Feeling Let Down by Ex-Girlfriend and Confused! Please Help Me!!!?
You gotta give this girl up. I know what you are going through, I think I must have gone through exactly what you're going through. If she is able to come back to you, then that'd be great. But the odds are against it, and you'll find peace quicker by giving her up totally. I know it probably kills you to see her now, all happy and without you, and all that. I know its torture, actually. But you are most likely not meant to be with her, and this energy between you two is just drawn-out stress. I know you are tired, probably never want to get up early or exercise, and all that... but since you are in business school, just force yourself to keep that whole thing going. You'll be so happy when you are done, and when your happiness returns you'll attract different, better, longer lasting girls. In the mean time, just cope and have fun when you can, but avoid this particular girl. She was put on this earth to test you and delay you. Get past it, I'm tellin you! Don't worry about being a "C" student, except for the fact that it means you have to work hard. That part sucks... but the grade itself really doesn't matter to anyone so long as you get your diploma in the end. You are in a rough phase. Don't expect ease or happiness right now. Just drudge through it. Like walking through cold snow to get to a destination. You got your mission and you'll get there. As far as the hole in your heart goes, that never goes away, with or without a woman. As long as you are on Earth, you will always have a weird feeling of separation from everything, except on the occasions where you are having a great group experience, like a concert or camping trip that is going great at the time. But right now, I don't think anything will make you happy. But I don't think you're doomed either. You just gotta get past this dark cloud you are walking though in the evolution of your life. Give up on this woman, and open yourself to receiving new women, whether they appear in 3 months or 2 years, doesn't matter really. Long as you just keep moving forward, in hard times like now, and easy times later.
Depends on the causes. If the depression is the result of some traumatic incident, writing privately about it helps you process and understand it and makes it a part of your life narrative. See Opening Up by Writing It Down by Pennebaker for more detailed info.Working out releases endorphins that elevate mood, plus one gets satisfaction regarding one’s discipline, getting into shape, and working one’s body.Another thing that can help if the depression persists is seeing a good therapist. If possible, find a therapist trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, since that has been proven to work. If a therapist is unavailable and/or unaffordable, try reading and working through these two books, which are based on CBT principles:Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy, by David D. Burns M.D.The Feeling Good Handbook, by David D. Burns M.D.Also, see this list: 81 Awesome Mental Health Resources When You Can’t Afford a TherapistResearch demonstrates Burns’s book is quite effective on its own, though better with a good therapist. Inexpensive secondhand copies are available at AbeBooks | Shop for Books, Art & Collectibles.The first book’s preface cites studies showing that the book by itself is more effective than medication by itself.The book’s forms can be found online, so they can be downloaded and printed. Example: Burns Depression Checklist is at https://www.jaxhealth.com/app/fi.... That checklist indicates the degree of depression.For depression that has proved resistant to standard treatment, investigate Transcranial magnetic stimulation. I know someone who used that and it proved very effective. It also seems to enhance memory: Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation found to boost memory
I can only relay to you what provides a sure comfort for me …. along with the love and support of family.1 Peter 5:6 “Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that He may lift you up in due time. 7 Cast all your anxiety on Him because he cares for you.8 Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. 9 Resist him,standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings.10 And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. 11 To Him be the power for ever and ever. Amen.”
When im making out with my bf, is it normal to feel this "down there"?
so this question is kinda personal..and sorta embarasing to ask. but oh well...i dont know any one here :) so im 16 and im dating my bf...this is my first REAL physical relationship..we probably will have sex...but not for a while... the other night we were making out, and got reallllyy into...like REALLY into it...he was on top and like rubbing his dick right against me down there.. (we were fully clothed) it felltt really good and i was super turned on..after like 3 mins of that in my vagina it felt like something was like...BANGING inside...kind of felt like a pulse.but i could feel it ALLOOTTT. i was afraid he would feel it, even though he probably cant... this is probably tottallly normal im guessing....but is it? THANKS
Is it normal to have no kind of feeling down there while having sex???
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I'm feeling really anxious and I can't calm down.?
I am sorry that you're feeling this anxiety. But I promise you it will eventually fade away. Try to identify what specifically is causing the anxiety. Also, pray about it. God loves you, and he doesn't give us a spirit of fear. Anxiety is just a euphemism for fear. But hey, I know what you're going through. I have OCD, anxiety, and severe depression, myself. God has truly helped me in times of strife. I thank him. Are you taking medications? I take 30mg of Prozac daily. It helps a lot to ease the anxiety and the depression. Are you having claustrophobia? I understand what it's like to need to get out some. Can you make a compromise with your caregiver? Offer to do her favors, and in exchange, she can take you somewhere so that you can enjoy yourself a little. Go wherever you wish- a book store, a mall, the movies. And offer her something- offer to wash the dishes, or do some house chores in exchange for her taking you somewhere. Tell your Mom that you are experiencing some anxiety, and that you really need to get out of the house for a little while. Good luck, and God bless!
! PLEASE HELP ME ! (Dear Muslims): I feel so depressed, down, and hopeless...?
Well I think you need to just step out and do some critical thinking. Ask yourself the following questions: 1) Why are you upset? 2) Is there anything you can do about it? - if yes, then do what you need to do to change your situation. If the answer is no, then change your attitude. Be content with Allah's (swt) decree. Be grateful for what Allah (swt) has given you. Self-pity is self-destructive. It solves nothing. Also, strive for the hereafter. If you strive for the hereafter, then what happens in the life of this world will be unimportant to you. You may die any minute, make the most of the time you have got doing good deeds, because only your good deeds will be able to save you in the hereafter. The longest time you may live max is 50/60 more years. That's very short and it will be over before you know it. In the meantime, do things that make you happy. Keep yourself in company with good people. If you can't do that, look after a pet or do anything that will keep you busy and happy. If your depression persists, you must visit a doctor for your own benefit. There is no shame in visiting a doctor/psychiatrist for these types of treatments. They will help you think more positively, its not all about drugs, you can get councilling. The longer you refrain from getting treatment, the worse it will become. Listen to this video it may be beneficial: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fQ4N3YWMAIk http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tG_nfG1N3uQ&feature=related Stay strong sister! May Allah (swt) ease your burden and your pain. Ameen.
It’s been an interesting experiment for me.Online, on Quora specifically, I post a lot about my life, and through the need to process my experiences and perhaps helping someone with their dilemma, I learn to heal from whatever it was that almost killed me in the past (more than once, really).I recently was confronted with a shock that Quora can’t quite help with, so I took it to pen-and-paper (with no name attached, and with writing style that can’t be traced to me due to personal nature of troubles).This way, I spent hours of pouring my heart out and hours of thinking about that shock/event, filling up a couple of notebooks over the course of a month.I had since destroyed my writing as it was not meant for anyone’s eyes.The result was liberating - lots of weight is off my soul and I no longer have to keep many troubles in my mind because they had been committed to paper (best uploading method known to me).The act of putting something on paper or typing it up is to label those emotions with words (and expand one’s vocabulary in the process) - it’s a way to organize feelings and through revealing them to your eyes, you will know what they are. Once you know what they are, it’s easier to manage them as they have been revealed and can no longer hide in obscurity of your troubled (by them) mind.It is possible that you will discover new things about you. It is possible that you will find that those feelings are pretty straightforward. It is possible that you can stumble upon a discovery.And it is possible that you will be appaled by the solution - at least, that’s been my case.Whichever way it goes, you need to know what your thoughts are and unless they are in writing, you will never get that answer.Ernest Hemingway — 'Write hard and clear about what hurts.'
Why do I get a tingling feeling 'down there' around him?
Ok... Me and my co worker have been flirting. He initiated most of it though. Ok... Sometimes he tells me he wants to hug me. But I say, "I dont like hugs, dont worry about it,"cause I usually help him out. Well... Today he hugged me. It was really random. He had to go, and I said "Oh you're leaving?" He said, "yeah" And than he gave me a hug.. I kind of felt his... penis the hug was really close if you know what I mean. I didn't know what to say but I felt this weird.. feeling down there. Im a virgin and I never really get this way. Whats going on lol. Normally I get that tingling feeling down there when he looks at me, or smiles at me. I try to avoid him because I dont want to do anything. But we are work mates..
Sound has energy. Your voice and body puts it in movement. It depends your resiliency and your individual coping mechanisms. Read the comments on YouTube for Asleep by the Smiths it's all horrible1, “i want to die listening to this.” “this is going to be my suicide song.” pop culture glorifies death way too much. Are you Sith? Listen to Hello i'm tired of the Darkside-Adele parody. It's sad as hell. If your parents are divorced. Listen to Y-o-d-a (YMCA ) parody song to liven your spirits young Jedi. And listen Darth Vader sing Bad Romance if you are a scoundrel.I broke down in tears last year while singing Time After Time by Cyndi Lauper afterwords i realizing how the lyrics related to me and i realized the processes of making hormones and neurotransmitters needed to feel an emotion and releasing emotion takes a tremendous amount of ATP the energy currency molecule. I felt my arms getting weaker while i sung. And had to keepswitching arms to hold the mic. I've got a mitochondrial disease. MELAS syndrome.Sad music resonates with a sad soul. When you are depressed you are more sensitive to sound you feel the lyrics. Don't Worry Be Happy is a sad song to a depressed person. All this horrible stuff happens in the lyrics. You are damn that is harsh man. I’ll pour you shot a whiskey. You need something hard to make it through the night. I don't recommend self-medicating your depression. Alcohol kicks in faster than medication. But has it's own side effects. Hang overs, addiction and autoaccidents.When happy you just dance to the rhythm. To Happy person you just tilt your head from side to side repeat in Don't Worry Be Happy like idiot robot caught or entranced by the rhythm.Nothing Bad Ever Happens to Me. By Oingo Boingo don't worry your bad times will come.Call if feel the pull of darkside.Suicide.org: Suicide Prevention, Suicide Awareness, Suicide Support no shame in reaching out for help.Peace (^_^)v