Is my friend no longer interested in me?
We used to text everyday over the summer and she always texts me first. So, we were talking on Saturday and she suddenly left the conversation and she didn't text me for 4 days and I got kind of worried because we talk all the time and always have long conversations. Anyway, I wished her a Merry Christmas and she responded, but didn't seem very interested to talk and I felt like I was just annoying her... We barely talked today, too... We just have a lot in common and I have so much to talk about, but I can't share it with her because sometimes, she just doesn't bother texting me. It kind of hurts, you know, after you talk to someone 24/7, you get kind of attached and it's so empty when you don't talk... We used to have great conversations, but she moved and as she makes more friends, I'm slowly getting replaced. .-. I wouldn't text her first no matter how much I wanted to, though, because I feel as though I'm a bother and the conversation goes nowhere when I text first. I just truly need to know if she's sick of me. What do any of you think? Thanks in advance for your answers and advice.
What do u do when u no longer want to be friend with someone who has been your friend for a very long time?
Just stay friendly but don't return all the calls or just refuse to get together. She'll get the hint after a while. No need to tell her out front you don't wanna be friends anymore. Unless she confronts you. Then I would be totally honest, tell her what you said here and perhaps she'll snap out of it.
How do I tell a (best) friend that I no longer like her?
The two of you have obviously grown apart due to the old refrain: "Familiarity breeds contempt." Living together has revealed aspects of her personality never previously noticed. Moreover, I am positive she may have new complaints about you as well. The first thing to do is move out into your own place. After you are safely ensconced into your own space, you do not have to come right out and tell her. Just avoid her and she will eventually get the message. Unless she is an Obssessive-Compulsive type. I.e. a stalker. The bravest thing to do is to come right out and tell her after you move. To her face if you are strong enough. However, a text will very likely convey the point.
How do you end a friendship by realizing that you no longer like said friend’s personality?
Honesty is the best policy.You have to look at the bigger picture. What will you achieve by beating around the bush and hiding the fact that your feelings have changed?If you try to make everyone happy, you will only prolong your own happiness.Two options:Being honest with your friend: They’ll understand/or they won’t but at the end of the day you will have solved the problem and earned yourself a lot of freedom from that person.Lying/Prolonging the pain: You waste time, it will take you longer to leave that friend and you will wish that you were honest from the start.And being honest doesn’t mean you have to be mean, tell them the truth. Who knows they may feel the same way.But one thing you should always remember is:Short-term pain = Long-term pleasure.Please don’t settle for short-term pleasure because that will lead to… Long-term pain.
I keep Dreaming about an old friend that i no longer speak to. what does this mean?
I think it could be for different reasons. Most of the people who all ready answered had good answers. I have had this happen to me a lot. The times that I have gone and contacted the person I was dreaming about they have told me that they'd been thinking about me recently. I'm inclined to think that sometimes these dreams happen as a sort of psychic link between you and the other person. So, sometimes it's you missing them, sometimes it's them missing you...or it could be both of those things. Good luck whether or not you try to reach out and contact her!
Me and my bestfriend? No longer friends? HELP!?
Be yourself. If you are cute and funny and fun.. get ready because you are going to experience a lot of jealous women. Don't let it tarnish who you are. I'm 58 and don't have any of the friends I grew up with. People and circumstances change. Don't let them change who you are. Stay away from haters.
Friend owes me money. We are no longer friends.?
So my best friend of 3 years recently got a boyfriend and has been avoiding me for months. When we are together we have a great time but I have felt is drifting apart. She has always been an extremely flakey friend ever since I’ve known her. I’ve always just put up with it. But recently it’s been taking a toll on me and making me feel like I don’t matter to her. I told her this but she didn’t seem to care and got mad at me for not being happy for her (which I am) this put me in an uncomfortable situation. I didn’t want to make her seem like she had to choose but I also couldn’t do it anymore. So I confronted her once more on it and we argued a bit but then she just stopped answering and we haven’t but talked since. I took this friend to a concert and also bought her a $40 pass. She now owes me $120 in which is technically my parents money. I feel she should pay me back I’m just not sure how to ask. What is your opinion? Should I ask her to pay me back? If so, how?
I no longer like the friends that I was once really close to as they have changed drastically and not in a good way. What should I do?
When a human being ages from an infant to a teenager, a parent will usually say something like ‘where has the time gone?’. It’s because we age so slowly we often times don’t notice what happened.The more liberal way would be just to slowly withdraw your attention from them. Text a little less over time, Call less, hang with them less. Slowly though. Eventually you’ll drop off the face of the Earth to them. You’ve gotta slowly condition them to get used to life without you.Or you could not give a fukk and start ignoring them abruptly, or tell them straight up ‘we need to see other people’. They’ll get the hint real quick and you won’t have to waste your time anymore. Your call, I guess.