Are my sister and boyfriend flirting or am i paranoid?
Im 16, my sisters 15, she's very flirty and i never thought she would flirt with my bf cause it's not something shed normally do but he's really hot, and my sister has an amazing body. I have a pretty hot body with big breasts and butt etc but I am admitting that my sister beats me in looks and that she is hotter than I am. I was in my sitting room sitting on my boyfriends lap and we were kissing, my sister came downstairs so i got off and went to the fridge for a drink, she sat next to my boyfriend, and she sat pretty near him, and he spread his legs open really wide and their thighs were touching. She was wearing Mini shorts and a tank top so her boobs were pretty out. I mean a guys bound to get attractive when a girl is dressed like that. I come back and sit back on my boyfriends lap to assure he's mine and he has a ***** (he's wearing sweatpants) so its easy to tell. Idk if its cause I sat down or if its my sister? Normal conversations happen and 10 minutes after he said that he has to leave for his wrestling training. My sister was like 'omg YOU wrestle?' (she knows he does). She was fake laughing and she said 'even i could beat you at wrestling so she just got up and was slapping his arm, he got her head locked up in his arms, so she grabbed his balls or penis, IDEK and was like 'thats how you get a man down, she got him on the ground and sat on his penis area and then they just both got up, they were laughing and stuff, he left and yeah thats it. Are they flirting?
Do some autistic people suffer from paranoia?
They can. It's a myth autistic people don't have or can't learn certain emotional responses. They just have them in a different way or need help identifying and expressing themMy sister is autistic. Because most of get behaviour is learned, not natural, she tends to get paranoid about doing it wrong.I'm not sure if it's exactly paranoia in the true sense but yesterday she was on Quora, read a bunch of those types of questions that make autism seem like a completely vile affliction. Vthe answers are even more disturbing, negative and give a terrible impression of the condition.Today, because of that, she's not going to work, is uncommunicative and demoralised regarding her abilities, fitting in and is sure people think she's a freak.
How to stop my mum being paranoid?
Ah, I know how you feel. It may take a while, but really all you can do is act responsibly, before you leave say to her 'mum, I'm going to ______ with ___ & ___ and will be home by ______. I have my phone so you can contact me if you need to.' Simple things like things should help. Don't argue with her, if she says no to something, just say, ok then, that will make her see you are mature. Negotiate until you find something that works for the both of you. Sit her down, talk to her, tell her how you feel. Tell her that you know she is concerned and you are grateful that she worries about you, but you feel you are grown up enough and mature enough to handle things and keep safe on your own. Tell her that your willing to do certain things to make her feel more comftable, like 'i'll call you at a certain time' and then do it. Prove it to her, prove you can take care of yourself. Hope this helps! (: x
Copycat little sister? Am I just being paranoid?
Try to calm down for a moment. She is emulating you 'cause she looks up to you. I had a little brother when I grew up. and instead of making him into an enemy I began to confide in him and made him an ally. We both grew up covering for each other because we became best friends. our parents never knew what was going on 'cause we'd gang up on THEM .. LOL!! Now, I'm in my fifties and still have this great relationship with my brother who is married and lives about 250miles away and he has kids. and I still have a friend long after our parents passed away. She looks up to you. she's not doing with the intention of pissing you off. This is your choice. You can either make the best of this and bring her to your side and make her your friend.... OR you can continue making her into an enemy and destroying any possibility of having a friend for life. YOU are the one that makes this choice. not her. She already made the choice of wanting to be friends with you. and before you think i'm just being a corny idiot. I grew up in a nudist family. we were always naked watching tv. and mom and dad took us to naturalist resorts on weekend where other families were there.... yes, naked. Me and my brother stuck close to each other. He was there when my boobs started growing and I was there when he had his first erection. I taught him how to masturbate. HE WAS MY FRIEND ! I looked out for my brother cause I wanted him for a friend and ally, so when he got bullied, I'd get with him and humiliate any boy that got in his face. We had each others back! he was only 2 years younger than me which sounded like a lot back then. And he tried to emulate me too. (I even put nail polish on his toes once.
My mom is so paranoid ?
she is always in my business and is always asking me questions!!! once i was painting a box with acrlic paint. it got on my fingers and i didn't know. then the tip of my nose started itching so i scratched it with the finger that had paint on it. when my mom saw me she freaked out and started asking me if i was sniffing the paint (incase u dont know, u cant get high off of the paint that i was using). and once she was looking through the history in the internet and opened a yahoo answers question that someone asked about drugs or something and mom freaked out again and started asking my sister and i if we knew what some drugs were and if we did drugs and that kind of stuff. i know that if i even think about doing drugs then not only would my parents kill me but so would my sister and friends. how can i get her to stop being so paranoid about me all the time??? how can i get her to trust the fact that i dont do drugs or anything like that?
My sister-in law she is very jealous paranoid and very insecure she's been with my twin brother a long time?
Im wondering how your brother feels about her actions and also if children are involved in this situation. She appears to have some serious issues and not comfortable and accepting with herself. She appears to have some trust issues as well. If I were you and I tried and tried to get her to accept me and make her feel wanted and secure in my family I would just wait till she becomes more open, however I wouldnt let her keep me from having a relationship with my brother.
Do I still have lice or am I paranoid?
So I had lice and my mom checked my hea and found no nits then I had my sister check my head and no lice or nits then I wash brushing my head with the lice brush and I found a nit and I got really sad and they checked my hair and nothing then like 2 weeks go by they keep checking my head found no lice or nits then I find like a flattish nit idk it was weird then I got my head checked again then yesterday 8-10-2018 I found a nit I showed my mom she checked my head nothing then my sister checked my head today and found nothing idk what to do but we find no lice and we haven’t found other nits!??
My sister is paranoid. She thinks people are watching her every moves at work. at home. at anywhere. Is this normal or she needs help?
Uh we are being monitored by the NSA (Nation Security Agency) ever since Pres Bush signed the Patriot Act into law. There are camera's on virtually every street corner all across this country. We even have smart tv's that can spy on us as well as our cell phones which can be tracked via their GPS. Samsung makes tv's that can listen in on your conversations record them and upload those conversations. Anything connected to the internet can be used to spy on us.
I am extremely paranoid because my little sister is going to start walking to school on her own and I have watched many documentaries about serial killers and rapists. How can I cope?
Your concern for your sister, is natural, certainly very genuine and she is lucky to have you as her older sibling.But, it is important to understand how entertainment works. The objective of movies, documentaries, even articles, is to thrill, to captivate, to make it an experience to remember and, as a consequence, things on the big screen are, whether good or bad, quite a bit more intense and magnified than real life.There’s a reason thousands and thousands of perfectly good, law abiding citizens, don’t make it into film scrips. It isn’t because they don’t exist, but because there simply is no story to enchant or captivate the audience with there.Look at it this way, millions of people in the world, myself included, suffer from migraine regularly. And yet, a film was made about a person that has schizophrenia and still won the Nobel prize. Why? Because one is an extra-ordinary story, worth telling, while the other is a common occurrence in this world.It’s true, there are absolutely heinous people out there, no doubt about it. But leading a diminished life, in perpetual existential fear, depriving oneself of experiences and independence….does nothing but stunt your life.You could stay home all 365 days of the year and be killed by a stray burglar after all, right?But you want to protect your sister- a perfectly valid concern to have.A good start to this, would be a calm, open and rational conversation about the risks of walking alone to school.The best way to achieve her safety, would be to equip her with the skills, information and guidance on what to do in all sorts of emergencies- medical emergencies, getting lost, being approached by strangers, that sort of thing.You could also encourage her to get together with a group of friends or travel with you, if she is very young.If you believe she is entirely too young to be walking on her own, you should make your concern known to her, to an adult (parents, teachers etc) in a calm, non-accusatory manner.Again, you are a lovely older sibling, I hope your love and concern for your sister never wanes!