I keep dreaming of beating someone severly!!?
"I'm not a violent person in reality." No, you're not. If any thing, you are trying so hard *not* to be angry at people who have caused you so much pain, that it needs expression somewhere, and it is finding expression in your dreams. The pregnancy is probably bringing emotions that you have worked so hard to suppress to the surface. Now that you are about to become a mother, you are confronted with all kinds of crazy feelings about your own mother. You may even be harboring fears that when you become a mother, you will be like her (I don't think you will, though) You probably also have unresolved anger about your ex, and hey, what the heck, let's grab some bully from school while we're at it, there's a lot of pent up anger here that needs expression. Especially mom. I'm sure that you cried, and grieved, and maybe felt guilty, and wondered if you had any thing to do with it, but did you ever get good and mad at her for what she did? Why did she cave? Why did she bail? Why did she leave you alone? Why couldn't she deal? I know I would have questions like that, if I were in your shoes. I feel it's really important for you at this time to get that out one way or another. Even if you just buy a journal, and write down everything you feel about your mom committing suicide, including things that made you mad about it, and also things that you were mad at her about that couldn't find closure over the way that she left, write it the way you would tell her if she were there in person, then burn it, and see the fire as releasing your anger from your spirit in a "safe" way. Do likewise with your ex, if you feel it's appropriate. Seek counseling if you feel a need, to help you learn how to express your anger. There is a time to be angry, just as there is a time for anything else... Pound pillows, scream at the top of your lungs, let it out! If you get mad at your mom, that doesn't mean you didn't love her. Of course you love her, and I'm sure you understand by now that she was mentally ill, and at least some of your problems with her could be because of that, but allow yourself to be angry at her for doing what she did, instead of getting help, and staying around to be a mother to you, and a grandmother to your baby.... Good luck.....
Can we really become the person that we dream about? (with hard work and determination)
That’s kind of like asking if everyone played basketball for 80 hrs a week can shoot like Stephen Curry. Yeah, answer is probably not. At least not exactly.Some people are too small. Too short. I’m too short. Too slow. Can’t think quick enough. For whatever reason, you just might not get there.You can become someone that has maximized your own talents, and I think you should very much try to be that person. It’s just that you should set a goal to push yourself but not to feel like your life is over if you don’t get to it.The point of a dream I believe is set a direction & purpose. A standard to measure and encourage yourself, not a standard to punish.Definitely work hard.
I'm just an average student dreaming of becoming a doctor. Is it hard to become a doctor?
No, its not at all hard to become a doctor. Believe me I've seen students from getting as low as 60-67% in (SSC 10)Maharashtra to getting AIR 137-450 in NEET with whooping scores above 500.Let me tell you my story;I myself am going to take up my first NEET attempt this year only by self study(Classes are a bulshit), I wasn't sure of my future career till October 2017, and fluctuated between Engineering, Veterinary Science, Mechant navy and what not. Finally I decided to put my hands upon MBBS and will surely crack it midway this year.I was a good student back in 10th with 94% but I wasted whole of my 11th and didn't care about studies, bunked college lecturers, didn't joined any coaching back in 11th and got as low as 67% in my 11th. But now I've committed myself ki “MBBS hi karna hai..warna kuch nahi.”Influenced by my decision one of my friend started studying and we both usually fare good in NEET mock tests with 500-550 average scores.But for all this to happen, you'll have to sacrifice many things such asInstagram account (It is much much time consuming and addictive)Facebook ( Once we open the news feed, we can't get over it)Whatsapp *( you've to sacrifice the time wasted by chatting nonsense with people who'll leave your life one day or the other)Quora ( I'm kidding, It will be helpful in guiding you towards the path of success)I dont know when are you going to appear for NEET. But believe me nothing is impossible in this world.*Some tips*Give enough time and read NCERT for Biology and Chemistry specially (Inorganic)Go slow for physics and physical chemistry and practice one type of questions a day!Don't spend much time on Mechanics ( Newtons law's, Work Power Energy) as they are lengthy and are time consuming with just 4-5 questions in NEETIf you find any topic difficult, leave it for time being, focus on the topics which will fetch you handsome marks with less efforts!Most important- Always keep revising the topics which you've learnt you'll definitely forget them within a week.Finally believe in yourself, set a target of a lesson a day or two and achieve the target within alloted time , If you fail to do so, dont stop and give up, instead focus on the next target and achieve it.All the best and hope I'll meet you as a doctor after 5 years!
I had a dream about someone was trying to kill me with a knife...?
So I was running away from someone chasing me with a knife and I tried to run, I was crying in my dream, the person was all in black chasing me, running towards me. In the end he got to me and killed me. I believe it may have something to do with my job... I'm trying so hard to do a good job but I think people just want me out after 4 years. I work as a cashier and my supervisor is trying to tell my managers every little mistake I make and write me up for it. Examples would be, getting credit cards... I have no control over that yet they always make me feel bad. I feel that somehow they are trying to write me up for every little thing.... it's not fair... I'm looking for other jobs hoping to find one before they fire me... but idk what to do. I'm trying so hard to do what they say but it's never enough for them. Could it be connected with my dream??
How to DELETE someone from your Dreams?
lol I don't think of this person in the DAY lol I do a very good job of of filling my mind with other things...However when I have no control over my thoughts their there...and when I awake in the morning I can remember every detail of the dream and this leads me to work even harder to keep them from mind that day! I got the whole keep them from mind...now tell what can I do to free up my sleep....when I get pass that it will be OVER!
What does it mean if I dreamt someone cut my hair?
Hair is often a libido symbol. When the hair is cut it could mean that libido, your psychic energy, is cut down. It can no longer sprawl in all directions, like the uninhibited immature thoughts of youth. Many young people have thrown away their lives by "running wild", or not maintaining focus. So it could mean self-control and responsibility, becoming more like an adult male. When nuns enter a convent, their hair is cut. They can no longer follow their own libidinous drive but must now follow the rules of the convent. This is what it means to grow up; it means to cut your hair, figuratively speaking. Most women never do that. They remain infantile all their lives. Luckily, they have in history always relied on the judgment of a man. Today, many women prefer to live alone. This is bad, because they have a hard time shouldering moral responsibility, and tend to remain in an illusory world. It may also have a bearing on spiritual life, as borne out by Gospel of Thomas, logion 114.M. Winther, Depth psychology and spiritual tradition
What does it mean to dream about someone you hate?
Unfortunately negativity is much stronger than positive. If there's a person in your life that you dislike strongly, many times you find yourself thinking about them even when you don't want to. People that inflict pain or are negative (which i am assuming is why you hate this person) are hard to forget. They affect us deeply and much more than we realize.What I mean by that is 10 people can cross your path in a day and tell you 10 positive things. Things like, you look so great today! Or, your smile is so beautiful? Or, Wow you do such a good job, keep up the awesome work!You can hear many of these wonderful comments, yet if ONE person walks into your path, snears at you and says, that is the ugliest shirt I've ever seen, guess which conversation you are going to remember the most? It will be the one about your shirt. Because you will be wondering why could they say something like that? You never did anything to hurt them, what right do they have to judge what you wear?So even though consciously you may think you are not thinking about this person, your subconscious is, and therefore can easily manifest itself in your dream state.I don't know why you hate this person, but if possible, try to forgive them and forget them. If you can't do that, try to find ways to divert your thinking. Especially before bed. Reading a book with a happy content can help take your mind off this person and direct it towards more positive thoughts and therefore a more restful sleep.
Is there any significance in dreaming of hugging someone who has passed away?
Earlier this year, a friend of mine took his own life. It has been hard for me not think of this person daily. I've been really depressed for over a year, so this passing has only added to my discomfort with life. Since before he was gone I would get really sad and start thinking about ending my world, and I still think about it to this day. I am full of guilt because I have seen and felt how the loss of my friend has effected our friends, families, and even his family. The other day, I felt especially down. I kept thinking about dying and how it could happen. I kept thinking about my friend, and how he died. I kept crying. I have trouble sleeping, so I took 30mg of melatonin that night, and I eventually dosed off. I must have been in a deep sleep, because I hardly remember my dreams. I vaguely remember this one. I was in a store that reminds me of Wal*Mart with a few friends. I don't remember if I saw my dead friend's face or not, but I remember we were walking around the store hugging. At first I didn't realize who I was hugging, but then I heard his voice. Once I heard it, I squeezed him tighter and a smile grew upon my face. He squeezed me back, and then we continued walking and hugging until we got to his car. His sister (who is a great friend of mine) was there, and she looked happy and was giggly. Two other friends were there, but they did not speak. They quietly got into the car and buckled up. I hate that I can't really remember this dream. I just remember feeling comfort from my dear friend who has passed. I haven't dreamt of him ever since his passing. Waking up was bittersweet. Does this dream mean anything? Are there any legit dream interpreters who would like to help me out? I hear that people who have passed visit you in dreams, but it doesn't mean that your dream has any significance... They're just visiting you, and not trying to tell you something...
What does it really mean when you dream of someone you haven't seen in a while?
This EXACT same thing has been happening to me. I've dreamt about one particular ex of mine for the last 2 nights straight. I can't speak for everyone, but because I am a Scorpio, I tend to have premonitions from time to time. And whenever I have dreamt about this person in the past, it's usually a sign that I'm going to be contacted by them or see them in person in the immediate future. We haven't seen each other in person in almost 2 years now, and it's been well over a year since we've had any communication. But we have this strange ESP bond...I can't explain it. And I don't dream about him very often, so when I do, I always know something's up. I'll give you a perfect example. A few weeks ago I dreamt about him for almost an entire week straight, and the dreams just would not leave me alone. On the fourth day, I was at work minding my own business, and my phone started ringing. It was from a restricted/blocked/private number, which immediately let me know that it was him, because he always does that. And everytime I would answer, he wouldn't say anything -- just linger on the line. These calls continued for 2 hours straight. He did this exact same thing before at my last job I had, where he would call the receptionist, ask for me, and then not say anything. But I busted him by answering the phone, and he started stuttering and claimed that he "had the wrong number." That was a bunch of BS, because he had previously worked there, too. So he knew the number like the back of his hand. ANYWAY...right around the time that I got these calls to my cell a few weeks ago after dreaming about him, the strangest thing happened. My current boyfriend informed me that he ran into my ex, because the ex went to my old job supposedly "on business." The facility I used to work at {and my current boyfriend works at} is literally an hour or more out of my ex's way, so I thought it was very weird that he would go out of his way to go to my old job like that. And apparently things were very tense between him and my boyfriend, because after seeing my ex, my boyfriend hasn't been the same since.
What does it mean if you dream of fighting?
Fighting can mean several things. One of the basic functions of dreams is to develop our survival skills. So in dreams you will often face things that are threatening. In those dreams having a fighting response is a good thing.If you are in a conflict in a dream then try to grab hold tight. The opponent with struggle hard and first and then ease up. If you look again at what you are fighting you may find that you are struggling with yourself. Y are dreaming that you are in a fight with your inner turmoil. Some aspect of yourself is in conflict with another aspect of yourself. Perhaps an unresolved or unacknowledged part is fighting for its right to be heard. It may also parallel a fight or struggle that you are going through in your waking life. If you are fighting to the death, then it refers to your refusal to acknowledge some waking conflict or inner turmoil. You are unwilling to change your old attitudes and habits.To see others fighting in your dream suggests that you are unwilling to acknowledge your own problems and turmoil. You are not taking any responsibility or initiative in trying to resolve issues in your waking life.To dream that you are trying to fight, but cannot throw your arms as hard as you want signifies lack of self-esteem and self-confidence in some area of your waking life. You are unsure of your next move. This dream may also reflect your actual state of REM paralysis during the dream state.