Out of nowhere, my best friend hates me?
he is a vampire and dont want to kill you
My friend has nowhere to go?
her family is extremely disfunctional, and she lives in a group home because of it. She hates the group home for many reasons (she's not a bad girl, its her family and EVERYONE surrounding her that ruins her life). she wants to leave, but her only option is living with her mom, who has issues...if that goes badly, which it very likely will, she'll have nowhere to go? what do i tell her, she's asking me for advice? anyone ever been or known someone who's been in this situation...i'm scared because she's one of my best friends and i have no expirience with stuff like this..thanks!
What should I do about my friend who has been kicked out of her parents' house as a minor and has nowhere to stay?
You have to contact officials at school - they are trained to handle such situations and are considered to be more credible sources of information than a minor.No, I am not dismissing your concerns but there are too many cases where a person is playing pranks, so school officials can determine the validity of the claim, and expedite it within the local law enforcement offices.You, on the other hand, can only wonder what had transpired and consider whether you knew everything that you thought you knew about that person: either this person can find it funny to torment you with such a situation or if you were privy to all the details of her situation at home.If you get involved into the situation, and it returns to be a hoax, you will be held liable for the damages and costs (SWAT team bill does not come cheap) or if it turns out to be a credible threat to your friend's life, you can inadvertently (by accident and not on purpose) either destroy some vital piece of evidence or interfere with the investigation, which returns to the same point: being held legally liable, and we are now talking about fines and possible jail time.Leave it to those who do it for living and who are trained in handling tough situations. You are, however, as a friend are responsible for contacting authorities to alert them of the issue.
Ex Boyfriend's little sister has cancer?
I think you should ask your friend if it's OK if you visit his little sister in the hospital, or ask him maybe the next time you see him that the next time he goes to the hospital you would be happy to accompany him. If he seems receptive to that idea, be sure and follow through and be available when it's convenient for him to take you. I don't know if I would take flowers, maybe a nice card, though. Sometimes people with cancer can get nauseated very easily, and the smell of flowers can bring on nausea. So maybe a card instead. And while you're at it, get HIM a card, too, one of those cards that says, "I'm here for you", or "If you need me, I'm your friend", sort of a card like that. That way he'll know that you care about what's happening to his family. If you get to know him better, another good thing to do for a family that's going through this, is find out about stuff they need done - when my dad was sick with cancer, my step-mom's friends from school (my step-mom was a schoolteacher) came over and washed their cars and did some yard work. Another friend of my step-mom's came over and did some housework for her, scrubbed the bathrooms and vacumed and dusted, since my step-mom was too tired and stressed and too upset to think about doing those things. It was so hugely helpful. So, if you know the family real well, think about going over there and volunteering to take care of their pets, or some yard work, or just wash the car. It's the little things that we do for each other that really matter. People don't forget the kindness when they're down or in trouble or experiencing something sad or scary. They remember who was there for them.
My friend got kicked out of her house after an argument with her mom and she has nothing with her, what will she do?
She will figure something out. Assuming she’s 18+, it may be the best thing her mother can do. I am guessing the house is her mothers and not hers. No matter how old you get, the must abide by the homeowner’s rules.I was “excused” from the home I lived in right after high school. I was homeless for a couple of years. I went to school for a while but lost my scholarship because my guardian would not sign my financial aid papers. I jumped from one friend’s house to another.It was a situation that I didn’t earn. I was a good kid given a tough break. Guess what? “Not my fault” didn’t matter. I did land on my feet, and I am better or it. It’s all about her determination and attitude.
What do you do when there is nowhere to go?
The question is tricky. If you have money you can go anywhere. If you are broke your options change. After paying your bills each month with little left over there are still loads of places to go. Depends on your age too, your interests.However, if you can access transport by train take day trips to your city and walk, explore what is around you, have lunch and be home for dinner. Browse bookshops, sit and watch the world go by in a coffee shop with perhaps a notepad or book or sketchpad if you can draw. Ferry trips if living near water.Evenings are difficult unless male. Take in a movie it’s quite fun on your own once you ignore everyone with a partner. Joining anything other than a library costs money, time and commitment that doesn’t sound like what you are asking for.If you are just bored with no money, no friends, waiting for someone to tell you what you can do leaves me to think you need some inspiration and hoping this forum will oblige you!If it’s possible where you live invite a few friends around to drinks and nibbles, to watch the footy or cricket or tennis etc., I find invitations to your home are normally well received. If your apartment/home is not where you want to invite anyone, there is an idea straightaway, make if presentable for visitors. You can forage around the stores or buy inexpensive furniture online.Have a small budget for catering for a few people, if anyone offers to bring a bottle, accept the offer. Deli’s do platters and supermarkets nowadays, doesn’t cost the earth. You might get an inviation in return.You have to make the effort. You won’t have to ponder on having nowhere to go when you make plans as suggested.
My husband let his best friend, who recently got out of jail, move into our basement. We have kids, and the friend gives me creep vibes. What should I do? He has nowhere else to go.
Let me tell you my story, then you decide.I was a single dad with my 4-year-old daughter, living a happy life. A buddy of mine who I grew up with, from 1st to 8th grade, called me from Dallas and said he was coming for a visit. I was really glad to hear it. We drank and shared stories till the wee hours and went to bed.I got up early the next morning and was making coffee, when my daughter came in and told me he had crawled into bed with her and was touching her. She was 4, I knew she was not making this up, and her little friend who stayed the night said the same thing. He was still in bed at this time. I became so angry, I began to shake and saw red. It was a feeling that I don’t want to feel again. He finally came into the kitchen all smiling and such. The only thing I could do, and just barely was able to do, was tell him, “Don’t say a word, run out the front door this instant as fast as you can. I can only hold myself back for the next minute or two. then I will cut your throat.”I called the cops, told the story, and they found and arrested him. The United Way sent a child counselor to my house, and worked with my daughter many times as we were going to court to prosecute. Luckily for my daughter, he plead guilty, got 5 years, and is labeled a sex offender. I was very, very lucky I held control, otherwise I would have went to jail for murder and left my daughter alone.That's my story. Do you want one of your own? Do you want the chance of a story of your own? I trusted this guy; he was a childhood friend; never would I have believed he was capable of it.But it’s your kid — you make the decision.