My mom loves her boyfriend more than me?
my really dads in prison and my mom met this guy who's like 20 years older than her and I'm 13 years old. she's always on the phone with him and talking to him and he gets what he wants. he's always complaining about me or not getting fed. and it pisses me off that my mom doesn't spend time with me anymore and she's always moody because he puts her in a bad mood. i tried talking to her but she won't listen to anything i have to say. I've tried everything. i wish my dad was out of prison ! ugh!
Why does my mom love her boyfriend more than me?
Mommy's dating life comes before the kids. I am sorry to say that is how almost all single mother's are. Just tell her when she is 70 and alone you won't have time for her. She will have to go to an senior citizens ( rest) home. But you will look for the best one for her. And you are sorry but you won't be able to visit much but she can have so much fun playing bingo with the other women. It makes me angry when the Single Mother's do not act like Mother's and put their children first. I do feel for you. But don't worry single Mother's usually can't keep a man more than 2-3years if that long before getting bored. So there is a good chance he will be gone soon. Hang in there you will be out of the house soon. Just remember if you have kids not to do the same thing your Mother is doing. Kids should ALWAYS come first.
How would you behave if your mother loved her boyfriend more than she loved you and your child?
My mother did love her boyfriend more than me. I was the child. 11 at the time. He was an abusive alcoholic and beat her. Only in front of me, never my brothers.I became very angry and depressed. I couldn't save her from herself or him although I damn sure tried many times.I grew up, I moved away. I moved back. After decades of issues and arguments I realized she isn't going to be here forever. She didn't deserve the abuse from him. Or me at that point. I was not much better than him with my passive aggressive attacks on her. A close friend lost her mother and than I lost my dad. Reality hit and I did my best to make amends with her. I would tell her I loved her every chance I got.My mother died 2 months ago. A part of me will forever be lost within guilt and frustrations. Decades I let my own demons betray our relationship and now she's gone and I can't make it right. I should have been there more. Even after the first boyfriend died and the next just as abusive piece of shit showed up. I should have been there for her and I wasn't. I was too busy. I was too stubborn and now I have a lot of regrets.My mother always loved me. I know that. I have always and always will love her. But we both made it very difficult. I guess that's the part of her that is in me.If I could go back in time I would realize that she loved me and didn't want to be lonely. I don't think she choose them over me really. I chose to let them run me off and she was too abused to change it. You are grown and have your own child to love and pay attention to. Your mom won't be around forever and it's on you to take the initiative to improve your relationship with her. Have them over for dinner. Take them out. He is part of her life now and its something you might have to accept. You can not make her choose.From a one adult child to another, spend as much time with her as you can and don't let your own demons or stubbornness make you regret it later. The reality is she will die and leave you with a loss like no other. But you still have the chance to ease that loss by not adding the burden of guilt and regret. This will also teach your child how you want to be treated.
My mom loves her boyfriend more than me?
I'm glad that she has a guy to be with her, but I just feel so upset. Her boyfriend is really rude to me when's she not around and always uses up her time. They always go to eat or go to a disco and I'm left with my younger brother at home. It just makes me so jealous and angry. I really don't want to feel these emotions, but I can't stop. He sometimes calls me fat and ugly which has made me depressed. He also says that to my little brother. I've told my mom but she doesnt believe me at all. I just want to run away, she probably won't even care. I don't know what to do. They've been together for a round a year now. I miss hanging out with my mom and just having fun. I can tlive by myself since I'm 12 years old.l and my brother is only 7 years old. at this point, i hate her boyfriend. Whenever shes not around, i cry because i miss her and just want it to be like the past.I'm really sorry if I sound conceited or something like that.
My mother is choosing her boyfriend over me. What do I do?
I can’t tell if you are a minor, or a girl or a boy a minor but I would assume that you are over 18 if your mother is leaving you where you are. It sounds like you are trying to tell your mother why you don’t feel safe and she doesn't believe you. I have not listened to my gut before and it’s not a good idea so you are wiser than I was as an adult and it cost me a lot of years and more.It sounds like there is more involved but not sure if you want to say. Make sure he is not on a sexual offender list if that is a reason that you don’t feel safe. You can go to http://crimereports.com and type in your home address and his address to see if he is on a registered sex offender,You might want to talk to a trusted friend or relative so that they can put you in touch with the proper agency so that you can figure out your options which would depend upon your age. Do you have to pay rent? Do you have a job? Are you a minor? If you could provide this information someone with experience in this area could direct you. Do you live in the United States for one would be good to know.Whatever is going on it is clear that you feel really bad about it and hopefully you have someone you can trust to help guide you particularly if you are a minor under 18.
My mom loves her boyfriend more than me...?
Hi, Kasey, I'm really sorry you're stuck in this situation. :( I don't know your mother and her boyfriend personally, but chances are she really does love you. You DO make her happy. There's probably something else going on here that's making her act the way she is. Y'know that Robert Palmer song from the 80s called "Addicted to Love?" That's actually a real problem for some people! Some women gravitate towards men who aren't the most dependable and aren't the most supportive. Then they get attached to them! They can't live without them! It's like codependency. This could be what's going on with your mom. It's not that she doesn't love you; she's just obsessed with this new man. While this is going on, you might want to look for some supportive people to help you stay strong. Keep close to your friends, talk to your school counselor or a teacher you like, or even talk to us! You can call us or send us messages. Just keep in mind that you probably can't change your mom's behavior, but you can change the way you behave in this situation. Stay out of fruitless arguments and keep your distance from this relationship she's in. Eventually, things should smooth out. Hang in there! MKM, Counselor Boys Town National Hotline 1-800-448-3000
What should I do if my sister loves her boyfriend more than me?
This usually happens. Don't be jealous of her boyfriend and their relationship. You aren't old enough to understand the dynamic of this kind of relationship. She loves you just as much, but in a different way. Don't act bratty towards him. It will only drive a wedge between you. Her attention is on her boyfriend now, but it doesn't mean she no longer cares about you. As you get older, you will understand it more. If you were her best friend and now she's ignoring you to be with him, that is also normal. Try not to be too hurt. Cry to your mom about it, but don't try to wreck her relationship, she will hate you for it. It's very hurtful when someone new comes between siblings. If your sister was more mature, she wouldn't let this happen, but it does all the time. I'm sorry you are feeling this. If the boyfriend would pay attention to you and be friendly, it would also help. If he is trying to be nice to you, accept it.
Our dog loves my boyfriend more than me. What should I do?
I feel your pain - our Hamish adored my husband, despite the fact that I fed him, walked him and trained him - well, both of them actually - how ungrateful can you get? I have to say my husband is still not fully trained, but what can you do?The same was true with one of our German Shepherds, she would pass me by as if I wasn’t there to greet him - same thing, I did all the feeding, training etcetera. Bah!I think my other half hit the nail on the head though when he called himself “fun dad”. You see, we are doing all the hard stuff, all of which our fur friends have to put up with (like the brushing and cleaning), but there are no strings attached to the wonderful “fun dads” of the world.I suspect that your dog, and ours, see them as big puppies. Weird puppies, far too big, not enough hair, but great playmates. In terms of where they are in the pack, the answer is usually ‘under a big pile of puppies’. My hubby can’t get any of our dogs to do anything for him, though he fondly thinks he can.What we, the suckers like you and I, are getting, is the respect that’s due a mother. I bet you anything that Milou loves you too, just as much, it’s just a different kind of relationship. You have to appreciate it for what it is - a deep, understated love and tons of respect. Which is good - dogs need a leader figure, and without you she’d be very insecure. Learn to chuckle when Milou makes a fuss of the big puppy, and remember - you’ll never fully train him!
Is it normal that my girlfriend loves her mother more than me?
A wise person won't make it an alternative section, for one is the root that gives you life and raises the toddler from peeing on his pants to a handsome man and the other is the permanent mate who shares your life till death. Love both, do not try to make a difference.