How do you handle a person that dislikes you for no reason?
I ignore it. That gets to them more than anything. Eventually, they confront me and I tell it like it is. You didn't like me, so what's the point of me wasting my energy on you? I'm not the one that has the problem! I've run into this a few times, because I have one of those personality's where you either love me or hate me. No real grey area here. If they hate me, it's normally because I'm more of an extrovert then they are and I can tend to be a bit obnoxious and annoying sometimes, but that's just me. If you don't like me then ok! I'm not upset! I have also come across both mature and immature people. The mature ones just leave me be, but I know they don't like me. I can just tell. The immature ones are the talkers that make crap up and make me out to be a horrible person when really, I'm nice. Like, super nice. What everyone needs to understand is that not everyone's going to like you, no matter how hard you try to please them, so what's the point of trying? They have their reasons, so leave it alone. Now on the other hand, if no one likes you? I would definitely consider an attitude adjustment!
Why does the person who dislikes me always keeps staring at me? This also includes talking very loudly when I'm around so as to make her presence known.
This sounds a lot like the behavior that animals exhibit in an attempt to establish dominance over one another.Perhaps this individual feels threatened by you in some way. The animal response to fear usually manifests as fight or flight, and it sounds like your “enemy” has chosen the fight option. Examples of this type of aggression in the face of a threat in the animal kingdom includemaintaining eye contact, waiting for the other animal to defer by looking awaybaring the teeth (some people do this by smiling when they are afraid)trying to appear larger, by puffing up or standing tallermaking loud, threatening noisesYou may inadvertently provoke this individual further if you demonstrate any similar signs of aggression, or even by demonstrating signs of submission.
What is the quickest way to tell if a person secretly dislikes you?
I’ve had similar experience in the past and this is how i killed it;ME: I read a cute quote somewhere and I thought it’s very interesting.HER: Oh, really? What did it say?ME: Check this out.HER: (pause)…
Why do dogs seem to dislike certain people at first sight for no obvious reason?
I had a female Pit Bull named Sentia. Sentia liked every human she met her entire life, except ONE. My friend/roommate invited a guy she was dating to the house one day. Sentia went with me to answer the door. I could tell by her body language that she was put off by him. I didn’t see anything particularly alarming about his posture, gaze, etc and I turned to the side to let him in. As he stepped toward the door, Sentia moved in front of me and gave just a little growl. I said “Wow, NO” and held her collar to bring her to my side to let him in. He stepped toward the door again and she lunged forward (with my hand in her collar, ouch!) and very clearly threatened to attack him. At that point I said “look man, I don’t know you but I know my dog and if she says you can’t come in, I’m not comfortable bringing you in.” My roommate was very upset with me. She dated him for a few months and he turned out to be very abusive with morbid jealousy issues. At one point he was threatening to burn down my house because she broke up with him. As far as I’m concerned, Sentia knew something that I didn’t!
Do you really care if someone dislikes or even hates you?
I am one of those people who try to make everyone happy... always try to make people see the good in someone even if they are vindictive, hateful or hurtful people... whatever. But as I get older, I can honestly say no I don't care if there is that one person or two even that say they hate me, and even mean it... I am who I am and I live how I live, I love my children and my husband and my family, and if you don't like me, oh well. If I did something to piss them off, and they don't tell me- oh well. And like someone else said before me, it's usually jealousy. Experience wise, I used to try to please everyone, and trust everyone. I made a friend who turned out to be a hurtful person and I almost lost my family over them. So I have a gaurd up now... and if you don't like me, it's your loss... sorry.
Why do people automatically dislike me?
1) no one likes female landwhales. Blame media for that fact. 2) no one likes female pizza face. Blame media for that fact. 3) women don't like overly attractive women. Cause they envy you. 4) attractive + nice = even more envy. Cause they think you'll hitch up any nice/hot guy.