Feeling Guilty About Moving On . Help

How should I avoid guilty feeling and move on?

Figure out why you feel guilty. Try to reason it through - should there be any guilt associated with what you did or didn’t do? If you feel that you should have some guilt feelings, accept the fact that you erred and then forgive yourself. Try to think of a way that you could make things better for the person that you feel guilty about. If it is feasible, do something nice for that person. Then move on and put it down to experience.We all do things, say things that we should not have or should have done. If we felt guilty about every faux pax, then we would be seeing a therapist every day. Think positively and move on…

How do I move on without feeling guilty ?

HeyI guess you are feeling guilty that you are missing him after all this too.Well listen he never loved you and you don't deserve a guy who don't even care to know you exist or notWhen you left him,he was the one who have not made any attempt to stop you so he is fine without you too.In life it happens,we fall for somebody and give them a way too much importance ,and we need our own time to move on.In your case if you are stalking his Facebook profile,Instagram ,WhatsApp status or anything.STOP doing it .Secondly if you have anything around which reminds you about him,remove it as soon as possible.Also if there is some person who continuously ask about him or about your breakup ,ask them not to do so or if you keep discussing about it,STOP doing it.Instead of Crying for that guy who never cared about you,focus on yourselfDo something to improve yourself intellectually and also groom your personality,your looks.Show him what he missed and when he will hear about you doing better without him or when he will see you much better without him,then he will feel like a loser I promise,make him regret that he never reciprocated your love.And of course before meeting your MR.Prince. Charming ,you will have to kiss many toads so be positiveYou dont deserve a guy who treats you like that .If you are treating him like a king ,you deserve to be treated like a queenMany people come in life to teach us a lesson,you have to learn a lesson here that is to value yourself,never to give up on your life and never to cry or wait for people who don't deserve you ;)Take care and keep smiling :)

Should I feel guilty about moving out of my dad's house and into my mum's? I'm 15 and since my dad is pretty old, I feel like he will be very lonely but my mum bought a new house and the lifestyle at hers is much cleaner and healthier for me.

I wish I could give you advice but it’s not up to me. I would need to know much more to comment better. I think at 15 you may not know totally what’s best for you but obviously you are caring and realize that your father is lonely and older. I think you can come to s compromise without feeling bad or selfish. I admit I need to know more to give the best advice but it seems possible you can live with your mom but stay with or visit your father. Cleaner and healthier” seem key (to me as a mom) but love and regard for your father is crucial. You have that already but you need to consider yourself and your ability to do well in school and to enjoy life. That being said, it’s not your responsibility to look after your father or to help keep him from being lonely. That you care is commendable. You need to look out for yourself and take the best care because at age 15 the next years are so important.I know people who sacrificed their own lives to care for their parents, and that might seem laudatory but these people have many regrets. Sacrificing for others spirals our if control. I know someone who still takes care of his mother (and many others) though she has been divorced at least 5O years and happens to be with someone else now capable of caring for her. It’s all mind boggling to me but I guess taking on this responsibility became a lifelong habit for him. He forgoes his own happiness to ensure his mother’s happiness. I know others who have done that too to greater or lesser degrees.Good luck. I wish you well. Maybe a trusted objective relative or even a therapist could help you sort things out? It’s not easy to not get caught up in what’s happening with both your mom and dad. Without meaning to come across sounding harsh or selfish I hope you do what is best for you. I hope the adults in your life, including your father and mother, help you to do this as well.PS I don’t think you should feel guilty. I know how hard it must be to not feel guilty but try instead to focus on what is important to you for your future, such as taking the best care, and your education and studies, and doing well in school.I am sorry you have to go through this. It’s got to be challenging to stay out of it all.

How long should you feel guilty after moving on from a relationship?

Guilt is probably the most useless emotion we can feel unless it prompts us to do better next time. Even then, use it to learn and grow and drop it ASAP.What in the world is the point of feeling guilty? Does it change anything? No? Then why give into it?If you decide to move on from a relationship, leave the guilty feelings also. It’s not in your best interests.If your boyfriend is “torn up,” that is his responsibility to get over. Respect him enough to trust him to be able to do that. Honor yourself enough to know you made the right and responsible decision for yourself.Few things will steal your happiness today like guilt over things that occurred in in the past. Don’t let it.

Why do I feel guilty about moving on after my breakup with my gf?

My best guess is that you are a decent, compassionate, empathetic human being who truly and honestly didn’t intend to hurt your ex-girlfriend—however, at some point, you discovered that the two of you were not right for each other for some reason, so you did what had to be done. My second guess is that your ex is also a fairly decent, compassionate, empathetic human being as well, and that you recognize that she has value in this world.It’s perfectly normal to feel guilty whenever our actions hurt someone, even if those actions were necessary. I have, in my lifetime, broken up with many fine, good men, and I felt guilty every time. Not for breaking up with them—but for the circumstances arising that it was necessary. I have apologized to most of them, but I’m sure a few slipped through the cracks, and I deeply regret this.Perhaps in the future, you can tell your ex-girlfriend that you are sorry you ever had to cause her pain. Now might not be the time, but … maybe one day, yes?

Should I feel guilty for moving out of my parents house and into a nicer, cleaner place? Should I feel obligated to stay and help fix up their house first before moving into my own place?

Here’s what I hear you saying:I want my parents to have a improved living condition so I can feel better about moving on to a better life for myself.Here’s the thing. That’s a condition you can’t control.Many societies and belief systems indoctrinate us into believing we are responsible for the thriving of others, but you can only do for yourself and try not to train anyone else into believing they need to go through you to have anything good happen for them.Guilt is a lower level emotion that is letting you know you’re out of alignment.Your parents are grown people. They get to decide how they want to live. Good, Bad or Ugly it’s their decision.Accepting and allowing your parents to live like they’ve chosen to live, may be hard for you to watch sometimes, but if they are content where they are and with what they have why would you want to disrupt their chosen lifestyle?Wanting more for them, can be complicated if they are not willing to accept or receive an improved living situation.They might be perfectly happy this way and it could be insulting or it may even make them feel inadequate to suggest such a thing.If they’ve asked you to stay and help, then that’s different and you’ve got to decide what’s best for you. Would it give you more time to save for your own place and help them out too? Win/WinIf they didn’t ask you to stay and help then it may not be their expectation. You may be assuming too much and feeling guilt for no reason.You should NOT feel guilty for leaving them behind to move on to a better place for yourself! They get to decide how they want to live and so do you. Living in those conditions made you want more for yourself.It is NOT your responsibility to stay stuck with them, especially if they aren’t asking, trying, seeking or doing anything for themselves to improve their situation.Wanting more for them may be your desire, but you can only lead a horse to water but you can’t make them drink.Move on to an improved life and living conditions for yourself and maybe that will inspire your parents to want more for themselves.The Universe is abundant. Allowing and receiving your own abundance isn’t going to leave them with anything less. It’s there for them too if they choose to reach for it.