Welfare, child support question?
I recently lost my job and right now I have Medicaid for my daughter I was getting cash assistance but I canceled because I didn't need it. But when I was on it they asked for all my boyfriends info for child support I only gave his name and last name and told them he was not in the picture and I didn't know where he went the only reason why I said that was because they would of tooken out alot of money from his checks and we wouldn't have enough for bills. Right now he's the only one working and I moved in with him. We are expecting another Baby and I want to apply for food stamps, and I'm afraid if I tell them he's back in the picture they will file for child support? Please dont judge me I'm on this for temporary till I get a job and go back to school. Looking forward for helpful answers thanks:)
Just got fired from Marshalls(retail), serious qurestion, what is a good way to get back at my ex-boss?
You can't do anything that would not have an effect on everyone else working at the store. Unless laws were violated, move on. Marshalls is not that great of a place to work. Since you still have a good rep with the main manager, you can still use him as a reference to get a better job. Anything you do to damage this will cause you more harm than anyone else. Give the main manager a call and tell him/her that you are sorry about what happened amd will miss working with him/her and verify that you can use him/her as a reference.
Should the government limit the amount of children a welfare recipient has?
There is this one girl I know who became pregnant at 16. No one thought much, things happen...she gave birth, and many government organizations helped her with her child. Fast forward about 4 years later, she's pregnant with baby #4 at the age of 20. FOUR CHILDREN at the age of 20, and she doesn't work. And no, don't you even dare tell me to mind my own business--you know why? Because it is YOU AND ME footing the bill for all those diapers and food. It's us hardworking citizens that take up the tab for all of that....and they just sit back and get pregnant over and over and over and over again for a bigger check. That money could be used for something much more resourceful, such as education funding. Shouldn't the government put a limit on how many children a welfare recipient can give birth to? This is just ridiculous! What do you think?
Restraining order against my ex's girlfriend, for myself and children and he is seeing her still?
I am in a similar situation. i never put a restraining order on her but i have no contact with my ex husband now because of her. when he comes to pick up the kids they go outside to his truck and when they come back they come inside. he never gets out of his truck to talk to me because she thinks there is something going on if we talk. He brings his girlfriend with him every time so to keep drama out of my life and stress we just don't talk. and when she wasn't around or they would break up me and my ex got along and we could talk about the children with no issue. this works out best for me and the only reason i would talk to him is if there was an emergency. I wish she was a little bit more mature because its sad that he cant stand up to her and tell her that the only reason we would talk is because of our 3 children but its not the case. sometimes you think you know a person and then they act like this. im sorry you are going through something like this. best wishes to you.
My ex wants our child's ssn, do I give it to him?
Here's the situation. He left about 10 months ago, hasn't paid much of anything since he left. We tried to work out an agreement, but he lost his job and about 8-9 months ago started dating someone else. She's now pregnant. He stopped sending any kind of money or diapers, ect... back in August. About October, I filed for childsupport. Had a court date the 15th of December. He left for Arizona December 10th. 5 days before the court date! He didn't tell me he was leaving, found out and ended up confronting him via phone cause he kept the same number. Him and gf went to AZ to live with his mom and make a better life for himself and his now new family. He messages and asks how our daughter is doing from time to time and sometimes, but rarely ask to do a Skype call. But still no kind of support since August. No words from the courts about legal support. I have been working since July, paying for everything (bills, everything with my daughter, food, ect..) by myself, with the help of welfare. Now my ex asks me for our daughter's ssn for Job Corps. It sound strange to me. So my question is, by law, do I have to give him her ssn? Also there is no custody set up. I've had her in my care, and neither of us of have gone to sort out custody legally. He left state. So I don't see why I should if he hasn't supported her in any way and hasn't been here to even see her. Someone please help me, I don't want to get in trouble for withholding her info from him, but he's always been untrustworthy and unreliable. I don't want him using her info for wrong purposes or anything.
My daughters fathers wants to reduce his child support payments!?
I just found out that I have to go to court because the father of my daughter wants his child support payments reduced. For 8 years he had no problem paying his $500 a month child support obligation and providing her medical insurance. She is 10 so he did not help me at all for the first 2 years of her life. Well, 6 months ago he quit his job where he was making good money to work at a place making $10 an hour. He stopped paying his child support and has lied to me several times about her insurance coverage. First he told me that he was paying the COBRA and she had coverage. Then I found out that wasn’t true. In October, he told me that he added her to his insurance at his new job, and again I found out that wasn’t true. My daughter had ADHD and visits her doctor on a monthly basis and needs medication every month (which she has not had in the last 6 months.) Her last appointment was on June 1st and I recently received a bill in the mail for over $300 from the doctor because her insurance coverage ended on 5/31! My job does not pay for dependents coverage so I am responsible for the full portion of her insurance (which is over $600) so now I have to get her an individual insurance policy which will cost me about $150 a month. I already work 2 jobs to support my daughter and me. I received my associate’s degree a year and a half ago but I am back in school taking more classes to better myself. I am also working on starting my own business. I have NO family where I live so I do not have a family support system to help me out. I do not qualify for any government help, including Medicaid or even free lunch at school for my daughter. Her father does have a 4 year old son with his current girlfriend who also lives with him. I just found out that she quit her job and is not working. She has 3 kids (all 3 by different men) and I’m sure that they all are covered under Medicaid and receive food stamp benefits. I do not feel sorry for him at all. As a man, he has a responsibility to support his family/children. He needs to make better choices. You don’t quit a job unless you have something better lined up! I’m nervous and stressed about going to court, how do I present my case to the judge so she can see that I really need this money?