Why am i uglier than everyone else i see in school?
Feeling bad about yourself isnt goin to help at all..in fact..many people feel this way about themselves..i did..but the simple thing is GET OVER IT!! u are who you are like it or not you can try to change the way you look but it will never be as you want yourself to be... think to yourself..that your not ugly but beautiful in your own way..treat yourself to a nice hairdo if it helps and apply some make up for self satisfaction..do what you makes you feel better...without a picture i cant relli tell u wot to do..or wot u shud do..but..ive been through it and i realised..it was lack of self confidence!!also i realised i wanted beautiful skin..i started to use exfoliaters and face washes and now i cant do without...but it did help..and i felt better because i WAS doing something...even if i was ugly...that is the main thing..you cant expect yourself to become pretty you must make a change..and i no this myt sownd weird but.. if you become a better person inside it will affect the way you feel about yourself and the way u look!! if you need help:pwetty_pwincess123@hotmail.co.uk((i... u want help on wot to use..by sendin ure pic or ova help)) :)...xXx
I've been feeling fatter than everyone else...?
Hallie.........I used to compare myself to every swim suit model,every girl in every magazine.......and feel like s*it about myself.....funny thing is when I look back at pictures of myself at that age.....(my teens) I now realize I looked better then anyone I was comparing myself to....and everyone knew it but me........I used to trip hard on every little flaw I could find with myself...and then it started eating away at me....Seriously.....my biggest help was to stop buying magazines( ya know elle,seventeen...etc).....anything with airbrushed gorgeous women in them,and to stop comparing myself to others.....and I know its real hard at your age to do that.......but you have to find something that works for you,so you don't destroy your self worth....xoxo
HELP! Am I getting uglier as I age?
When I started high school at 14, I felt so attractive and I felt like I had a great body. I have always weighed about 110 at 5'1". Now i'm almost 18, and most days I feel chubby and sweaty. I feel like my facial structure is less defined or something. I don't feel like i am as pretty as I was as a little girl. Also, i am slowly putting less and less effort into my appearance. It seems like some people go from ugly as a kid to- pretty as an adult. Is the reverse happening to me? Will losing weight make me feel better all around? I'm still 5'2", but now i'm 122 lbs.
Why do women get uglier with age, but men get better looking?
LOL its coz women age much faster than men. thats y most men who marry a woman around their same age feels less attracted as they grow old. the woman will look older than the man. so its good to marry a girl 4-5 yrs younger than u. hahah lucky us we look younger for a longer period of time. lol the word ugly is a bit harsh though :P..they just age faster..not get uglier lol hahah u r really pissing the girls off! :P:P
My sister is prettier than me and it's killing my self-esteem. What should I do?
I should go ahead and say my sister is also prettier than me. And it used to give me a bitter taste in my mouth.I am the youngest one in my family, and as siblings, we look after each other. Well, normally the elder ones were in charge and had the responsibility to protect and provide the younger.So since I was a child, I was bitchy and demanding and I wanted things to go my way, including people’s affection.Everything went well my way for first couple years of my life, until I came to an age to realize who is the prettiest of all. I still tried to fool myself that I was still the best, and the most beautiful, and that’s why I am my mom’s favorite child. But that trick did not work so well with outsiders.My sister is astonishingly beautiful and everyone liked her. All the boys in schools and college. She had many male friends came to the house and hung out. Some of them were handsome too. And all of their attention went to my sister.I didn’t take that so well.I was jealous with her look. I tried to get people’s attention. I hoped my sister’s male friends liked me more than her. When they were trying to talk to my sister, I jumped into the conversation and started talking, trying to make them like me.I pretended that I didn’t care about her followers. I also acted mean to my sister. I hated the fact that I had no follower while she had a bunch of them. I hated the fact that she didn’t need to try so hard but people still liked her. I hated that she was a ball of joy, while I was grumpy the whole time.I wish I could tell you somehow I figured it out and I started to treat her well, but in fact I didn’t. Not until I grew up and I managed to nurture myself and my self-esteem.My sister is still breathtakingly beautiful, but she didn’t have a good marriage. She divorced and is a single mom while I am living happily with my husband. I feel sad for her.You see, if you love yourself enough, you will not need to worry about people’s affection. And you will not even care about the look. It is not about how pretty you are, but it is about how happy you are.Enjoy your time with your sister, feel happy for her pretty look while you still can. And DO NOT think about yourself as the uglier, which reduces your self-esteem as you are doing right now. Focus on what you have, build your confidence and knowledge.You are loved. You are pretty. And you know it.It starts with you.
Can pretty girls become ugly?
not be boast, but a lot of people and older people always say I'm very pretty. The guys in my classroom would say that, and so will the girls. I don't wear makeup, by the way. This summer i feel like I'm getting uglier. I'm an asian (p.s), and well, my eyes are getting smaller. Or perhaps it's just that my face is getting rounder (but i weighed myself and i didn't gain any pounds). My double eyelids folded somehow, and as a whole i feel uglier. pps I'm in middle school the puberty age. is it possible to get uglier? Or is it just me thinking that way about myself. (If you can please be thorough and informative covering everything i stated). Thank you!
Are there female versions of Elliot Rodger?
Not talking about the multiple murderer part but the lonely socially awkward girls that can't get a boy friend yet are reasonably attractive. I've seen Elliot's videos and its clear that he is lacking in social skills and has desperation written all over him. I'm not gay by many means but Elliot looked fairly normal and didn't appear to be ugly to me. Now I know that fat ugly girls are going to be lonely I am talking about normal to even attractive looking girls that are slim like Elliot. From a guy POV a shy but attractive girl that hasn't had any boy friends and would cherish a boy friend is what a lot of guys would like to find provided she isn't super clingy or becomes a stalker.