Should i ditch my Friends?
Note: I am on my brothers account. Im going into to high school next year. A really big school. And I have had problems with my friends. Im going to do wrestling and probably golf. Only one of the below is non hostile: Friend A - his dream is to become popular but treats his 'real' friends like **** Friend B- this fat kid who discourages sports yet sits on his *** all day on xbox. He encourages me to join him in his unhealthy lifestyle and changes his opinions everyday. Friend C- a black kid who sits their and lets Friends A and B lay racist jokes on him. I think they are friends only because he is black. Friend D- Enjoys sports and things that i as well like. He was friends with the 3 above but like me grew tired of them thinking they were immature He's the one I have no intention to ditch. *Highschool starts in 6 months * Friend B rides my bus (How do i get rid of him, he"ll never get involved?) * Friends A and B secretly hate eachother (they tell me individually) with Friend C being their only route towards friendship. Meaning if i don't do something, They'll eventually make me choose. * Friend A is fairly involved (Marching Band and Track).But constantly disses wrestling * I have a friend on my bus next year to sit with other than friend B This has nothing to do with sports just that i want a group of friends with Friend D who we have things in common with. He is thinking about the same. What good is it to hang with people that have too many differences to count. My school is big making more possible friends. The problem is how do I end it with Friends A and B. C is moving to Louisville in 3 months the start of A and B's future ongoing conflict. Should I tell them strait up or fade away with Friend D??
How can you ditch a dumb friend?
I have this friend of mine whose really dumb, she repeated 3 times in school and is so obsessed with this guy(who is also her 3rd degree cousin. It's legal in their religion.) who's actually flirting with me and other girls as well.they are now officially dating and are on now because the guy was after her money.( she is totally not pretty. Everybody at school voted her as the most less-good looking girl in our year.Except for me. we became friends because I was new to the school. and people at our school really hates new comers.)The only thing is that, when a friend of mine told her that the guy is cheating on her and I saw that too! She won't believe me.I want to end our relationship as bff because people are pressuring on me (that why am I still hanging out with this girl when I'm now one of the known people at school. She's really nice. It's just not fair to dump her just because of physical appearances. But I'm starting to hate her too because she's turning so selfish and dumber.
Should I ditch my friends?
Tough question and one that one you can really answer. I think that if you are honest with yourself and don’t pretend to be more invested in these acquaintances that hanging out with them has no strong negatives. I do, however, feel that you might want to be looking inward on how you can deal with your anxiety and depression so that you have the confidence to create real friendships. Certainly not easy but with the help of a trusted adult, counselor or friend who might understand, you can set about working on your sense of self, self esteem and confidence. Your school counselor might have the name of someone in the community who does counseling and, if finances are an issue, someone who does pro bono (no cost) work or for a lower scale. If you live in a college down, you may want to check with their psychology department where they may have peer counselors. Sometimes peer counselors can be great mentors as well.Good luck, hang in there. Middle and high school can be some of the toughest years, you can do this!
Should I ditch my friends for college?
High school friends are either going to be your friends later, or they are not.College is the very best time to make new friends. Go to the school you want to go to. If it doesn't work out for you, you can always transfer (assuming you work hard and get good grades).But don't worry about making friends. There are study groups and clubs, many more than in high school. You will make friends in college.Don't live your adult life, as if what you did as a kid is all that matters.
Problem with a friend being TOO generous...help!?
So I have this really good friend whom I have known since highschool and now that we are both stay at home Mom's we have becoming quite close friends...they even came up to our house in NY to visit for a week a few months ago...anyways I have a small jewelry business, so she has many times in the past ordered jewelry from me, and I usually give her a little discount but she never takes it...in fact she usually pays me MORE then what it costs, and she is so insistant and I don't want to fight, so I have to take it. Then when she came to stay at our house she insisted to help pay for groceries, so I accepted a bit of money from them because I thought that is was really nice and fair of them to help out since we are quite strapped for cash...BUT when I went to clean their room after they left I noticed she had left 50$ on the table, so I called her about it and she said, "oh yes, that's for you for letting us stay, and being such a nice hostess and whatever" but I told her, you already helped with the groceries, I don't really feel comfortable accepting it...but AGAIN, she got all defense and made me keep it..so I told her, next time you order jewelry you HAVE to let me give you a big discount...she she orders more jewelry today and I give her the discount, she says she refuses to take it, she is going to send me a cheque for whatever price she thinks is right...so frustrating! She is also buying our son clothes whenever she sees them on sale, and really nice gifts...and I do give her daughter a Christmas and b-day gift, but we can't afford to lavish gifts on them, and she knows that, yet she continues to lavish them on us! It's getting really frustrating and I just want to tell her outright, if you want me to accept freebies and gifts and help from you, you need to accept them from me too...but she NEVER lets me treat her, I am sort of starting to get angry and resentful about it...please give me some advice of how to kindly go about telling her, it's a two way street!
My only friend ditched me too.What do I do?
There are two aspects to this questionFirst,was that person really your friend? Because ‘friends' do not go about ditching their friends no matter what.Try to retrospect,what happened that the peraon supposedly ditched you? Try to find the issue.If you could,try to sort of your problems because good friends are hard to come by.Secondly,it might be possible that there wasn't any problem as such and the person abrublty stopped talking to you.Then I am sorry to say that person wasn't your friend which I would say is lucky for you.You might not realise it now but you would see it soon enough.Also I would rather ask you to stay a bit calm.I know it might be freaking you out cause I have been there.Take a break from routine and try to focus on the better things in life. Try to spend some more time with your family,it always helps.Try to immerse into your hobbies or try to get involved into something new for that matter.Try some new books,go to restaurants try something new.Join some new activities,this would also help you socialize and meet new people.I hope my answer helped youStay Happy! :)
How to ditch/leave my old friends and make new friends?
Okay so, here's the story: I've been with my current friends ever since 6th grade and I'm going into the 10th grade this year. Every year, they become more boring and distant (to me). MOST of them are getting more stupid each year. They are ALL in band/color guard. I'm the only athletic one (I'm in cross country). We RARELY hang out as a group and my friends always come to me for homework help and stuff. This year, they'll no longer taking the honors/AP classes, only I will be...Plus, our clothing styles get different each year too! I'm like the girly/classy type and they like to dress in darker clothes that covers them from head to toe. How can I make new friends when I'm SUPER quiet and shy? By the way, I sometimes feel socially inferior to some people at school because I'm short, small, ASIAN, and not-as-rich-as the other kids at school. The majority of my school is white.
My girlfriend ditch me to be with her friends?
okay me and my girlfriend and her friends all went to homecoming together and after homecoming she ditch me to be with her friends. supposedly they have this tradition where they all hangout but i thinks its was wrong of her to ditch me. and we can hang out 2 times a week and that's it. so please help me