How to deal with a self-centered, impulsive bride?
I've found that the best way to deal with people like this is to be very honest and open about what I can do for them, and set expectations at the beginning. So if I were the MOH, I would have a very calm but honest discussion about when I'm available to help with the wedding and how much I can do. Maybe you and the MOH can act out some scenarios together for practice? For example: Bride: I texted you five times on Saturday night because I needed help with the invitations and you're not doing anything!!! MOH: Sarah, you know I love you and I'm excited to help with the wedding. But it's not reasonable to text me on a Saturday night and expect me to be available at that very minute. In the future, I can better help you if you give me a few days' notice. If you still need help with the invitations, I can come over for 2 hours on either Thursday or Friday night and give you a hand. Get the idea: Start with love, be honest about the situation, and then make an offer for help that you feel comfortable with. Now, for the bride is telling you snotty things behind MOH's back, you need a different script: Bride: Katie isn't helping at all!!! Grrrrr. She's useless. You: I don't feel comfortable having this conversation behind Katie's back. If you need help, you should talk with her about it directly. My mom often says, "People can only take advantage of us when we let them." By setting boundaries, you will feel much saner in dealing with this bridezilla.
You're probably like me. You worry about appearances. You keep worrying what the girl might think about you if you say this, you say that, you do this, you do that, you look this way, or that way etc.If all that is true, there's a solution. [Not a simple one though]Boost your confidence level. [Everyone is like...ooooh! com'on!! we know that already, but how???]OK, here's what you can do:Find all your good qualities.Start feeling good about yourself.Stop measuring your success based on the amount of money you have or the education you have.You are not what your parents/friends/colleagues think you are. Ignore their demotivating comments.Look at the mirror, and talk to yourself, motivate yourself, build some self respect. [make sure nobody is around, lol...]Now, when you see a pretty girl,Tell yourself: she's just an ordinary girl who happened to be beautiful by accident. [giggles...good luck with that!!]Don't do anything to impress her. Just be yourself. [You need not impress anyone. You're already on top of the world, remember?? That's what you told me in front of the mirror, damn it!!]Make good eye contact. Make them feel shy. Crush their confidence level. [Oh yeah!]Wear a good smile when you talk to someone for the first time. Don't overdo it. Don't try to be serious. Just be calm and talk as if she's your cousin whom you see after a long time.And last but not the least. You end the conversation, not her. [That just feels like a celebrity, man!!!]Disclaimer: These are just my personal opinion. I don't have any studies or references to back them. :P
Having sex in a movie theater bathroom friday...any suggestions?
I think you're setting yourself up for a lot of hurt man. For one, I think she's into the rush of it, so once that fades, she might find someone else to feed that rush. Becareful man. Having sex is a big deal. Guys sometimes don't think that it's not, like I did, but it ended up hurting me in the long run. The best sex is in marriage, just worry about becoming who you are, like your job and hobbies, it might seem hard to understand now but you'll thank me later, but if you don't you might read this in a year and wish you had waited.
Perhaps someone could enlighten me on the abbreviations used in 'answers'?
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I had a three some on Friday. MMF?
yes, I have been in a 4: MMMF with hot military guys..... Yeah, sorry, it is really promiscuous. I enjoyed it a lot and think about it every once in a while but it is not something you want to indulge in. That was back in my wild days... I am a lot more tame now. I think you are just going through your freaky phase... all girls do it at some point in their life. If they say they haven't or will not then they are LIARS!
Is sex something special?
Sex is both something that can happen just because someone wants it to happen, and it is also 'something very special' that should be kept 'just between the two of them for the rest of their lives' ... and you are considered to be 'too young' for sex because you can't know all of the reasons why both answers are 'true' at the same time at your age, and you need time to 'mature' in your outlook before you decide whether to do one, the other, or 'both' in your life. Sex is a matter of 'choice' and also of 'opportunity' ... and I'm going to tell you the same thing I said to my sons when they were your age. Make 'best friends' with your hand. That can 'take care of the urges' you are feeling right now ... you're going through the last stages of puberty, and those 'feelings' are all of the new 'hormones' running rampant through your system. Your hand isn't going to care whether you 'stop' or 'continue' and it's not going to 'tell tales on you' either. Also, even if you decide not to have sex until you are 'older and wiser' and maybe with that 'one true love of your life' ... please be sure that you NEVER walk out your door without carrying a condom. Don't just 'slip' one into your wallet and 'forget it's there' because heat and time will 'age it' and it won't work if it is too old ... so buy yourself a 'large box' of them and put a new one into your wallet every Friday before you go 'out' ... because you never can tell 'when' you won't be able to 'resist' your urges, and you should ALWAYS WEAR A CONDOM with any 'young woman' until you KNOW that she's your 'one and only' and that you and she are both 'fully healthy and clean' and are going to spend the rest of your lives together. THEN and only then should you 'not' wear a condom ... and I think that for most boys, they should be at least 18 years old (legally an adult) and so should the girl ... but I know that 'things happen' and that you need to be 'prepared' just in case something does.