How Can I Make My Dog More Cautious Of Strangers?
Don't worry to much...dogs can sense a persons energy from feet away. It sounds crazy but it's true. If there is anyone near you that is not friendly he will sense it and act accordingly. Some dogs are a little more cautious then others, it depends on the breed and up bringing of the dog. One of my dogs will pretty much bite any strangers head off that comes within ten feet of our house no matter what, at least until he sniffs them and double checks that they are not going to hurt us. Whereas my other dog will bound up to almost anyone and love on them. But she is part shepard and they are very family oriented and will protect me if she knows I need protecting. She pe that when she about took my arm off to get to another dog and person who were not being very nice to us on our walk. Your dog can also sense your energy. If you are distressed she/he will sense it. They are a lot smarter then most people give them credit for. Trust me! :)
How do you feel about guys changing baby girls' diapers?
oh please. it seems ridiculous to me. My fiance has changed our daughter's diaper more than I have. He takes care of her when i showers, naps or whenever so its no big deal. She's completely safe with him. If it was a boy i'd still change him. Both my fiance and I play a big role in taking care of our daughter and does everything for her, the only thing he doesn't do, is feed her and that's only because i breastfeed. But he do give her baby cereal and what not now that she's starting solids, he gives her baths a lot more now, then i do because its so hard on my back. I still do it too, but its his bonding time with her and its super cute. However so far my fiance and I are the only ones who have changed her, she's nearly 7.5 months old, and haven't been left with anyone else so that's the reason why. Some guys do feel uncomfortable with it, not because of any bad or pervert thoughts. Simply because they are not used to it. Give him time and he'll warm up to it, if you keep doing it for him, he'll never get used it. Or have him watch while you does it so he can see how and what to do. The reason why people don't see it as a problem for a woman to change a boy's diaper is because women are mothers. Its the mother who gave birth, seen it all before, and takes care of her baby regardless of gender. That's how a lot of people would see it.
Does it mean something when a girl gives you a warm feeling inside?
First of all, unless she spiked your drink or injected you with something, she did not give you any feeling inside whatsoever! You did this all yourself...but you did it by default. The best that can be said is that something connected with her presence resonated very strongly with you and awakened a sense of warmth, sympathy, and perhaps desire. The common term for this phenomenon, which others have shared with you, is "chemistry".At this point, I add my voice to those who have advised you to try to get closer to her...but I would caution you about two things: First, chemistry is often the mother of the "halo effect" which makes a guy think, "Since I feel good around her, this means she's a great girl". The pages of history are littered with men who have discovered that all too often, this just isn't so - and many songs have been written about this unfortunate mistake. Your best defense against this is to be detached enough to inform yourself of her true character (this is a "strategy of the heart" taught in the Phase Two coaching program for guys who are dating or ready to date).The other thing I would caution you about is that sometimes the "chemistry" can at first be absent or neutral. However, the more you get to know the woman, the more her good qualities become manifest. Your appreciation and attraction grows, and you find yourself being able to relate to her very well, and you grow happier and happier each day around her. The danger here is that you might take a wrong turn and forego all this happiness that could have been yours if, at the beginning, you only let initial chemistry be your guide.I wish you my best.
Would you give a socially awkward guy a chance?
A socially awkward guy at my school acts really weird around me and out of the blue he tries to talk to me. He's a really cute guy, but just acts strange. Would you give this guy a chance?
Capricorn woman married to an Aquarius man...anyone else feeling my pain?
I know horoscopes and signs don't dictate how relationships work or don't work- just looking for something to talk about other than cheating and depression. So is there anyone out there that can feel the pain (in a fun loving way) of being married to an Aquarian male?
Why am I paranoid when my online date offered to pick me up?
I don’t give my address out online unless I’m staying somewhere that has some security, like an apartment I occasionally sublet in NYC or a hotel, where you can expect some security cameras. I used to give out my next-door neighbor’s address and tell guys to stand in the street; then I’d open my front door and get a peek at them before they could come in. I mainly wanted to make sure they were only 1 person, not a couple of jerks come to molest or rob me. And of course, there’s always Dunkin’ Donuts, which has weak coffee and stale donuts but offers a neutral place where no one gives a shit what you talk about.Being a woman, you should be at least as security-conscious as I, an old gay man. You can size a guy up pretty well at Dunkin’ Donuts without inviting him to your house. Or go high-end, to Starbucks, which has a little more privacy than DD.All of which is to say, yes, you should be paranoid, and if you aren’t, you’re missing some vital DNA. Giving your address out to someone who might be nothing like the person advertised is a mistake. At least meet him for coffee and check him out first.
Am I being paranoid or is my landlord being weird?
I have been living in a property for about six months, just me and my daughter. About a week ago my landlord came over because he wanted to meet me and see if I was looking after his place. Anyway, he came round and had a cup of tea. He was kinda flirty, but I just thought in a dirty awkward old manish way. He said "you are certainly the prettiest tenant I have" and when he found out I do dance classes he asked if I wore those "cute little outfits dancers wear?". I am 26 btw. We got on well, but in NO way did I flirt with him. Last night at about 11pm, he sent me an e-mail saying "I would really like to come over and have a chat with you tomorrow morning" to which I replied "I can't I have to go to work" then he has written back saying can we make it later in the week. Everything was fine with the house, in fact it was so clean and tidy he didn't even look around. The rent is, and always is on time and paid in full. Am I being paranoid? I don't like my landlord lurking around, I just want to get on with living here, there's no reason for him to come round and he could just e-mail me if there was a problem with something. What do you think?