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Does The Vaunted Hospitality Of The American South Still Exist

Once again (though I doubt it will ever do any good)… Trump has never given ANY indication that he has a problem with all Mexicans, or immigrants in general.His statement everyone tries to hang him by, was directed at SOME of the ILLEGAL Mexican aliens sneaking into our country. Some of them ARE rapists, murderers and drug dealers. Sorry if that offends, but it's verifiable fact.Trump's stance was never about keeping ALL Mexicans out, ALL Muslims out, or blocking ALL immigrants. That is a deliberate lie told by those seeking to get him out of office by any means they can.What Trump (and so many like myself) are truly after, is making sure people get here LEGALLY, and that they contribute to our country (not take away from it), While being safe to our society. In other words, he doesn't oppose immigrants, he opposes illegal aliens, just as every other country on earth has the right to do, and does frequently.

There might be many stereotypes, but I think it’s pretty accurate. We’ve been taught to respect our elders, mind our manners, walk a mile in the other man’s shoes, and keep quiet if you can’t say anything nice.Sure, we get just as chapped off as the next guy when someone cuts us off in traffic, or behaves selfishly. But we are also helpful to people in need, and friendly when it doesn’t cost us anything extra.That’s not JUST a southern thing. We just use southern phrases while doing the same things that people do all over. I am always reminded of the line in the TV show “Due South” where a canadian mounty in Chicago would say, “See? It doesn’t take any extra effort to be polite.”Why Northerners Don't Get ''Southern Hospitality" | Reader's DigestBut yes, depending on which stereotype you mean, I’m gonna say that we sure do act just like that.

In contrast to what's here (surprising to me,) I'll say that Southern hospitality certainly lives on, except perhaps there's a gap in the generations. I've lived in most of the Southern states, and only left once. Racism may be a factor, but it's not exactly what you may think, and I've written about that here As a white person, do you think racism still exists in the USA? If so, in what way? But does blind kindness to all still exist? Definitely, although there's no guarantee they may not be talking behind your back. I did this to my car the other day, don't ask. And within an hour, 15 guys, a dump truck, and a tractor showed up to pull me out. Not a single one of them asked for any type of payment or groaned about being there. It took over 4 hours to get it out, and some only left because they had absolutely had to, but there were guys there until the very end. I knew only 1 of them, not even personally. But would they have done that if I was a Northerner? Black? Asian? I really don't know the answer. But I can say that it happened to a latino guy and they did just the same. The small-town mindset of the South is ever changing, but you can always be reminded that its there on more than a few instances. Outsiders will likely always be on a different playing field than people they perceive as close to home.

New Yorkers are rude, Southerners are nice and friendly, why was my experience so different then?

I thoroughly agree, New Yorkers at the instant are not that undesirable in any respect, they only might strike some as rude b/c they at the instant are not outwardly and overly friendly to strangers, yet this is somewhat now commonplace everywhere. Get to appreciate them and this is lots diverse. I even have acquaintances from the extra effective NYC section who're the countless nicest human beings you should appreciate. As for the South, been there many cases, and besides the indisputable fact that some all human beings is severe-high quality, it is likewise the two actual that lots of them in basic terms do not believe non-Southerners, quite once you're additionally not a white Christian (by Christian I additionally mean Protestant). they may be severe-high quality on your face, yet once you at the instant are not one in each of them, they do exactly not somewhat completely settle for you. additionally, definite it is likewise actual that to lots of them, the only actual whites are WASPs (i.e. Northern eu Protestants). hence, this is not surprising that somebody like Happiness, as a partial Greek/Spanish guy, and his Syrian buddy weren't seen as white. that could desire to be absurd the place I stay, or in a city like NYC or Chicago. needless to say, NYC has each ethnic team interior the international recent and that's a much extra tolerant place, notwithstanding if the communities are extremely segregated by neighborhoods.

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