Need some serious female advice please?
I think she likes me and I definitely like her back. I think she got scared of the girls I know and the fact I didn't really act all "head over heels" with her as every other guy does. Even then, it seemed like she wanted to give me a chance, but then started talking about girls really negatively and caused herself to get all confused and jealous. I want her, but I don't know what to do. I keep telling her "im single" "i have friends, but thats all they are" "i go on dates here there just like you do(or perhaps she lies about dating other guys?)" She keeps thinking im some super player (guilty by association i guess? my friends are all like that) with like mad girls. One time I made a very retarded, but obviously not serious, joke about how I have a girl every 10 blocks all around new york city and she got mad and started ignoring me for like 2 days. REGARDLESS, she has started flirting A LOT more in the last week and I've been getting at her for things and she has been acting really happy with me. She seems very "warmed up" to me, we have gotten pretty bold with the things we say to each other now (often sexual). Even in person she seem different, like she wants to be close to me.... I want to go in for the kill now before i loose my chance to some other guy or whatever. Please help.
Need female advice ..."all she wants is oral !" ..?
just got home from another disappointing date ...I really like this girl enough ( she 23, me 26 ) that I would do the fiance thing ...but it seems sexually all she really gets into is given oral sex...I have no complaint with that ..but not when its like 99 % of what she wants to do.....I think I can count on my fingers the few times she will let me have intercourse ...and its not because of no protection or the pill...she gives me this "oral fixation " reason as an excuse....but I am starting to think maybe I need to move on though it would hurt me alot....She makes any and every excuse to keep things oral....If I spend the night she gets me off orally...I wake up to the same thing...When I pick her up she starts with the unzipping me in the car or if there is some kind of secluded area like for a picnic, she's wanting to do only that....I don't know if she has some kind of mental fear of normal sex or what ...the few times we have full on sex she says its not a case of it hurting or anything like that but I can tell she can't wait for me to *** so its over....I ask her if seeing a doctor might change things but she says why if regular sex doesn't hurt her.....This girl has so many things that I like that I was hoping she might be the one....but something in the back of my mind says this oral thing is going to get to me eventually and ruin things between us....Any girls that know some about this and can help , that would be really great . Thanks.
Need female advice: Do girls lie about being interested in dating you?
I asked a girl out, she was busy that weekend, (and she was), so I asked her if she would be interested in going out with me some other time and she said "yeah, maybe some time". Does this sound like she's lying cuz she doesn't want to hurt my feelings? I've felt awkward ever since and found it hard to try and talk to her and she hasn't tried to bring it up. Should I just be a man and ask her again?
Female advice needed, What does it mean if a girl send "mwa" in text?
There is this girl i like, and a lot of times when we chat over mxit chat client, she sends something followed by "mwa" or just 'mwa', does it mean she might like me aswell of is it just the way females like to talk?
I need advice for my bisexual female friend. She’s afraid that if she comes out, that her dad will disown her. What should I say to her?
Coming out is a personal affair and just as those who do come out are applauded by the LGBTQ community at large, someone who fears coming should be protected and made to feel safe with her LGBTQ friends and straight friends as well. No one should be pressured to come out. She will know when and if the time ever comes.For some people in the LGBTQ community, coming out to their family or parents is not an option. People of some mindsets, simply cannot come to terms with any sexuality other than heterosexual. And while society at large should continue to make efforts to educate those people, some will never be able to accept differing viewpoints on the subject.What you as a friend need to do is to let her know that she is safe with you and whatever social group you are in. That she will not be pressured or outed, even in anger if there were something else that came between you.If I were you, I would say that she could think of me as her Rock of Gibraltar or Plymouth Rock. That come what may, she can count on you for privacy and discretion like the ocean can count on breaking on the Rock. Nothing will move or change you on this matter. And that her privacy is your privacy.
LADIES! my female friend is acting weird need advice?
Sounds like she is in love.....with YOU
Boyfriend is hiding female friends...need advice?
Boyfriend is hiding female friends...need advice? I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now. He's a great person and we have WAY too many things in common, it's a little scary sometimes. He keeps me at a distance emotionally, sometimes more than others. I asked him about it before, and he said that he has a wall up because of last relationships and things between us are going so smooth, it scares him. He apologized for pushing me away and has really gotten better at it. Now, I found out that he's constantly having conversations with at least 3 other girls through text messaging. None of which has he told me about. He knows I wouldn't have a problem with it, since I know about one of his ex's he's still friends with and I don't mind. Not only is he hiding these texts/conversations, he's protective over his phone now, lies about where he's been when I later find out it was with one of them, he won't invite me along when him and guy friends goes to visit one of the girls who works in a Hooters-style restaurant. I'm pretty sure that none of these girls know he has a girlfriend. Look, I know there's at least 1 of 5 reasons a guy hides a female friend: 1- He has feelings for her 2- He wants to be "more than friends" with her 3- He thinks his GF would be jealous (already told you that I don't care) 4- She likes him more than a friend and he feels guilty 5- Wants a girlfriend, but wants to be single I'm not concieded, but I am an attractive girl. I'm confident, and know when other females look good, and I'll say something sometimes and don't mind when he does, too. But, now he's gotten comfortable and says how pretty/hot/beautiful, etc. all these other girls are (on tv or in real life), and hardly ever compliments me (maybe 4 or 5 times in the last year). He knows I like him a lot. Maybe that's the problem. Maybe he's realized that I don't want anyone else, so he's loosing interest. I"m doing everything a good girlfriend should: I'm keeping him on his toes-I'm not a doormat, I support him, encourage him, compliment him and our sex life is amazing! We have tons of fun together, too. But, it's like he's not proud to be with me, is kind of strange about public affection, and it feels like he won't let me in. PLUS, the secret friends. What is your opinion? What should I do? I know a lot of you may say "dump him"! Don't be so quick, think of all the other factors, too.
Need advice for revenge on the other woman, can't let it go while she thinks she got away with it.?
Revenge is never Sweet. Let it go..........what goes around, comes around. She will get hers.......trust me. Be a bigger person than her, and let it go!
What advice can I give to my female friend that really need to break up with his violent boyfriend?
I can’t tell you how many times this has come up with multiple people and the short answer is, there is none. You can speak your piece, offer her alternatives, stage an intervention and not one thing will change untill she’s ready.Here is just one example. I used to be friends with a woman with a large scar on her bottom lip. She had been with her BF ten years by then and he had given her that split lip only a few dates in. So periodically she would leave him and then go back. I let her stay at my place once while I was away on the stipulation he was not allowed to know where I lived and she promised. Then I got a huge phone bill from a number on the pueblo. It could only have been done by him.Another time I got her a job but she simply sat all day, did nothing and quit.Her sister later gifted her with a wonderful large condo with the proviso the BF was not allowed to live there, another promise instantly broken.So she has no life outside of him, has alienated her friends and family, still gets beaten up regularly and twenty years later, is still with him. Her looks are gone, she can’t retire because she has to support him, his family leeches off of her all the time and nothing anybody ever said made an ounce of difference.By all means, try. Do what your conscience dictates as a friend. Just don’t expect much.
Really nervous Ragdoll female kitten?? Advice Needed.?
I purchased a ragdoll kitten last week - when we brought her home she had major symptoms of stress from the relocation. I have had her in my room with me and have waited to introduce her to the house and whole family, and my two other cats with fear of her reactions to it. I was thinking within a couple days she would be fine to 'let her loose' throughout the home. We spend a ton of time with her - all of us take turns (1 or 2 ppl at a time) to go up with her, cuddle her, play with her. I spent a ton of money on her wanting a ragdoll for their boosted about temperament. Sometimes she will fall asleep with me and the next minute run off fearful if I try to pick her up. I have a male Maine Coon and a male part Himalayan which I purchased when they were babies and they were never like this as kittens - they were super friendly and trusting (no running away or hiding underbeds) and to this day are the most amazing cats anyone could hope for. So my question is: Does a kittens behaviour depict their behavior as an adult? I spent the money on her as I wanted that wonderful rag doll temprament that I have heard about but I am just not seeing it...and it makes me nervous. I don't know what else to do to have her trust me and stop being so fearful. I am also not sure how to introduce her to the whole house with her having a nervous breakdown!