Does she like me or is she just being a friend?
> The very same act can mean flirting or being friendly. So it’s sometimes impossible to distinguish on the surface.She might be friendly, without the intention to flirt, and you can still interpret it as flirting; then act as if you did interpret it so (= act flirty yourself). If there is chemistry, it actually *becomes* flirting, regardless of her initial intentions. You shouldn’t need to try too hard to see if she wants to play along or not. If she doesn’t, her initial intentions are clear (or she’s shy and/ or didn’t think about you that way - yet)She might actually be flirting with you. If you think so, there is a good chance she is. All you have to do is be light- hearted and play along. Be funny, positive and respectful (playful teasing/ antagonism can be in that category, though) and you will have nothing to lose. Immature (young or otherwise) women might not be able to deal with a friendly flirt and become dismissive, but that’s not your issue to fix.> Sometimes it IS possible to tell what her intentions are by reading her body language. This ability is a skill you have to practice. If you know the person well, it’s easier to do.Generally speaking, if she’s interested in you and wants to communicate it subtly through flirting, some general signs are: Looking at you often (briefly or not), sizing you up, looking at you lips - then the eyes - and possibly back, talking to you with her body faced in your direction, mirroring your body language, changes in her voice as opposed to her normal tone/pace of voice, abundant laughter even at your worst jokes, shyness, redness of face and many more.—-I would go with the first option and try flirting myself to check where the interaction is heading. Body language & mood reading will still be necessary then.
I fell in love with my friend, but she doesn't feel the same way. She wants me in her life but being there as just her friend hurts too much. I’ve tried distancing myself, but we both miss each other. What can I do?
Hi.I can tell you what to do because I'm in exactly the same condition.LITERALLY.So what I did.I took a day and explained my complete mental state to her and told her that I need her more than a relationship.I explained to her what she means to me.I told her that my feelings are on one hand and they can never come between me and her because she was scared to lose me as a friend.I try to distant myself, it hurts even more.I have learned to live with it now, you know why?Because, if I am honest with her about my feelings and If I am strong enough to stay focused in my own life even after being in love with her and still not being WITH her, only then she'll see me as someone worthy enough.Maybe she never accepts you as anything more as a friend, but you won't regret not trying.Just tell her once and if she tells you NO, back off.. stay normal and be a good and supportive gentleman.I joined the gym now, I train myself hard there and leave it all there.. Life goes on right?I'm waiting for her even now and a lot more.Hope for the best.
I Really Love this Girl but She Sees me as a Very Good Friend Only. This is hurting me and my Career. What Should I Do?
First of all.... anonymous is something....not my types....!!!Secondly let me tell you one thing very clearly, the day u'll gonna show that u are a soft hearted,caring, loveable guy....that very moment girl will friend zone or bro zone you....That's the reality.....no matter what you do for them....they'll never gonna see that and you won't be able to come out from that ZONE.Thirdly try to ameliorate your future my friend the day u'll be a multimillionaire or an IAS or something on high post....u'll be automatically out of that ZONE nd her love will arise automatically.I'm telling you through my experience.You can count on me for that.
She says that she sees me as friend?
If she said she see's you as a friend that means she doesn't want to date you and you saying that you love her made her feel really uncomfortable. From now on your relationship will be tough because even though she said she see's you as a friend everything will be awkward between the two of you no matter what. Sorry, but you can't change how she see's you, you're outta luck :( The only advise I have is give her some space (by some I mean a lot) and be a friend to her when she needs you, but only if she needs you, otherwise leave her alone for a bit, let things cool off between you two first.
If a girl calls me her best friend does that mean that I'm stuck in the friend zone?
A2A.The so-called "friend zone" is a myth as Buffy has quite rightfully pointed out. Heed her words. She's spot on with her answer.Apart from that: If a girls tells you that you are her "best friend" then that is NOT something second grade at all. It's an honor really -and you should see it as that. Do not ever feel downgraded because a girl/woman/man tells you this. Consider it as an excellent base to get to know her well and to display the very best sides of yourself -without hiding your own weaker sides. You want to be seen exactly as who you are -without creating some illusionary bubble about your personality. If this friendship will not develop into a romantic relationship then that can't really be helped. If your heart can cope with that, fine. A friendship with a woman is not something second grade either. But check and be truthful to yourself. If you can't get over being "just" a friend, then it might be better to distance yourself from her to lick your wounds. In that case I would advise you to level with her and tell her the truth about why you need to distance yourself. Otherwise she wouldn't understand it and think that you're holding some kind of grudge against her. You owe it to her as her friend to be open and honest about yourself and your feelings to her. Good luck! ;)
What does I wanna stay friends mean?
this girl I had many dates with and made out a lot told me that she cant see me as a bf though she really loves me as a friend and wanna stay friends. and we are going to hang out again when she comes back from vacation. what did she mean when she said that? does she really like me as a friend? I think she likes me more than that cuz we admitted we liked each other and we made out 2 days before the day and it was great and she was aggressive. I wanna make her mine and I think she knows it and she still wanna hang out with me. if we keep hanging out we might be in a relationship? plz help me I love this girl.
What does it mean when a girl says she values my friendship too much to date me? Should I just continue being her friend?
This is what it means in two parts…Part 1 of the reason why…You are too nice of a guy and behaved as suchYou’re early frame attitude was of a guy who hesitates and lacks courageYou did not sweep her off her feet by taking riskHer emotions weren’t captured, aroused and she could not see in her imagination you have any value of romance and sexual experience for herThe map of what a guy she’d be attracted to in behaviour did not fit with your behaviour you demonstratedYou spent too much time building comfort rather than attractionYou feared rejection and so you behaved as a friend to get close to herYou was too available and needy by doing things to see her responseYou looked for signals and hints rather taking immediate actionYou took took long and behaved like most of the guys she knows who do the same thing. So she categorised you early on as a…platonic friend for nothing more but to use your resources, time for emotional support like an emotional tampon.Sound familiar?Part 2 of the reason why..She has been getting emotional support from you so now she doesn’t want to lose it. Why would she do that when she can get your time for nothing? Then she can date someone else for just sex and then talk to you of how her boyfriend treats her so, so bad.She didn’t want to say no, but to pat you on the back, give you validation to lessen the rejection blow. Many guys couldn’t take a no and so they call girls sluts, bitches, whores and therefore, girls learn early on to say something else to avoid such experiences.She said it to avoid conflict and awkwardiness.It means…it is a rejection and do not ask her out again and to respect her wishes. Know your boundaries.If you want to be a friend, continue but do not do so like most guys, with this hope she will fall for you because it will end in disaster.
What does Lets start off as friends mean?
Well it usually means that they just want to get to know you.cause they've either been hurt be for and don't want to get hurt again.So they want to start off as friends to see if the relationship will lead to dating.and if there's not chemistry in the relationship then you still have him as a good friend.and i would talk a guy friend anytime.