My (male) friend keeps asking me to hang out. His girlfriend doesn’t like, and they’ve had fights about me even though I’m not into him. I really don’t want to cause trouble. Should I cut him off completely?
Express to him your concern firstly. If he doesn’t understand why you stopped talk he may get;1) Worried and try harder to reach out which in that case his GF is bound to hunt you again2)Moody that he may have done something wrong to you which, he didn’t… and then his GF finds out and you know where this story goesHelping him understand the situation at least lets him deescalate the problem in a sense. His confrontation about the issue with his girlfriend may help her understand that it was his choice. And lets be honest here but if his girlfriend won’t let him see due to the fear of him leaving then clearly there is 0 trust in it and it was doomed to fail anyway.
Friend keeps asking me questions about my girlfriend?
We have been friends for awhile. He's helped me with depression when I had it. He began asking me questions about her and that was fine. Then he asked questions like "has she missed me?" "How much has she missed me?" "Has she talked about me?" "Are you two in bed naked?" He even made the comment "I can't wait until I get to talk to her" should I be worried?
My "friend" asked my girlfriend for nudes...?
I'm 15, a freshman in high school. I've had my girlfriend for about 2 months now and her ex, who is apart of my friend group, recently has asked her for nudes on a couple of occasions. She obviously said no and didn't want me to say anything to him the first time, but now I don't know what to do. Also, this "friend" has been a real dick to everyone lately and could use a reality check. I'm not going to beat the **** out of him, although I could if need be. I just don't know exactly how I should confront him about the issue because I have a feeling that if I do not bring it up with him, he will continue to be disrespectful to her and keep bothering her.
My girlfriend has a lot of guy friends. They always ask her to hang out alone. Should I be worried?
Thank you for the A2A, @Rochelle Thundercloud.I guess the best way I can answer this is to tell you what I myself would do if I were the girlfriend with a lot of guy friends who were asking me to hang out alone. I would politely ask my friends if my boyfriend could join us. If they said “yes,” well then, great. If they said “no,” I would decline their offer. If my male friends were just my friends and nothing more, I would hope they'd get to know my boyfriend and include him in our plans. If I had a male friend who said, “Hey, let's hang out today, just the two of us,” knowing that I had a boyfriend, I would find it inappropriate.I never had a lot of guy friends, but I had them here and there. I had a close male friend when I was in my twenties. He was unattached for most of the time we were in contact. Sometimes he and I would go to dinner together, just as friends, nothing romantic. When I began seeing the man I eventually married, I told my friend that I still wanted to have our friendship, but that I didn't think it would be appropriate to go to dinner alone with him anymore. My friend laughed and agreed, saying “Of course not! It wouldn't look right!” And it was never an issue.I know how it feels to be on the other side of it, too. At the beginning of my relationship with my husband, he had a female “best friend” who regularly invited him to do things, like parties at her house and going out with her to the bars, and she never extended her invitations to me. She also wanted to accompany him on car rides, like, say, if he had errands to run or places to go. She wanted to spend the day with him if it was his day off from work. From where I was standing, her behavior looked shady, and it didn't make me feel very good. It made me wonder what her motives were.I have also been the close friend of a guy who met a girl and began a relationship. It wouldn't have ever crossed my mind to invite him to do anything without inviting his girlfriend too. I think that inviting him to hang out one on one with me would have made it look like I wanted to be more than just friends. I would have felt like I was disrespecting his girlfriend, and I wouldn't have wanted to hurt her feelings or make her doubt my sincerity.That is my answer. I hope it helps.
My girlfriend is asking her guy best friend to select her bras. Should I be worried?
Worried about the fact that your girlfriend needs assistance selecting a bra? Or worried about the fact that he might have terrible taste in undergarments?If you're secure in your manhood, as well as the relationship, then who your girlfriend decides to ask about her underwear shouldn't upset you too much.On the other hand I am willing to bet most people don't want a third party, especially another male looking at their girlfriend's bras! Perhaps you should ask her if she thinks you've got poor taste in underwear and ask her why you can't attend the next bra shopping party?!! I'm not sure about everyone else but consulting with pals about my bra and panty set is a bit too close for comfort. I don't even allow my significant other(s) to come along.Oh by the way, she asked me as well. Gee, hope that doesn't bother you. Lol
One of my girlfriend's female friends has been asking her to hang out with two other guys. The problem is, they both know that one of these guys thinks she is attractive. Is it right for me not wanting my girlfriend to hang with her friend anymore?
Question answered: One of my girlfriend's female friends has been asking her to hang out with two other guys. The problem is, they both know that one of these two guys thinks she is attractive. Is it right for me not wanting my girlfriend to hang with her friend anymore?This is a tough situation to be in. On the one hand, you don’t want to stop your girlfriend from having her own friends, but on the other hand, one of her single friends seems to think that it’s okay for her to arrange a double date with two single guys and invite your girlfriend to be part of that double date.I would wonder a couple of things if I were you.First, I would be asking myself why this friend of hers didn’t ask you and your girlfriend to go out with her and one of the single guys? That would make me far more comfortable than the way it’s currently planned.If the two guys are inseparable, then what would stop this so-called friend to arrange a group activity with you, the other two guys, your girlfriend and her friend for a total of five people? Unless it’s actually a double date, what difference would it matter if there were three guys and two women?It sounds to me like your girlfriend’s female friend isn’t honoring the fact that her girlfriend now has a boyfriend. I wouldn’t be comfortable with that either.
My girlfriend asked me if i would like to have sex with her best friend should i do it?
Better yet...invite her too! That a way, if it turns her on you can get a trio thingy going on. You would be the man! (Y) Good luck! - Josh. (:
Guy friend keeps asking for nudes?
I am a 16 year old girl. My guy friend is 19. He keeps asking for nudes. We became friends a long time ago. He was my crushes bestfriend (he's like 17/18 now so it wasn't too bad with age). It's been two years since we became friends. I haven't seen him in over a year. He texts me everyday though. For about a month now he keeps asking for nudes. I've never sent them. I have a boyfriend. Which he says I'm so stupid for having and he hopes that he ends up being a horrible person (me and my boyfriend go to an online academy and met in the "classroom" so I know who he is). He keeps saying "I bet you send your boyfriend nudes." Well yeah. I have the right to decide who sees my body. I've never sent anyone nudes, I'm still a virgin and never even had a first kiss. The more I say no the more forceful he gets. I don't want to call the cops. I know he's a good person. He is friends with the popular kids. They always have really pretty girlfriends. And he always comments on how he wishes he had one. And he's very over weight. I'm talking by at least 100 pounds. And he has a unibrow. He's very unhygienic. He complains that's why I never go see him anymore, but it's really cause I'm scared. I've tried to compromise. I go to the gym every single day for five hours for crossfit. I offered to bring him. He said no because people who work out have no lives. I thought maybe new found confidence would help. But it's not worth it. How to end the friendship? He can't just keep asking for nudes.
Guy trying to ask my girlfriend out?
Hello and thanks in advance. Okay this guy who is my girlfriend co-worker is really pissing me off. He keeps on texting her asking to "chill' when are they going to hang out. I got a little suspicious of things when she woulfd come home and be quiet. I noticed her phone was ringing one night at 2 am. and then she got a text. this dude ask her why she wouldn't "chill" with him and keeps asking her questions. I confronted her about it and she says she told him to back off. But then it happened again, this time he ask for a "friendly double date" that his boy like her co-worker. She didn't mention anything to me until I confronted her. She said that she told him no, but yet I noticed conversations over text message and she has him as a friend on social websites. To my understanding a guy wouldn't be this persistent unless she gave him a signal, so I am upset and confused. We have a 1 year old baby. If she says she told him to back off then why is she still texting him? and she starts o get defensive and throw up old things at me to change the topic. Is she telling me the truth? should I "press" this dude to back off? or should I end this now and save myself the headache.? If anyone went thru this and can tell me how they solved it or give good advice is munch appreciated. Thank you.