What does a girl expect from a boyfriend?
I expect him:To be my best friend forever.Not to shout at me especially in front of some.Not to make fun of me in front of some.To miss me badly when he is with some other people.To understand my meaningful silence when I'm listening to him. (I definitely have no idea what to speak whenever discussing the serious matter. I just smile. That doesn't mean I took it lite)To tolerate my weird silence when I'm serious. (I just don't want to utter a word when I'm angry. If I does, it'll definitely lead to the wrong path where we never want to go)To hold my hand while crossing roads.To make time for me in a busy schedule.To treat me as his child. (He is my first ever son, No doubt)To treat me as his Mother. (I respect her the most)To respect my tiny wishes. (I need that little rose flower, please bring it out for me!)To marry me.To bear me for the rest of his life.To respect my parents as he does to his.To find my tears even when I don't express it myself.To be my caretaker. (Ask me whether I reached my place or not)To wipe off my tears.To share his whole day with me without any hesitation.To listen me whenever I speak.Not to let me feel lonely ever.Not to hurt me ever. Ever.To wrap up my neck with his arms whenever I feel low.To bring me more tasty foods. (Well, I'm not going to give up on food)I expect him to fulfill all my above expectations.If a girl really loves you, she'll never expect you to buy the most costly products. All she needs is just your priceless love, time and care.-Vanitha Arumugam♡22♡
I have a friend who doesn't listen to my advice?
i don't think she should go out with him, not anymore, but she really liked him and she wouldn't ask him out, now i'm pretty sure he's just a player, he wouldn't even ask her out. and i'm a really good friend to her, but she's a spoiled brat. her dad is rich, so she gets what she wants, she's never been grounded, even though she almost set her house on fire when i was over and she was playing with matches while i was working on our project, she thinks that because her parents let her have whatever she wants, then she should get whatever she wants from everyone. she also thinks that all of her problems are worse than all of the problems that you have or had... she's just a brat
My ex wants to stay friends but I still love her. Need advice please?
My ex and I tried multiple times. Ultimately she says that I'm a great guy and that she wishes she could love me but that she can't choose who she falls for and she has never loved me. I on the other hand am crazy about her and we still text quite a bit. I hung out with her last night (she wanted to keep it as only friends) and I couldn't help but talk about us and try to grab her hand and try to convice her to give us another shot. I ended up ruining the night and she got super mad at me and told me to bring her home in which she was silent the entire ride back. I feel like such an idiot. I messed up by being selfish and not respecting her wishes. I apologized and told her I don't think I can hang out with her as a friend for a while because my feelings are still too strong right now. She still hasnt responded and she's now ignoring me. I feel so stupid for ruining what could have been a good night. My self esteem is at an all time low. I feel like she hates me after last night. I realize its never going to work between us if she doesn't love me but I don't want to lose her as both a girlfriend AND a friend. I told her this but she still hasn't responded. I fee so guilty and upset about where we stand right now. What can I do to get her respect again? How can I get her to start talking to me again? Please, I need advice. I'm a wreck right now
My ex friend said she wants to die because of me!? Advice Please!?
Sorry this is very long but I really need some advice and help please!!!!! Ok so earlier today, I sent Facebook messages my now ex friend saying this :"Look I can't talk to u. Idk if I trust u. U were SOOO mean to "G". U told her to die, literally. Who the heck tells someone to die? "G" almost killed herself because you told her to die. Her parents were in shock. I have never been so worried about her in my life . Garnettes my best friend and YOU wanted her dead. How dare you? That's mean. "G" still cries to me everyday bout what u said to her. Listen "G" ALMOST KILLED HERSELF BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU DID. Her mother and father would have no more daughter if she died and her brother would have no more sister. Think about ur action. IDC if u want Garnette dead but I DON'T. "G" is my best friend ever and I WANT HER ALIVE. Without "G" I'm nothing. I'm sorry but were done. Don't contact me anymore or I'll tell my parents and the dean thank u Ps: "G" was ur friend too in the beginning of the year and u saying u wan her to die is cold . "G" considered u as her BFF and she never said u should die so why did u say that to her? Who the heck tells their best friend they should die and why did u also say to "G" her mother wants her dead. I met "G"'s mother and she's nice she doesn't hate on anyone. She's loving. Please admit what u did and apologize to "G" and maybe we can be friends idk I feel bad for "G" and u should too cuz like I said she almost killed herself because of u. If she had died u would have been responsible for her death which means u would be in jail. Then she responded to me saying "I am so sorry but i don't think we should be friends anymore because "G" is driving me crazy and I am sick of her and its time to forget about me. I am going to cry now I didn't realize how much I hurt "G" I feel so bad and I apologized to her many times. I just wanna die. If you respond back its not worth it anymore". Now I am not friends with her anymore after everything she did to my best friend. I didn't even respond to her!
Should I pay for my female friend's dinner?
Who asked who out? The person (A) who asked the other person (B) out should always attempt to pay the full bill; they asked the other person out. The person (B) who was asked out, should offer to pay at least their portion. At this point, the two people can “play it by ear” and either split the bill/pay their portion, or the asker can turn the askee down and pay the bill in full. If the latter, person B should thank person A, and at some point reciprocally ask person A out and treat them to a meal or similar experience (movie ticket, etc).This works for platonic friends, romantic relationships, etc. Some people prefer to pay the whole bill and then there is this “reciprocation debt” where the askee is likely to “return the favor”; person B ask person A out and pay and it goes back and forth, like that. Other people prefer to have each person pay half/their portion and this is usually done each time. Most the time, however the bill is first handled (split/pay one’s portion or treating each other) is the way it goes from then on when two people get together for a meal or an activity. The way the asker and the askee communicate the first time usually sets the tone.The asker might say “no thanks, I got the bill, you can get it next time”; if so, then it should be clear to the askee that person A not only will pay this time but would prefer an invitation extended at some point to reciprocate. Other times when person B offers to split the check or pay their portion, person A may say something like “oh you only had the chicken, so $10 should cover it”. In this case person A probably prefers just splitting the check/each persons paying their portion each time. So the inviting should still go back and forth btwn person A & B but each person is aware they will pay part of the check each time.If this female friend of yours is not offering to pay her portion and also lets you pay each time and doesn’t extend some similar offer to you, then she is not holding up her portion of the reciprocal friendship. If she never asks you out or doesn’t in some other way (have you over for dinner, pick up a the movie tickets, etc) reciprocate, I would then start letting her pay her portion when she offers. If she doesn’t even offer to pay her portion, then she is really not doing her part and I would question why she is letting you always pick up the check.
AHHHH.... Meeting his friends!!?
Its definitely not a bad thing, I am completely comfortable with the idea of meeting his friends and I'm excited that he wants his friends to meet me.. We've been dating for about a month (determined that we are exclusive, but not bf/gf ....yet.) He wants to take me to his hometown where we will go out to a bar and meet up with a bunch of his close friends (friends for 15+years!) My question is guys or girls: When you meet your buddy's girl what do you expect or look for? What is the first thing you notice about her that you like and or dislike?! (not necessarily physical features..but personality, quirks..etc..) I'm sure I'm fretting about this more than I should be..but a few tips or advice could never hurt!!!
No one wants to be friend with me?
Well maybe you're just trying to hard and not looking natural, idk man... best thing you can do is change school, and start off with a whole new group of people. I was like a ******* nerd until I was 12, then i just moved from school and i started doing the things I always wanted to do, **** teachers off, do whatever the **** you want... and now it works better... Im really sorry about your story, i moved 2 weeks ago to a new town were i dont know anyone and im spending christmas and vacations alone so im living about the same thing on these holidays... and Merry Christmas
My friend borrowed money and isn't paying me back?
Two of my friends came to my house for the weekend so we could go to the local lake. We're all in college and don't have much money and they all assured me that they had their finances together to take care of themselves. One of my friends gets money from her parents and the other told me her mother had put money in her checking account. We went out for dinner and got the bill and I paid mine, no problem, and so did my one friend. The other had her card declined twice and instead of calmly asking me to help her out, she started going "oh my god, I don't know what I'm going to do" and "how am I going to pay for this?" while staring at me. It was only another $17 plus tip so I grudgingly offered to pay and gave her an enormous attitude, because I deliberately cut back on my lunch so I wouldn't owe as much. She didn't even say thank you. We all wanted to go to a haunted hayride which she now couldn't pay for, and my other friend volunteered to pay the $20. Again, not a single thank you. I sure as hell wasn't going to foot the bill again for her inability to balance her finances. Then she calls her mother. We go to the mall and she mentions that her mother fixed the money and she wanted to go buy a new sweater! I turned to her and said, "You should probably worry about paying us back before you buy yourself something." She said "oh true" and now, two days later, when she had full access to an ATM, she STILL hasn't paid either of us back. It's really agitating me and I intend on bringing it up with her next week after she visits her family. Why are people so rude and selfish? If she had at least said "thanks" and been gracious about what I did for her, I wouldn't be so damn angry. But she expected it from me. I was raised to behave in that fashion and I would've been apologizing up and down and made a beeline for the first ATM.