When will I feel okay? I feel trapped in my mind, and that no one will ever understand the pain I’m feeling. I feel so lonely.
You will feel okay - and maybe even better than okay - when you get some professional help for the depressive state you are in right now.Questions like yours may reflect an underlying psychological condition that can be successfully treated by either (or both of) a therapist and a psychiatrist. You may be depressed and needing medication.At the very least, a visit to a therapist can be far more helpful than sitting there in pain, trapped in your head, and feeling that nobody understands the pain you are feeling.Your question to us is a cry for help.We can urge you to get that help, but only you can make the call and set up an appointment with a professional to get the process started.If you are young and still living with your parents, tell them what you are feeling and ask them to help pay for therapy. If you are an adult and living alone, consider joining several Meetup Groups so you can start socializing with others and make new friends.We’re living in a disconnected world, I get that. But there are many, many people who are feeling isolated and misunderstood. By finding just one person who can relate to what you are feeling, you won’t feel misunderstood across the board, and you will also be taking a healthy step towards feeling that you have some friends to hang out with.
I feel trapped or stuck for some reason, but am not. I just feel like it sometimes. Is this normal?
You’ve gotten several really awesome answers to your question so far.I want to attempt to answer your question in the form a short story, if you will.Let me show you through a lens maybe you haven’t been looking through enough.The world spins, spins, and spins. It is a constancy, a movement, a subject to change. In that, is such a constancy which brings us new life.Movement, is an ever flowing sensation, free of dissolution and contempt, with a moon that has the ability to peel back tides over its own watersSomewhere is a child holding a shell up to her ear. There’s magic in the sound, as the waves turn a whisper. The girl cracks a smile. The smile grows cunningly, and until the sound of the waves crashing gets so loud her once deceitful eyes widen as her cheeks begin to gleam, ear-to-ear.
Dreams of being trapped and lost?
I always have dreams of myself being trapped in a lift since i was 4. And i have been dreaming of it more frequently, it had been around 10years. Does anyone have any explanations for this kind of dreams? In my dreams, the place is not the same... it will always be different, but the same thing happens. Which is being trapped in the lift. Its really scary actually. I will also dream of myself running around in a maze or down a stair case being chased by someone, and it wont stop until you wake yourself up. and also being lost in some where you've been before but you just feel trapped and didn't know how to get out. All these dreams made me feel so stressed after waking up sometimes. Anyone knows what causes these dreams?
Four years in an affair... I feel lost and trapped... PLEASE SERIOUS ADVICE NEEDED... I am really hurting...?
I have also answered your questions about this woman many times. In my opinion this woman has mental health problems, like, totally nuts! Has it occurred to you that she might have sent you the messages herself, either to get a reaction from you or maybe in the hope that it makes you back off? She clearly thrives on drama. She does act like a slut and as for phoning 'bad asss' people that she knows, oh please, grow up! You want a woman like that in your life? If after all these years you still haven't been able to seal the deal and have an exclusive relationship with her you never will. What's the saying? She's just not into you.
I feel like I'm trapped in this relationship. What do I do?
It's a very difficult answer to figure out. I had a friend myself who was stuck with this psycho chick who literally stuck to him all the time. It was a total shit show with him having no freedom of his own, and lost his own personality. This was his first relationship too hence he took a while to understand what was going on. He wanted to get out as soon as he realized the reality. He sat her down and told her that he needed some space hence he wants to move out of the relationship. (for all folks that's the wrong way to deal with a crazy chick). The next day she attempted suicide. Now this was no more between two people, it now became a whole different local media sensation. That girl accused him of rape and for forcing her to commit suicide. And of course we all know how well those accusations pile on in front of media. He was sent to prison for a while but was later released when his parents hired some good lawyers and Paid a lot of bribe. However this sort of destroyed his professional career as he was fired from a well known bank after the incidence itself, and he had to join his father's business.The most important lesson that I learned was how he could have done things differently. Maybe he could have instead of being straight forward and ending it at once, could have gone for a much more passive approach like slowly drifting apart from her. Or something like informing her parents about the whole situation. Or talked to her friends about the situation.I am not sure what he could have done differently. It's a thing of the past and hence can't be changed now.Hence I would advise you to talk to your wise friends, a good counselor or psychiatrist (pay them now instead of risking payment in future). Also talk with your parents or elders as they have an experience of many years way beyond our understanding.
I feel trapped in my head? Please help?
This is quite a normal situation you are in right now. The problem is, when you think you are being judged, 99% of the time you are not really being judged. I think the problem with you here is that you are being overcautious about certain things, which is like to be caused by your lack of relations with other people. Not having any relationships with other people is normal. I must say that when I was younger I constantly find myself alone in my room doing stuff on the computer or reading books when others prefer to play outside. The thing is, there are a lot more people like you than you think. The reason why you can't see them is, likely, because those that are like you will make themselves un-noticeably, just like you will likely be doing all this time. Having coped with the fact you are not the only one significantly helps already, I would imagine. Being paranoid can be an outcome of many different things. I think the reason why you are overly paranoid comes from the fact that you are afraid of how people will think of you if bad things happen. The ultimate problem with you then, it would seem, is that you rely too much on other people's opinions. But the problem with that it, don't change who you are or avoid things merely because you are afraid of the opinions of others. Remember, those who care don't matter, and those that matter don't care. You are who you are, and although you might screw up sometimes for things, you will always miss your target if you don't even try. Having relations can be a bit more problematic. I think the best course of action for you is to be more outwardly. This can be done by doing things correctly or at least giving it a try. Force yourself to do it and ignore the consequences. Of course, only on things where failure does not mean bodily harm to yourself. Hard to do, but once done, being more outwardly towards people and building a relationship with others more than makes up for the hardships endured. I wish you best of luck for the future!
Am I trapped in my virginity?
I am 19, a student and I am virgin. I have been intimate with my ex but never intercourse. Now I am single for a little over a year and i honestly feel TRAPPED! because i am always horny and I feel that since I have waited so long that I feel pressure to stay a virgin. It's like will I lose it and regret it? should i wait until marriage even though I dont want to be married for years. i am not seeing anyone and my hormones are so not helping me. I feel obligated to stay a virgin even though I do not have any religious affilliation that says I should be. it is so diffucult because i'd feel more comfortable having sex with someone if I was not a virgin, but being that I am I feel like I have this expectation of keeping it. I am not looking for a definte answer, just any insight would help. thanks!
Someone help me out im feeling trapped and helpless?
im 19 years old i cant drive i don't have a job and my dad hates me for it. i cant support myself and he thinks im a worthless parasite. every day he comes home and makes me cry telling me how much of a sin im committing by doing nothing, that i have no respect for him. i feel the frustration it makes me want to smash something, i never do though. i keep asking for help but all he tells me that im big enough i should do it myself. the problem is i just don't know what do i feel like he took me to the middle of the ocean tide a chain to my foot threw me in the water and let me sink to the bottom. please some one just help me out i don't know where to start, what to do. i just need someone to help me out before i do something stupid, something ill regret.