Dreaming About Looking Like A Boy

What does your dream body look like?

I wasn’t going to answer this, but then I kept seeing it and so I decided why the heck not.I’m not that attractive. I don’t spew ounces of confidence, I’m tall with fat legs, a tummy and a permanent double chin. Pale for an Aussie. My favourite parts are my boobs and my eyes.Once upon a time, I was dating a really horrid guy and we broke up, so I decided that I was going to go to the gym and I was going to be the hottest thing I could be and get him back or at the least, make him jealous. We worked together so I had that opportunity.I wasn’t the worst looking creature on the planet before I started working out, but in the course of about 3–4 months, I had the body I’d always absolutely wanted.Now to some people this may not be their ideal body of a woman, but I was pretty damn proud of myself for how far I’d gotten. I was able to wear little dresses and feel comfortable, I felt confident, I felt energetic, I felt wonderful and alive.About 6–8 months after this, horrible ex had come back and I’d stressed myself into a world of hurt. Anti-depressants made me gain about 20 kgs without even trying and then after that, I got really sick with Optic Neuritis. I was thrown on steroids for 6 months and my body just exploded.I went from a size 10–12 (up top) and 12-14 bottom (because I have rather large hips and butt) to a size 20–22. These are Aussie sizes, by the way.I stayed that way for almost two years before finally being off every ounce of medication I had been on, and starting to lose weight through exercise and dieting.Now, after about a 15kg loss, I’m sitting around this mark.It’s not ideal, but it’s a damn sight better than it was.My ideal body is my own and one that I was able to achieve and will hopefully be able to achieve again.Probably not how people want this question answered, but I don’t care. It took some guts for me to put myself out there like this, and maybe some other people will get inspired about it as well and not feel like they need to be a model or actress type in order to have the body they want.

What kind of boy is every girl's dream?

1. A boy who thinks you're the world.2. A boy who holds on as long as possible when giving hugs.3. A boy who whispers he loves you in your ear.4. When you cry, he kisses your tears away.5. A boy who says he loves you and means it.6. A boy who is loyal.7. A boy who will never judge you for how you look.8. A boy who is the same when he is with you and when he is withhis friends.9. A boy who tells you everything honestly.10. A boy who is good with your family and introduces you to hisfamily.11. A boy who will sometimes let you win.12. A boy who stands up for you no matter who it is against.13. A boy who will hold your hand through the roughest parts oflife.14. A boy who would love you forever no matter the circumstance.15. A boy with whom you can be yourself and he will never give acare and would still tell you that you are amazing to him.16. A guy who runs his fingers through your hair, like he's washingyour worries/troubles away.17. A guy who will call you just to say good night and say he lovesyou.

What does your dream man look like, and what kind of person is he?

Mentally or emotionally…He’s kind. Compassionate. Sympatico.He’s funny, definitely. I love to laugh.He can take a joke himself. Really, not being able to is a deal breaker. I'm just too darn funny.He doesn't mind insanity.He’d have to be romantic.I like pride.Ambition is attractive.Possesiveness, but not too, too much.Intelligence is hot.I have this thing… for geeks… especially history ones… if he can geek out with me, to me, or understands me when I'm geeking out… oh, yeah. Mm-hmm. Yes, please.I want to have to call him a tease, a flirt, or a flatterer at least once a week.He'd have to want to travel. Or not, but I'd have to leave him behind.I'm rather enjoying my fierce battle with a herd of imaginary goats, so if he has a few of them laying around that would be sweet.Now for appearance…He's got those laughter-filled eyes.I've always had a thing for brunettes and dark-haired men.If we're being honest here, I prefer tan skin. Maybe middle eastern?Lean body… not absolutely no meat on his bones, but not crazy muscular, either. Terribly sorry to all you gents with a freezer full of protien shakes.A smile. Oh, what a smile.And a few other minor details. Like, for example, he'd have to be 5'8″ or so, have an iranian nose, full lips, great bone structure…

Physically speaking, what would your dream man/woman look like?

Last year, British lingerie boutique BlueBella posed precisely this question and were thoroughly astonished by the overall responses.The most surprising result concerning women’s bodies is that men actually prefer women to be thicker throughout (BlueBella’s manager was particularly delighted to find that men actually prefer a woman to “have a bit of tummy”) - it’s actually women who have extreme (and fairly unrealistic) expectations concerning women’s bodies.Excepting for Harry Styles’ mangled do, women similarly have more realistic expectations concerning men’s bodies - men strongly idealize muscular bulk, particularly in the arms and torso. Women enjoy men’s muscles too, though they tend to favor tone over mass.Myself, I clearly break from all the above as I like my female lovers the way I like my sofas - well-upholstered with fluff in all the right places. Of course, more important than this is that she’s healthy and we share a true inner connection. I met such a woman on a dare, long ago - becoming one on her birthday and, thirteen years later, she died on mine.Wanting what you love is all well and good, but loving what you have is even more important. Whatever your partner’s physique, it is part of what makes them who they are - love is all-encompassing, and it is hypocritical to love someone and not love them completely.

What does it mean when a guy looks at you like he’s day dreaming?

It depends. Either he's looking in your general direction, or at you. Seeing as how I'm male myself, I usually daydream about whatever gets my interest. If at you, most likely nothing much. However, if he's generally nice to you and goes out of his way to make your day, this is a sign of attraction. If he's attentive to your needs, he could be looking for a simple relationship. If he looks at you directly in the eyes with a seductive look, then he is probably daydreaming about sex. This hardly ever it's the case, however. So really it depends on how they look at you.