What does it mean if a friend's mom says she loves me?
She blurted it out quietly to me. I'm not sure, maybe she just cares about me, maybe she sees a potential husband for her daughter in me, maybe she actually has an interest in me her self (seriously doubt it) but whatever it is, I was just kinda creeped out. No, I didn't think she wanted to get in my pants or anything. Come on, give me some credit here. I'm not that low.
She only sees me as a friend.?
For years I have been in love with a friend, I recently told her how I felt and she says she doesnt see me that way. She told me she once had feelings for me and said anything is possible in the future. What does this mean? is this just a way of letting me down gently because I would wait for her my whole life if there was a possibility. Its been so hard since I told her (a couple of days ago) and I can no longer enjoy anything I cannot even listen to music I love because it makes me think of her, everything I love in life makes me think of her. Can anyone give me some advice on this please?
What signs show whether a girl sees you as a friend or more than a friend?
if the girl can talk freely about her other guy friends, ur usually just a friend. but, if she likes to flirt, talk, touch, or hug you, it means she either wants to get to kno you better or likes you. if he's just a friend, i would usually talk to him and go to him for help/advice on guys. he helps me with guy stuff, and i help him with girl stuff. if i considered him more than a friend, then i would try to be around him as much as possible (w/o being irritating or anything like that). i don't usually flirt with guy friends at all, and i flirt ALOT wit guys that i want to get to kno more.
When a girl you love says that she loves you but loves you as a friend, what does it mean?
I will share my experience. I met a girl who said the same thing. We were best friends. She was very open and extrovert and talk to lot of guys. But it didn't matter to me much as I also consider her as good friend. Though there was always a doubt in my mind as she was standing on the overlapping region of my acquaintance and friend circle. We used to talk a lot and she used to say that she loves me alot and we will be friends forever and blah blah... I believed her. But down the line things became complicated and we got into a fight and after that everything changed. The reason is simply that she met one of her friend after 4 months they really talked and after she came back she told he is one of her closest friend and she loves him a lot. That caused some unrest in me that she used to say every person it was not a big deal for her. Though I was cautious enough not to fall in the love trap as i was afraid of rejection. However, she told me that she had developed more than friend type feelings for me. But after the fight she was like she didn't damn about me and worse thing for me to digest the coming fact that I never knew'd her even after more than year of friendship plus she never kept her any words. Fast forward ...to give out the blunt truth , it means she only needs you as for emotional support like at time of hugging, sharing feelings when she is depressed , no other person give her shit, or just for time pass and more for various world reasons. There is a possibility that dosent give a damn about you. I was frustrated with fact of being rejected and further of not knowing the person whom you thought of best friend. There was so thoughts clashes, assumptions etc that was just tiring. In time i realized it was just the waste of time and not worth that all. Universe have spent created 13 billion years in creating us, we just cant control it back. Only the wrong person teaches us the right thing. I will suggest you to keep things clear and set the limits as well. Give yourself the utmost priority while taking any strong decision. Just chill and enjoy various phases of life.
A friend thats a girl...invited me to meet her family...does it mean anything?
The reason I ask this question is because I am interested in more then just being friends with her. We talk everyday...we hang out...we get along very well...we joke around with each other. She lives out of town so we hangout as much as we can. She is definitely someone I can see myself dating and possibly more but I can't bring myself to ask her out. Fear of rejection or losing her as a friend, I guess? Just recently she was saying that she was attending a wedding shower for her sister...and she asked if I would join her...it was a joint thing for the groom and the bride. I met her mom and dad and sister...they all seemed to know me by name already...and seemed to know who I was. It almost felt like I was being sized up I got along well with her family. I was just wondering is this a sign that she may feel like wanting something more out of our relationship?
My friend bums cigarettes off of me constantly; worse, she likes to "share" my cigarettes!?
She professes to be a nonsmoker, only smokes when I'm around. Because she's not a "smoker" she doesn't see the sense in buying a whole pack. of course not. Most times she tells me she wants to "share" sucking off my lit cigarette because she could never possibly finish a whole one. Oh no. Then of course she takes full control of the cig. When I go to light another one, she says, wait. don't light another. I'll give this back to you in a minute. I guess I just need to tell her to get her own. Then of course I'm sure I would look petty and like the bad guy. I think it's some kind of control thing on her part and she likes to act as if i'm a big bad smoker and she's just "naughty" when she's around me. She makes it seem like it's no big deal because she only "shares" mine (which I find revolting). I haven't said anything yet because I'm afraid of my own temper. if anyone while we're out asks her for a cig, she refers them to me. Everybody smokes, but nobody wants to buy!