A high school boy keeps following me?? really scared!!?
i am 13 year old in 8th grade and he is 17 a junior in high school which is right by my middle school he always follows me .this been going on for 2/3 weeks i don't really know him i just know he is a junior who goes to the high school next to my middle school and he is one those "bad boys " its so annoying and scary he always stands by this candy store which is right by the HS when i goto school and home i have to pass that store and he always stops me and tries to talk to me when i don't he always yell out "stuck up S!ut" and other nasty stuff and sometimes he touches my hair while i walk by so last week i went to school late cause i thought maybe he wouldn't be there my school starts at 7:25 and i went at 8 but nope he was there and Friday i had to stay late cause i had tutoring so when i was going home and he was there but this time when i walked by he grabbed me and said "i'm lonely comfort me " i tried to run but he wouldn't let me go he told me he was going to **** me today and if i didn't do what he was going to kill me i was so scared i didn't know what to say or move but i was saved when a car passed by i dont think the person saw us but he got scared and let my hair go and i ran home so fast i am so scared to go back to school now!! i never told my parents about him or about Friday i dont know why but i feel so disgusting and embarrassed to say anything to my parents i also have Social anxiety so its hard for me to talk my councilor or teacher .
I'm scared that this boy is going to rape me.. what do i do?
Ok i absolutely hate players so much!! - i just avoid them. Basically my school has this douchebag player, all the girls flock around him and even some of my friends!! Well i'm the shy/quiet girl, average looking - not ugly! and i'm not unpopular. I heard some guys had secret crushes and blah blah! Anyway this player - Jake, is in my class and started constantly flirting with me physically - so i went to him "listen i'm not your sex object or the slut you banged down the alley, so will you please get your filthy hands off me?" - This was the first time i ever spoke to him and he was shocked as hell and went bright red! But afterwards he started staring 24/7 - especially at lunch and everywhere... tried talking to me, yeah u get the picture... his girls mates HATES me!! Anyway after school i had to stay to do work and he had to as well-_- He started again and i said i actually hate you - but this time he pushed me against a wall and said "i may be a player, but you're mine - all mine! You ever try going out with another boy, i'll kidnap you and rape and give you me baby!" He eyes were serious as hell!! Then his smile came and he kissed me on my nose nd walked off... wtf?? He does stare seriously but is this his game? And he has millions of girls flocking around?? And i heard he also warned the other guys to never a move on me :S
I was beat up at school? What are he next steps?
I’m in 8th grade and live in Canada. That means I’m still in elementary school and have a home room class and teacher. At recess my other friend pulled down a kid in my classes pants. This kid that had his pants pulled is very agressive to me and sometimes others. He turned to me (assuming it’s me) and pushed me down, and started hitting me and punching and kicking and etc. My friends tried to stop but this went on for about 1-2 minutes. As you can imagine I was scared shitless. I have brouses on my arms backs etc. And my head hurts really bad. LIKE REALLY BAD! He was suspended for only 1-2 days at max and will return very soon. I’m super worried about his return. I’m like traumatized! I can’t saith classes this late in the year and can’t just “avoided him” we share a small class and he is super loud and we have the same friends. What do I do for his return. I want to stand clear but I’m honestly very scared of him. I mean I’m still in pain. Please let me know! I will reply to your comments! ❤️
What should I do when someone in my school wants to fight me?
First, remember that bullies tend to have ulterior motives. What they really want can range from respect, to attention, to excitement, to cathartic release.They are probably insecure and a little traumatized by abuse in the home. Many bullies are themselves the product of bullying. They’re desperate, pitiful creatures. And we all know that misery loves company. You just gotta show them that you’re not the kind of company they’re looking for.It’s kind of like negotiating with terrorists—if you ignore them, they might escalate the attacks, but if you give them what they’re looking for, there’s no guarantee they’ll be satisfied; if you stand up for yourself, will they back down or teach you a lesson? Even if you manage to win this fight, who’s to say their friends won’t retaliate? That’s how blood feuds start.Here’s some potentially bad advice, but it’s what I would do: remain calm and say nothing.Empty your mind and radiate inner peace. Don’t let them ruffle your feathers in the slightest. Keep your head held high, your back straight, your feet planted shoulder-width apart, and your eyes focused on their forehead.Be a little bored by their attempts at provoking you, but feel no other emotion. Just listen patiently, without even a hint of aggression. You have less than nothing to say to them. Why dignify such behavior with a response?Wait for them to completely finish their verbal attack and make their next move. If they decide to punch you in the face, take it silently like a champ. Recover quickly and return to the exact same position—head high, back straight, eyes glued to their forehead, utterly neutral facial expression (think passport photo).In all likelihood, they’ll get bored of you and move on, feeling foolish. Then, they’ll find someone else to pick on—someone who reacts the way they expect.
What do you do when you catch another kid bullying your kid?
We lived at an apartment complex where a boy was seen shooting at 2 of my daughters with an Airsoft gun. He managed to hit one of my daughters. I confronted the boy, who was about 12 years old. I politely told him that he needs to stop shooting at my daughters. I also politely told him that if he continued, I would not be so polite, next time. Shortly, there was a knock at my door. It was the boy’s mother. She practically punched my door in, screaming through my closed door. I called the police. They escorted her back to her place and talked to the both of us, separately. It sounded as if the police officers agreed with the way I handled things… no need to start fights with adults when a stern warning to a child should suffice.The following week, I received a notice that my family was being evicted, due to “not fitting in with the culture of the community, therefore we would likely be happier elsewhere”. We were given 10 days to find alternate housing and move out. Somehow, we managed under such short notice. But, as it turned out, the boy that was seen shooting at my daughters was the son of an employee of the management company that owned the apartment complex that we called “home”. Word of my stern warning surfaced and went to the property manager. I told her my side of the story, but my side did not matter… we were evicted, end of story. We moved out and they were right… we are MUCH happier not being at that sh*thole of an apartment complex…So, long story short… I dealt with a bully by confronting him and it got my family evicted. Seems that bullying runs in that family…
My new hamster is very scared and defensive, what can i do about him?
first of all, i wouldn't think about giving him away just yet, you havent given him enough time. 7 weeks isnt too old to tame!! yes you probably could take him back to the shop - pets at home in the uk have an adoption service for people who have brought their pets in for various reasons. you've only had him 4 days though! you need to give him a chance. for a start his frantic running im sure isn't him scared - its just how syrian hamsters are, very fast. in the wild, they would go out for food etc at night, and they are constantly looking and aware of things that might be out to eat them, its only natural for them to get their food and hide up out of the way with it once theyve found it. also, as hamsters are territorial, it may be best to buy a playpen for your hamster, and try to get to know him whilst hes in there, he may feel less threatened if hes not worried about protecting his home and food store. alot of people say to take time with your hamster and do things gradually, but i tried this and it didnt work too well, then someone told me to just go for it - pick up for hamster and stroke him, and soon he'll realise he will have to get used to you handling him. he will see you arent going to hurt him either. i'd say try to give him a treat as you're putting him back in his cage, so he knows to cooperate whilst out and being handled. some say if you try to win your hamster over with treats, they will be more likely to bite your fingers mistaking it for food! it's definately good to let him sleep during the day, thats natural for him, you would hate to have stress of being picked up out of your bed not knowing whats going on at 4am. it's the same for him. he's probably alot bigger because you had a different type of hamster last time - but usually people say that bigger hamsters - syrians - are alot easier to tame and handle - that's why theyre the most popular hamster to keep. i think you really just need to give things time and it will work out ok in the end. just try not to stress about it too much.