I feel like I'm losing my best friend?
It's been my experience that friendships go through seasons of change. People change, interests change and sometimes friendships drift for periods of time. If you are true friends, you won't lose her, but she might become close to other people. I would try not to be jealous or worry too much. Make an effort to connect with her and when she invites you to go do things with her other friends, just go ahead and go and be yourself and give the others a chance. Sometimes maintaining a friendship takes sacrifice and effort. Only time will tell if the friendship is one that will last, but since you've been friends for so long, I would make an effort to preserve it. Another thing I've found is that in life, sometimes best friends do drift apart so far that you end up going your separate ways, but there is always another best friend right around the corner. I am 40 now and I've had 3 best friends over the years. All of them were long term relationships, but they came to an end (except for current best friend). My first best friend and I have reconnected after about 28 years of being apart. We are no longer best friends but we have a deep affection and respect for each other. Seasons change, people change, it's just a part of the cycle of life. There is nothing to fear. If your current best friend moves on, another will appear and a new chapter of your life will be written. Best Wishes!
I feel like i'm losing my best friend?
I'm a freshman in High school, going into sophomore year. I've lost a lot of friends this year. At first I said "okay" to myself because I know people will come and go out of your life but I've lost so many friends, I only have my best friend. But now, I think i'm losing her too. I feel like she's being pulled into peer pressure and experimenting. She said she wanted to hang out with the people who hate me and go smoking with them. She was also invited to a party by my former friend that I also lost And she was so excited and bragging about it. What i'm trying to say is that, my best friend is turning into someone I don't really know, which is a snobby, self centered, and shady person. And i'm pretty sure i'm gonna lose her soon and idk what to do because If I lose her I will be a loner and that's depressing. What should I do? But it is what it is. I guess it won't matter because it's summer break so I guess I can make friends with the freshmen next year? :(
I feel like I m losing my best friend?
sometimes I'm accidentally mean... I don't know how to control it and I do apologize if it sounds rude. anyway, we haven't talked much this whole week. she only made conversation when we had to. I've been trying to say things but I'm too scared she already hates me! today, I saw her crying in the bathroom and I asked her what's wrong and she just slammed the door and walked away. I don't think I did anything??? but I did accidentally scratch her a few days ago... and when I apologized for that, she's like: it's okay. I'm used to it. what's that supposed to mean? I'm pretty sure I have no friends now, and I've been trying to talk to people but I'm too shy and awkward and I don't know how to talk to anyone really. I don't get it! and plus it makes me so angry because she has so many friends and she's so perfect and yes I'm jealous but I just wanna be her friend, but when I try talkin. to her she always goes to her other friends I don't know as well and talks to them instead!! she's been doing this for almost a year and I feel so sad And weak and helpless and lonely like I can't do anything. the last time we hung out, she said "why are you so good at eveything???" when in reality I won a game. I'm only good at video games and nothing else.. and sorry this turned into a pity party. this happens sometimes. oh and she always turns her back to me and when they're standing in a circle or something, I'm always excluded.
What is the feeling of losing a best friend?
Love is not painful, but the unfulfilled expectations when you become too much attached and the pain that it creates is sometimes unbearable. It is painful especially if your feelings are genuine and you love her to the truest of your senses.It kills you everyday to realize that she isn’t with you anymore. But the thing about love is, it is always unconditional. You love her because you want to, not because you want her to love you back. That's what love is all about. Just be true to your feelings and carry on with your life.Getting over someone you love truly is an extremely difficult task. Someday your heart will learn to live with it. It may not completely move on, but it will try to heal and live with it. The problem is to just silence the mind.I lost her not because I cared less, but because I still love her way too much.I lost her because my love strangled her.I cut myself off from her life because I couldn’t see her sad/guilty.I moved away because I still love her when she doesn’t have any feelings.I regret ending the friendship, but if that is what makes her happy, then I am happy to give that to her.
I feel like I'm losing interest in my best friend. What do I do?
This is not a happy time. However, I have had to change friends several times in my life as I changed. As I became a better person I did not fit in with my old friends. I found new ones and new interests as painting, writing, etc. I lost my life long friend from high school recently. It was sad because we had 50 years of history. However, we have different values today and she pulled out. Some people are here for a day, a season, or longer, but they always change at the right times.
I feel like I am losing my best friend (girl), what should I do now. I have no friend like her?
See Himanshu, we girls are really complex living organisms, what we actually want no one can no, not even we ourselves. So the only way out is talk to her.In relations, it happens that we think we know so much about each other, that their stragnge behaviour seems predictable and all we try is to think some mind-boggling reasons ourselves, rather than asking them directly. So, just speak out and don't leave the conversation till you get to know the"WHY". Let me show you my recent conversation with my friend when i was upset, and one of my friend tried to sort it up:He: Is everything ok?Me: HmHe : Kya hua hai ami?Me: NothingHe: Ok as you say.(Here, our conversation ended, he may have guessed somethings pinching me inside but couldn't ask up as i wasn't replying)Now again presenting such scenario, that used to occur much before, when we just started to know each other, few months back:He: Is everything ok?Me: HmHe: Kya hua hai ami?Me: NothingHe: Ok, ab bata kya hua?Me: Kahana kuch nahi huaHe: Dekh me ese to jane nahi denewala jab tak ye jaan na lu k tuje kya hua hai. So its your wish, either tell me up or i'll keep trying till you speak up(I was so overwhelmed by this gesture, but you see, girlish natural tendencies)Me: Umm, Na yaar sachme kuch nahi huaHe: Ok am calling you now, and don't terminate the call.(And i spilled up all the beans i had in my mind, that were upsetting me)See, as we got to know each other more, this got replaced with assumptions as shown in earlier conversation, so don't assume, she needs you, just go and talk to her, and if you two are really good friends, meet her and if she doesn't speak up, and looks upset, just give her a hug. Be prepared for some wet tshirt, in case somethings really wrong.
I feel like I am losing my best friend, should I tell her how I feel about her?
Sorry but I don't have enough background information to give any sensible advice. However if you feel like you're losing her perhaps it's already too late, and whatever you choose to do now might be pointless and will only make it look like sad attempts on your side to get her back. Chances are that if you're losing her is because she has already discovered somebody else who is filling more gaps in her life than you do at the moment, or fits them more accurately. Nothing to blame yourself for.Perhaps is just time for you to open your eyes and be alert to other people you may find that actually are better than her at filling your emotional needs at the moment. Provided that she's sort of absent. However I can share with you a song that will totally help you relate with.. perhaps send it to her in a romantic attempt. ;D Or this other one ...both awesome songs to cope with that feeling of abandonment. Hope you get to love yourself best and open your eyes for new people who might be willing to have such a spot in your life.
I feel like i'm losing my best friend to her boyfriend?
I feel like i'm losing my best friend to her boyfriend. We used to be so close and now it's just not the same ever since they've started dating. Like I NEVER treated her this way when I had a boyfriend? It's getting to the point I don't even want to be friends with her anymore... :( What should I do?? And even if I tell her he's the one causing this between us alll she'd say is Why can't you just let me be happy?
Feel like I'm losing connection with my best friend?
So I'm 17 (fem) and been friends with this one girl for about 3 years now. It's honestly been the longest friendship I've been in so far and the only one where I've been able to be myself with. On vacation with her I kind of notice how we are losing connection, especially since every vacation so far I tend to hang out with her sister and her friends because my friend for some reason isn't all that active and fun in public as I thought. Also as our friendship was developing we had very strong common interest in 2 things, but now as she isn't into it anymore it gives us less to talk about. I even try to get into the new things she likes so we have something in common but it's not my passion nor do I feel like I have to try. Our conversations are kinda boring and without meaning now, and even though I've always tried to deal/accept with her flaws it's starting to feel much more intolerable. I have tried to just go on phases where I'm not around her too much and it works but after a while either way we lose the connection. I feel like I wanna get over this friendship but it would be too hard for me because of all the things we've been through, and the relationship I established with her family. Any advice? I know you might say to talk to her about my feelings but we don't have the type of relationship to have convos like that because we've usually been carefree