shunning this brother, remind your parents of what always happens when you DO pay any attention to him. Maybe your folks will get a clue.And there’s this possibility for family peace: Suggest that you, the detested brother and your parents have a conversation at home. A peaceful talk about all this crap, with each of you getting to have a say. Just the 4 of you, because that’s the trouble zone.Good luck. I hope you’re making plans for when you move out, and it might be time for you to get a job, if you don’t already have one. This will take you away from home for hours at a time, and, you’ll earn money! YAY.
For what reason does my boyfriend's brother hate me?
you're awesome...just give them space.
I hate my little brother?
I'm 15 and I have a little brother who is 10 and I HATE my brother. HATE HIM. He's such a little tattletale and a pain in the ***. He is smart for his age but he brags about it. He acts like he knows everything and he acts like he's smarter than me. And he is the biggest tattletale. Every time I'm on my laptop taking a break he will run in my room and check on me and tell my parents I'm not working. Then they would yell at me. This happens every day and he can't even keep a secret. One time I told him I was smoking an ecig with just water vapor at a friends house and he told my parents. I CANT STAND HIM! I need help. I know I'm moving out in 3 yrs but I'm seriously dying.
Why does my brother act so mean to me?
Because that's what brothers do!
My brother is gay and I hate him?
I'll probably catch a lot of flack for this, but I have to agree with you. That kind of behavior irks me, as well. You didn't mention your brother's age, so it's hard to tell if he is just acting out because he's still immature. In any case, his behavior is completely inappropriate. I'm glad, yet also surprised, that you haven't taken more drastic measures. Come to think of it, you don't say anything about how you deal with it ... Are you letting him get away with it because he is your brother, or are you telling him how you feel? He needs to tone down before one of your friends tries to teach him a lesson the hard way. It doesn't sound like he's starved for attention, which would be a typical cause. Can you sit down with your parents and him, and try to hash it out together? Outside of that, I'm at a loss for suggestions. Good luck.