Do I have the right to be angry? My best friend's wedding.....PLEASE give me INPUT!! I'm yielding!?
My best friend from college is getting married...I was super excited for that...but her and her fiancé chose only a small number of people to come (60) to her wedding...that does not include my bf. They don't like him...I found it rude that they would not allow me to bring him after we have been together for over a year (not the point). Anyway...her wedding is 2 weeks away and she did not have ANYTHING together...no caterer, wedding planner, ceremony order, colors of the wedding, nothing. Her own parents won't even be there (for separate reasons), but I had the heart to help her...but her mind is on other things. I gave ideas even offered to pay for some of the things, but she doesn't even care for the big day....we got into a disagreement and aren't talking at the moment.. Would you be mad in my shoes? I really wanted to help her because people are coming from out of state...but she hasn't thought about squat. I never in my life known of a bridezilla that doesn't care. I will be singing while she goes down the isle at least otherwise she'd have nothing.
My girlfriend bailed on me, do I have a right to be angry?
I think you do. I mean, really, who does that ?
Girlfriend bailed on me?
My girlfriend has gotten caught up in a school musical so I haven't gotten to see much of her recently. So I make sure to schedule with her early so we can get our dates in. Anyways, last week I asked her when she was free and she said that she was today, so I asked her to reserve it for me. I had been looking forward to it all week and she had a Festival type thing to go to during the school day. She texted me and asked if I was still hoping to hang, of course I said yes. Soon after, I was driving home and she texts me and says, "Hey so and so wanted to come over tonight, do you mind hanging out with them too." Well it was a girl that don't like at all so I told her that I'd prefer it was just us. It would have very awkward! And she said "it's has been forever since her and I have hung out" and she cancelled our date in essence. I'm so sad cause now I have to wait until next week and she chose her friend over me, do I have a right to be upset? She's ignoring me how do I talk to her?
My friend picked the same wedding date as me AFTER I told her it was ours! Am I right to be mad?
Okay, so me and the bf have been talking about wedding stuff (not "officially" engaged, but hey, we can still plan! And He's had the ring since Oct! So its coming soon!) and at my friends wedding on 10/11/12, I told him I wanted ours on 12/13/14 which falls on a saturday and he said that was perfect. One of my friends got engaged on xmas eve and I told her 2 WEEKS ago mine and Bfs date was 12/13/14 and she announces TODAY that hers is 12/13/14! Am I wrong to be pissed even though I'm not "officially" engaged and have had these plans for my wedding (not to mention the ring) for MONTHS longer than her? She even deleted me cause I said "Guess we're getting married on the same day! lol" It just pisses me off that she decided AFTER I told her it was what my BF and I had decided! She said she needed to pick a date first. Why? Because I'm not "officially" engaged? You don't even HAVE to be engaged to get married! So why do I "need" to be engaged to start planning one? If she needed a date so quick, why not 11/12/13? A date I HADN'T picked! It's really frustrating cause we have TONS of mutual friends. But they would all but 1 come to my wedding and not hers. Its just sad that we have to fight about it when I already told her it was our predetermined date! GRRR! What should I do?
My girlfriend just bailed on me, what should i do?
So me and my gf planned this huge date for tonight, im 18, shes 16 and i was really excited. we didnt plan out a time, and i kept calling from 630-830 and she didnt pick up. she calls me and its almost 11 oclock (too late for the date) and said she fell asleep. im pissed off and im ignoring her right now. how long should i ignore her for? (this was a pretty important date)
Should I be angry at my girlfriend because she bailed on me?
I'm 16 and I havnt seen my girlfriend in a month because she spends her summer hours away from our town with her rich friends and family. we don't have any way of seeing each other over the summer unless her parents take her back home for a few days, which they almost never do. My birthday is coming up in a week and weve been planning for months to go to the movies together, turns out she's known for a while she couldn't make it but wasn't planning on telling me yet. The worst part is one of her obnoxious guy friends who has a creepy crush on her, has the same birthday as me and if she doesn't come to the movies with me than shell be spending it with him and that makes me jealous because they're always together. So should I be angry with her that she can't come?
They say a good friend is a person that bails you out jail and a good friend is the person sitting next to you in jail. What do think? Why?
I think it's “ a best friend is the person sitting next to you in jail”.Let me answer this anyway.I'll put in some context here, see I live with my friends, have been doing that for the last 7 years, they are like family to me. And I'd do almost anything for them. They are my closest friends, so if some day my friend got in a fight with someone, you can be sure I'll be fighting alongside him, and he'd be doing the same for me. We do have a lot of good friends to bail us out if we got thrown into jail. (fight is just an example)Most of the times we hangout together, and if there is trouble, we face it together, so this phrase is kinda true for us, we’d be in the same mess if anyone messed up.Now, I do think that this phrase is more metaphorical. I mean I know that if I am in a problem, a lot of people will come up with solutions but they'll never understand what I'm going through other than my best friends.It's more like All for one and one for all kinda thing. We have seen each other at our best and at our worst and yet, can't find a difference.
Do I have the right to be mad/annoyed at him?
Yes, you have the right to be mad at him because he lied to you about the plans he had. If he had come out and told you beforehand that things were reshuffled to where he wanted to hang out with friends, then that’s understandable. Choosing to bail out on you with a BS excuse is something that could have been averted had he come clean with you.My suggestion is to talk with him and express how you felt about being slighted in that manner. Be honest and tell him that yes, that pissed you off and you’re not going to accept being treated like that. Stress that simple communication will make things easier for the both of you. Let him know you’re still his friend, but do not let him off the hook for an act that has no excuse.Hope this helps. Good luck, Emma.
How should I feel if my best friend cancels plans with me last minute and doesn't offer to reschedule?
If it's not a common occurrence, just let it be. People often have a lot of demands on their time; trying to pressure them to reschedule will only serve to stress them out and/or make them feel guilty. If they're genuinely your "best" friend, they'll make time for you.