Where can a fat guy like me get some fashion help?
I'm quite a well-fed chap myself and, although I used to be larger, it can still be a trouble to find good clothes.I can explain how I managed and some of these things may work for you. However you have to find a style that works for you and that you're comfortable in. I personally don't worry about fashion, I tend to go for classic menswear and tailoring because that is what I like. For you it may be different.Firstly, and I apologise because I know you know this, but it really is important; losing weight really does help. I lost 50 pounds last year by following the slow carb diet - made a big difference to how well I can dress.The secret to dressing well relies on three things - colour, cut and pattern. Get these right and fashion doesn't apply, because you have style.I used to make two mistakes that made me look worse than I thought. I used wear a lot of black because I thought it was slimming. It isn't. For most people I think it is more likely to leave you washed out. Instead think of colours that work for you and wear those. I also used to wear very baggy clothes, again thinking these made me look less fat. They didn't. I just looked fat and badly dressed. Replacing the baggy jeans with chinos, flannel and better jeans, and the sweatshirts and t-shirts with collared shirts and thin knitwear helped a lot. Getting shirts and trousers adjusted to fit properly made me feel a lot better.A £30 pair of chinos with £15 of adjustments done look and feel much better than a pair that cost 5 times that.I found a couple of good alterations tailors -one was a local business and the other was a friend of a friend who was handy with a sewing machine. I'd strongly recommend you do the same. I found that clothes big enough to fit my waist were far too large in the seat, the legs and the sleeves.Finally, look carefully at pattern. Generally I like to wear things that move the eye away from my body and towards my face - so ties and shirts for work or v-neck sweaters with a brighter shirt underneath for the weekend. I tend to steer away from clothes with lots of pockets or other details on the waist and I make sure I keep well clear of horizontal stripes. Vertical stripes, checks and plain colours are great however.Good luck with this, and do let me know how you get on - I'd be really interested to hear what you end up doing.
Guys help me plz! How do I know if a guy likes me?
If they stare at you alot, come over by your locker every day, theres alot of points. Eh..if he tells you is the most obvious one lol.
Does this guy like me?
so I work (not a legit job, I work in food) with this guy (let’s just call him John). John was a bit shy... of he just didn’t wanna talk to anyone. But recently he’s been talking more. Anyways, him and I are talking A LOT. We call each other bestie as a joke. Lately, he’s been trying to be near me or with me a lot. For example, we have 2 kitchens. I was placed in the back kitchen and he was in the front. He would always go to the back and he asked the manager to put him in the back. He’s been touching my back a lot and sometimes he touches my hair. He also gives me like these seductive eye looks. I don’t know if he likes me or not or if he’s just being friendly. Please help!!!
A fat guy likes me (HELP!!!)?
Well physical doesnt matter in the first place honey and fat people are the kindest type of people you will ever know all that ever matters is the personality they have And insulting him bc hes fat isnt the best thing bc its not nice and he could take his life away so the best thing to do is be kind and just tell him that you dont have the same feelings that he has for you
Do you think that this guy likes me?? He offered to help me with homework?
I think so. :)
I think a popular guy likes me.. Help?
Okay, so I'm not popular lol. I don't find my self attractive but my friends tell me I'm pretty and all that lol, and I don't really believe them. And of course, no guy has ever asked me out, or even liked me for all I know. And well, I can talk to some of the popular kids and hang out with them, but not all of them, so I guess I could be a little popular, but anyways, theres 2 popular guys and I think they like me. One jokes with me, and went out of his way to talk to me and he's nice and like I find him staring a me sometimes, and I can talk to him sometimes buy we don't talk much. Them there's another guy that we don't talk much either, but we talk during one sometimes, I find him looking at me, and I always help him with work and he doesn't talk to me much cause he's quiet but when I do he always talks back and doesn't act like he's better thane like the other really popular people do. And now whenever I'm in a room with him and his friends they always look at me am I can hear them joking and kinda poking fun at him for it. And then when me and the other sopranos go upto song in choir, his friends always whisper to him and start joking with him again and I find him and his friends looking at me too. Soo.. What do you think? Please tell me your honest opinions.
Does this guy like me??? He acts like he hates me but he keep staring at me...HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
Just go w/ the flow don't make a move or anything just wait and see what happens.
If an ugly guy likes me, does that mean I'm ugly too?
I have a hat. As soon as I bought it, my friend said“That's so you. If you were a hat, you would be that hat.”I showed it to another friend. She grimaced and tried to look pleased about my hat. “It's so you!” she said.“I know!” I replied.“It's so ugly!”“I know!”Three days later, I sat down and thought about it. Was I, in fact, an ugly person? If that hat was me, and it was ugly, does that mean I'm awful? Cue existential crisis.I asked yet another friend about what that meant. His reply was“it's so quirky and fun and unique. That's why it's so you. It's ugly but it reflects your bubbly personality. You're not ugly. It's just fun.”Looks are nothing once you see the fact that there is fun, quirky and unique parts to that person. Yes, they may look like a sunburnt knee suffering from elephantitis, but they also probably have a wicked sense of humour and a great understanding of something you're interested in.Don't be the ugly hat. Be the fun hat.
Help a mentally retarded guy likes me?
I was nice to him like i treated him like a normal person. other peple are mean to him or treat him like a baby. so now he likes me and he follows me around. the truth is he really creeps me out because he looks physically scary and i don't even like to talk to him because there's not much you can talk about with him. i just talked to him in the beginning because i felt kind of bad for him. well now he won't leave me alone and i try to avoid him but somehow he manages to find me. i don't know what to do. i don't want to hurt his feelings, but i really do not like to be around him. why does this always happen to me? these guys i'm just nice to start stalking me. and i dont know how to get them to stop. so could you please tell me????