What attracts men with 'addictive personalities' to me?
You're a fixer. Maybe you think that if you can fix them then your worth will also improve. I went through a thing too, he never quit pot, therefore I wasn't good enough. It's totally irrational but it's kind of been reinforced throughout our childhood. I.e. "Beauty and the Beast," etc. etc. You want to make the bad boy good. And if you can't you think there's something wrong with you. I would suggest that the next time this kind of boy comes along realize that if you become preoccupied with his problems it's because you haven't the realization of self worth necessary to pursue a healthy relationship. And he is also not a good choice for you since you do deserve better.
My Observation Of The Aquarius Personality?
fyi its Aquarians...not aquariuses... and the sun sign is way to general... it's like saying virgos are all nitpicky and analytical... you must dig far deeper than the sun sign... basically what i am saying is. your observations are inaccurate because this day an age the sun sign barley says anything about our personalities...you probably made these observations based on a couple aquarians...it would be a bit absurd to believe that all aquarians fit your description...also...two of my closest friends are aquarians...and neither of them are how you described. it is not the majority of our personalities, it is the 'General' which isnt alway accurate...obviously the description of a sun sign says some things about us...maybe you are just an astrology noob, and I don't mean that in an insulting way...but I have been studying astrology since I was about 12 and im 17 now. seriously look more into it...I promise its fascinating. And you will find there are tons of different aspects that play a roll on our personalities... funny, because im a virgo...and I am the most unorganized, messy, scattered virgo female you would ever meet...upon first impression, most think im a pisces or a leo... my moon opposes my sun...exactly...my point... of course I say im a virgo, but it doesnt mean im exactly how virgos are depicted...if anything im ALMOST the opposite... moon sign reflects your emotions and intuitive side of your nature. In the Old Astrology, the Moon sign was a lot more important as the more general Sun sign... I believe the ascendant is the most important, then moon and then the sun. the sun represents our ego, identity and ideology...but the moon represents the mind and emotional personality which better describes an individual's "inner self". the ascendant is the most important because it sets the context of your horoscope and dictates how an individual's general outlook on life... the sun is only so emphasized in Western culture because of conveniency... sorry i guess i just dont understand your argument.. "gosh, you aries are all alike!"
Why are women jealous of females with hourglass bodies?
i am a 21 y.o caucasian female... in school, i was really self conscious and i had very low self esteem. i was an ugly duckling but now ive turned into a swan. for some reason, when my teenage years passed, i evolved into a prettier girl. and my self esteem improved a lot. my shoulders and hips are the same width and my waist is 10 inches smaller, i have been told that i have an hourglass body and for some reason i get vibes off other women that they are jealous. even when i was really ugly back in school, i was never jealous, and i don't get why women are jealous of other women with nicer bodies. can someone explain please. thanks.
Why are looks so important these days?
Im 13, and im fat, iv had 1 girlfriend ( on and off for about 2 years )so shes basically about it. I want to know why looks are so important! The girl i love ( yes, im 13, but i do actually love this person ) goes for looks, so those guys dont actually like her and treat her like crap! So once they break up she comes crying back to me and the rest of our friends and it reapetes. I know she ONLY like me as a friend because she made it clear many times. She has the greatest personality and she beautiful. WHY are looks SO important?! Its not fair.
Why am I so awkward around people? How can I improve myself?
TL;DR Think of awkwardness to be a disease , and awkward situations to be a vaccine. By infusing yourself with more social situations ( awkward situations for you ) , you'll ultimately kill the awkwardness. Let me tell you a personal storyIt's pretty normal , run on the mill kinds not the regular life changing stories you'll generally find on Quora.I am a pretty friendly guy and since my dad is in the Army , I've been to a lot of places and somehow met a lot of people. When I was 13 , I changed schools since my dad got posted to a new place and went to an all boys school. For 2 straight years , I was spending my entire day with 40 odd boys. For 2 straight years, I hardly talked to girls. I turned 15 and changed school again.I was now going to a normal co-ed school.I never realised that talking to girls would become a 'task' , an obstacle rather than a normal conversation.I spend one entire year being awkward around women ( very few of them realised this since I hardly talked to them , acted like I just wasn't interested ) I turned 16 ( decided I had to change) and forced myself to talk to girls.I make some of them laugh,I am sure I made some of them feel I was weird and I am also sure that I might have come off as a creep, because I did feel awkward.But I made friends. A lot of them. Most of them girls. I am 19 now. Whenever I tell people about my awkwardness a lot of them have difficulty believing it. But I know it was there and I know I've removed it , for good.The thing about awkwardness , social anxiety , feeling left out and all sorts of things like that is that it harbours on your lack of self esteem.You develop that and suddenly you're the boss. Change whatever you don't like. Just change it. You think you don't look good , work out , make a change.You think you are lazy , just take the initiative , do it.You think you are less interesting ? Read, do things , make experiences worth talking about. You think you are awkward? Create more experiences where your awkwardness comes up. Believe me it'll start going away.BE RANDOM. DIVE INTO THINGS. YOU WILL COME UP