Would you date an overweight/obese man?
I did, and would never do so again. I am an athletic, 120-pound woman that eats relatively healthy and stays very active. The man I was seeing was over 300 pounds. He carried himself well for the most part and looked maybe 250 pounds. We dated for 2 months, but his weight was always an issue in some form, mostly for him, and our lifestyles were just too different.He went from 400 pounds to 250 pounds at some point, but had started to regain the weight before we met. Of course, this resulted in horrible self-esteem and he was already fairly inexperienced in relationships. Other than this, he was perfect in my eyes. He is handsome, funny, kind, smart, and successful. I constantly had to remind him of this, but it was to no avail.He hated walking more than 2 blocks past his apartment and was particular about us going to his apartment, even though it’s much further from work for both of us, just because there was a tad more space. He would frequently talk about going to the gym but went once in the short time we dated. I saw his roommate ask him to go with him many times but he would always have an excuse.No big deal, I don’t particularly like the gym either but the nail in the coffin were his eating habits. He would snack all day if he could. On dates, he would get double of the most unhealthy item on the menu, usually fried chicken or pizza. His fridge was filled with sodas and alcohol; he said this was “a Southern thing” but I’d like to believe that not all Southerners have this kind of diet.Unfortunately, there are consequences to being obese. He would get out of breath from walking a few blocks, and don’t get me started on more intimate activities. He could barely hold himself up and I felt like I was getting crushed at times. My neighbors and his would give him crap about his heavy footsteps. He never felt confident and that made us both feel unattractive.
I weight 169lbs and im 5'1 am i overweight????
At 5' 1'', your weight should be around the mid 100s (105-130ish). Your weight of 169 lbs. puts you at risk of developing medical conditions and a higher risk of obesity. What you should do now is talk to your doctor about developing a weight loss plan suitable for you. To put it in simple words for you, yes, you are. You should concentrate on losing weight before it becomes permanent as you grow up. Being overweight or obese does not make your life easier. Don't you want to be able to walk for ten minutes and not have to wheeze or stop and take a break? You have to create a lifestyle change. Reducing the amount of fast food or junk food your body intakes is a must. Exercising for 30 minutes or more each day, whether it be walking or taking up a sport, is good for you. Exercise isn't going to kill you, but the weight will. It's dangerous and unhealthy to be that large of a size. More fruit and healthier choices has to be added to your daily diet. You can do it, have the willpower to shed those extra pounds.
Is 180 overweight for a 14 year old?
Yes, that is very overweight. Your ideal weight is between 115 and 125 pounds. However, DON"T starve yourself. Eat healthy and exercise. Talk to your doctor to find the right eating plan and exercise plan that's RIGHT for YOU. Lose the weight in a healthy way, the best way to do this is what I said, talk to your doctor. Keep motivated. If you have friends that are overweight as well maybe you all can start a group and help each other through the weight loss and then keeping the weight off. Good luck in beoming healthy!
Is it bad to tell your significant other that they are overweight???
a friend of mine is having a hard time bc her fiance mentioned that she's put on quite a bit of weight since they started dating 4 years ago. now naturally most ppl gain weight when they are comfortable with someone, but she is large and in charge... i dont really see anything wrong with him telling her that he doesn't like the weight gain...and i think that she should take off some pounds bc she's getting unhealthy. she's freaking out saying she wants to leave him bc of it---but i think if u love someone then you should be able to tell them when something is bothering you. now she says he wont sleep with her bc he finds her unattractive as far as appearance goes and she's got some odor. what do you think???
Robert Baratheon was very overweight. How did he defeat the Targaryens?
Robert Baratheon was a fighting God.Robert had incredible prowess during the rebellion, wearing a big ass antler helm, hugely strong and skilled at fighting, wielding a great hammer that would suit the likes of the Cleganes. Rhaegar injured Robert knocking him off his horse. We know Rhaegar was good on horseback. Once on foot though, Robert's warhammer was too much.And all we see is a sad, angry, confused fat drunk who gets killed by a pig, There is a reason for that.He was no Knight. He was no Lord in armour. He was a warrior to his core. To see him go to fat, it's the worst fate he could endure. Most people (in ASOIF and here) act like Robert was a just a drunken fool who was a terrible King.But that's too simplistic - Robert chose to be a drunken foolThink about it - he's a teenage Lordling living it up in the Vale with Ned and Jon Arryn.And then his teenage heartthrob is kidnapped (and he's literally a teenager, he's what 17?)So he's forced to fight a war for Lyanna and Ned, and because he has the best claim, becomes the King.And after this brutal war, it turns out that Lyanna is dead. And his closest friend gets mad at him (justifiably but still) and fucks off home.And whilst he's still grieving for Lyanna, he's forced to marry this Lannister woman, who he doesn't love and grows to hate.And he's surrounded by "flatterers and fools" who all want to take advantage of him. The conversation at Lyanna's tomb shows that he's self-aware. He knows that he's a joke and he wants Ned to be his hand, because Ned was the last friend he had.And he has a vicious bastard of a son who's a literal psychopath (Joffrey cut open Tommen's cat to see its kittens and showed it to Robert)It's no wonder he abdicates responsibility and goes whoring and hunting. He takes immediate gratification, because he really isn't happy. He's the King, but an absolutely miserable one.“Some men are like swords, made for fighting. Hang them up and they go to rust.”