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I find this qoute exceedingly encouraging. It is all about the BELIEF.If you believe things are going to get better, they will. Sooner or later. If you put your arms down and sigh disparingly, pessimism will seep into your mind even more. This will complicate situations further.I will share something with you. I had always been the topper of school, college and university. Come 2013 and I entered into a domain which harmed me more than I could fathom in my dreams. Family issues and a whole lot of things crept in. Because of being weak and disoriented I ended up making decisions which were totally unwanted. I lost my friends (most of them) , stopped studying, became hopeless and irritated at the drop of a hat. I changed in ways I never wanted to. I went into a shell which did me more harm. The brightest student among her peers, turned to be an utter failure. Gradually with the help of a friend and with my self belief I came out of it. Not that I have achieved my goals but at least today I am don't carry the negative thoughts and pessimistic attitude with me. I love myself more, value myself more and trust God even more after it all. I respect my privacy and don't put my guard down easily. I know who my "friends" are. This phase taught me to believe more than anything else. If you have had some bad days, it is because God is busy chalking out the good days for you. Just trust yourself and keep going. This too shall pass.
What is wrong with him? <3 please answer really need advice?
Well i went out last weekend with a couple of friends to a club and everything was goin good until we noticed some guys in our year in college.. i really like one of them his name is john , i think he likes me but am really not sure :S anyway he was sitting down talking to his friend and sorta facing me. i could him looking, i looked away and looked away and looked back and he was still looking. we held eye contact for a few seconds. next out of nowhere his mate kevin came over and asked me would i meet john (as in get him for the night-making out) .. i didnt answer him and just said to my friend i dont believe him.. then john came over and stoood beside kevin .. it was really awkward i didnt even reply they just walked away.. i have a huge crush on john and didnt think he knew so i thought he was just making fun of me .. i wrote him that night on facebook saying how unfair it was what they did i basically thought he knew i liked him and just wanted to make fun of me :( so after i sent the mail he deleted me.. i was a bit shocked.. i was talkin to one of his friends and she got him to add me again and he apoligised saying "im sorry it was a misunderstanding" that he deleted me like and we talked for a few minutes about exams and study then he went offline and came back on. .. all my friends are saying that he wouldnt joke about something like that and that he would wanna get with me. anyway as the night went on he was still looking at me but he didnt come over even though i wanted him to .. i am not sure if he is interested in me or not :S what do u think? i tetx him lastnite asking where i stood with him i told him i liked him and he replied by saying "i tried to be nice to you but u still are da face off me on facebook" then he saidi know how it feels ta not have sumone u like ta feel da same but im sorry i dont im sorry thats just he way it is".. i am so confused right now if he doesnt like me then why is he making it look like he does , does he not realise what he is doing. should i text him again? we are going out tonight with few people in my year at college and he will be there what should i do? basiclaly i rejected him that night even though i like him because i wasnt sure and i was so sure he liked me too but now he si saying he doesnt feel the same, if he saying that then why did he ask me get with him?
EVERYTHING IS GOING WRONG. TIME TO TAKE THE EASY WAY OUT BUT NEED ADVISE?
im going through the same thing right now girl but trust me, you dont want to take your life girl just think of what that would do to your mom and your dad?? that is horrible and selfish, they will be miserable for the rest of their lives because you were going through a hard phase in your life. everything is going worng in my life too but you know what, i am getting through it. i could never do it that to my parents. please please please just get through this phase, trust me everything is going to get BETTER. please.
Advice, I have been feeling really sad and low about my situation.?
Know that God can help you live a better life if you want Him to help you. You can have a personal relationship with God by saying the prayer below. God is our Creator, all-knowing, all-powerful, eternal, holy, love. God loves us and sent us His Son, Jesus Christ, so we can go to heaven if we know and follow Him. Forever means without end -- time on and on without death. Forever is what happens after we die. Either we go to heaven and be with God forever, or we go to hell which is very bad and painful forever. The good people who are saved believers in Jesus Christ go to heaven. The bad people go to hell. We need to know and follow God in this world to get to heaven in the next world. We follow God by loving and obeying Him and loving others for Him. Jesus Christ, God's Son, is our bridge to God. Jesus died on the cross to cancel our sins. We need to accept Jesus into our life as our Lord and Savior forever to receive God's blessing and forgiveness plus go to heaven to be with God forever after we die. This is about being a born-again Christian. Faith in God is a gift from God. You can pray for faith in God. Just speak out and ask God for the faith to believe in Him and to follow Him. Some people find faith in God when they realize the beauty in the world is made by God. Evolution can't explain the world's natural beauty, for example, the parks in the world, animals, flowers, peacocks, sunsets, butterflies, rainbows, etc. After you have your faith on, you can pray a sinner's prayer to be a born-again Christian. This prayer is very important and should be said with a sincere heart and faith in God. This is the prayer: "Dear God, I know that I am a sinner and that Jesus Christ is the sacrifice for our sins. I have done the following sins (state these out) and I pray to discontinue these sins. I pray to receive Jesus Christ into my life as my Lord and Savior forever. In Jesus' name, amen." I'm Lutheran and I like the Baptist churches too. You could check out a Christian church and also see about their weekly Bible study group as a good way to learn about God's will for your life. You can pray to God about your daily life and have a Christian church pray for you.
Whenever in life, suddenly you start to notice that all the things are going wrong. All or any of the areas of life like your health, career, and relationships is facing a really bad and exhausting phase. Especially in the case where you can't really do much about it and you say 'These days are not good', 'This Month/Year is bad', 'It's a bad life', 'I am not lucky', 'God doesn't like me', Yes, that moment when you say "Why everything is going wrong at the same time?At such time one important thing which you forget is that 'You are the favorite child of God'It's just a natural, necessary and periodic process of clearing out all the bad energies, negative elements from your life.Now understand this from an example :When you clean a really messed up and dusty room, you'll notice that in the process of cleaning it'll look worse and more messed up. Things will be lying all over the place, there will be dust particles moving all around. But when the process gets over and everything settles, You'll feel you're in a beautiful new room. But the beauty of the process is that things will get messed up again, the room will get dirty and dusty again and it'll be cleaned again just like the god cleans up your life again and again.Understand the fact that you're just getting ready to enter a new phase of life which is full of infinite energy levels to give your best shot in whatever you want to achieve and possibly all the luck god can offer to support you. All the universal elements and energies will start working in your favor just like everything was going against you couple of days ago.All you need to do in your bad times is to be patient and trust the process.So whenever you face a bad phase in life, Learn from it and feel excited because the good is on its way.I hope my message was helpful and bring a good change in someone’s life.Please share it with someone who’s facing a tough time and let me know your feedback in the comments section. Thanks.Please Follow me at Sid Insider for more peace, love, happiness and life.Sid InsiderSid Insider (@sidinsider) • Instagram photos and videosSid Insider (@SidInsider) | Twitterhttp://youtube.com/sidinsider
Extremely depressed. Everything in my life is wrong. Any advice?
So, lately for the past 5 months my life has been going downhill and everything is extremely wrong and crooked. The past 2 years of my life had been the happiest ever and then one day it all started going wrong. My parents almost got divorced and in the process of trying to fix their marriage have become really different people. They both started smoking a lot and they don't care that I'm around and my dad drinks a lot and listens to depressing music that depresses me too. It's like suddenly I have to be the parent to them. Also, things financially have been going awful because our country is almost bankrupt and the chances of me going to study abroad, which has been the plan since I was pretty much born are getting slimmer. And this is especially depressing because my whole life I have been studying really hard to get the grades that would allow me to go to a good uni. And to top all that off I have been getting more and more introverted lately and I realized I almost can't open up to anyone except 2 or 3 people. That was one of the reasons the guy I liked started dating another girl. All this has lead me to be really depressed. I sit on my couch all the time when I'm home and I'm not in the mood to exercise or eat healthy. Any advice on how I can become happier?
Feeling really stressed.....advice please?
I just feel like any and everything that can go wrong or happen right now is. I feel like the weight of the world is on my shoulders and I have no clue what to do. I'm the one that everyone else looks to when they need help & encouragement and what good will I do if I need help? I guess it's my family/home life that's really stressing me out. I have a 2 year old daughter that I'm now working with an lawyer to get full custody of because her mother wants nothing else to do with her. I can't help but feel like it's my fault since we were young(er) and we didn't use protection and now my baby girl has to suffer for it. My fiance is 23 weeks pregnant with twins and of course she doesn't feel well. Again,me being stupid and not using protection so I got myself into this situation. I just hate the fact that she's going through all of this. My family(aunts,uncles,cousins & grandparents) are p!ssed at me for not marrying my fiance BEFORE we had sex. Not telling them about the pregnancy or even the engagement. Besides a few relatives all I get from them is negative feedback. My fiance's family just can't stand me no matter what I do. I can never seem to do anything right when they're around. They love my daughter & are excited about the twins but I'm like the add on that none of them want with the package. I wouldn't say I'm depressed,I'm just stressed right now more than I have ever been in my life. I won't say I'm a kid since I'm 23 but I'm not a real adult.....yet. I'm just really looking for some sort of advice(besides keeping my pants zipped....I hear that enough already). Thanks.
Yep ! Exactly my situation everything around me is going negative .let me list the thingsI told about my love to my father . Without even asking details he said no this is not going to happen.I was thrown out of my job because of a mistake I did without my knowledge. I tried to explain them but they did not give me a chance.3.I lost my mother.I am really going through the toughest situations in my life . I sat for one whole day in my room and wrote all the things which I can do to make my situation better. Then I picked the things which I can do . I started meditating . I started workout. I called my bestfriend and cried as much as I can until I felt better. I started preparing for new jobs. I did get depressed alot but you have alot of things which you can do . Life doesn't stop at a point where you have problems . It depends on how you fight with them.