Why do we get ditched by friends?
Some friendships are not meant to last forever, and few do. Of the dozens of people you’ve no doubt made friends with over the span of your life, how many are you still in contact with?For most ‘real-life’ cases, there is no real reason, but people just… drift apart. Think of couples who fall out of love, ever so slowly. It just happens. Many think it easier to ditch, or simply don’t care enough to break the relation/friendship off gently.If, perhaps, one party moves away, it can feel as though that’s the way it should end, and so people will just stop talking. Keeping in touch online just isn’t the same as a real conversation. It can feel fake. Forced. Taken to the extreme, if your friend moves away, you are a piece of their past that in some cases can be holding them back. A piece that, however positive, may be abandoned in search of a fresh start… a tabula rasa, if you will.Sometimes our lives take over, and it’s easier to dip than to feel yourself drifting from a person you were once close with. To not have to listen to said friend’s upset, or to have things drag on when you just want to leave. To not be manipulated into feeling guilty.Online cases are something I’m more inclined to talk about. I believe that talking online to someone you met by those methods can be a good thing. But if you can never meet them in person, you can only take things so far before the track ends and conversation topics run dry. Additionally, it is almost laughable at how easy it is to leave someone on read and never talk to them again- we’re all guilty of it. Friends can feel expendable; consumable in this sense, and for consumables, we don’t weep as we place an empty wrapper in the bin: we just throw it in. It’s terrible to compare real people to literal rubbish, but that’s literally how some people view their ‘friends’.I wonder if you asked this question because you have recently been ditched. If that’s so, I could offer you the usual sentimental crap about how they weren’t true friends anyway, or that you’ll find better people. But the truth is this is likely to happen again and again over the rest of your life, no matter how good of a person you are.Look at me, focusing on the negatives. There will be some who stick around, but most won’t. Hopefully all of this made sense: I haven’t posted in a while so my ‘advice’ skills are a little rusty.
My friends are all ditching me for prom. What do I do?
Prom is this Saturday, and last night all my friends told me they were basically ditching me to go out to dinner beforehand. It really hurt me to find out they were all of a sudden doing this, because now I don't know what I'm gonna do before prom. :( Like we were all gonna go to this place called Raspberry Island to take pictures but now they're all just going out to eat without me instead. I'm upset because I didn't even want to go to prom but they were the ones that convinced me to go. Now I have a ticket bought and a dress that's been bought and in the process of being hemmed and I am going to be all by myself for prom. :( I don't even have a date because none of the boys at my school asked me or like me. What am I gonna do now?
All my friends are ditching me for something I didn't do. What do I do?
Believe in yourself.Friends,I have been ditched by my family for things I have not done,some of my family members still doesnt trust me,I dont trust myself only,its hurting
Going to prom alone? Friends ditched me?
omg the exact same thing has happened to me! I've already bought the ticket and now I'm the only one without a date! i'd say still go! it'll be fun really once you get there. it may be a bit embarrassing at first maybe i think but then everyone will be with you, if you really hate it when you get there you could just pretend you have to leave urgently , then turn up to the after party a bit later (which will be fine because its a party!) so yeah thats what i think I'm going to do.... good luck! :)
My friends have all ditched me - what can I do about prom?
All my friends apart from one has ditched me, so I only have one friend. Only, this friend is pretty unpopular and although that doesn't bother me, the fact that others won't want to share a limo with her is. I'm going with this friend to prom but we both don't know what to do about transport. We're only going as friends, but not with others, because of what I said. What would be a cheap form of transport for us that doesn't include being dropped off by our parents. (They don't have a very nice car).
My girlfriend ditch me to be with her friends?
okay me and my girlfriend and her friends all went to homecoming together and after homecoming she ditch me to be with her friends. supposedly they have this tradition where they all hangout but i thinks its was wrong of her to ditch me. and we can hang out 2 times a week and that's it. so please help me
My boyfriend ditched me for his friends?
My boyfriend told me yesterday that after school we would go home together. But today right after gym class he 'disappered' all of a sudden. School was over and I stayed an extra 45 minutes after school waiting for him because I thought he would come back. Well, jokes on me-he didn't and in the end I left the school by myself! Later I found out he had ditched me for his friends! So now I am really upset and I feel betrayed. HELP, what should I do in this situation?