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Friends Hanging Out Without Me

My friends are hanging out without me?

I have many different friends but there is a group of people who are very close and I thought of them as my friends. And only last year I started getting close to them. We would always hang out together during school but when we got out of school they would always hang out and I always felt left out. Two of them are my almost very good friends and the rest of them I consider friends but don't talk as much. So there was a carnival thingy and I didn't have anyone to go with so I tried to drop some subtle hints to them about how I wanted to go with them. And now I found another friend to go with and when I went there I saw all of them hanging out together. And I felt really left out. I really like all of them and I though they liked me too but I am not so sure anymore.

What should I do to get closer to their friend group? Or am I exaggerating this?

My friends hang out without me?

I have two main friends Kayla and meg, (who met through me) and they always hang out together and post it on instagram. They never invite me. They sometimes even talk about it in front of me. Like, they talk about where they should meet up and that they should text eachother later when they get home. I'm not gonna deny that I'm jealous. They post selfies of together on instagram. One is a blonde and the other is a brunette. So the blonde(meg) would always post stuff like, every blonde needs a brunette. And tag Kayla. I'm getting a little pissed now. I have lots of guy friends tho, but I can't like hang out with them. So I literally have 3 girl friends at my school. (Not counting meg and Kayla)
Sure I have other friends, but they're all outside of school, so they're busy with their own friends there. I can't stop thinking, 'I bet meg and Kayla are doing ____ this now'.
How can I stop caring? We are already at the end of the year so I can't really make new friends??? Help!!'

My friends hang out without me?

I'm now in 11th grade and have been friends with the same group of girls since 7th. I'm on the quiet side, so i'm not really as close to them as they are with each other. About this time of the year, they always go out and do stuff without me, then post it on facebook. It really bothers me every time, but they're always doing something that i wouldn't enjoy doing anyway, but it still hurts to not be invited. And it especially doesn't make sense b/c they're always talking behind each other's backs about how they don't like each other and stuff. what should i do?

How do I get over the fact that my friends are hanging out without me and without telling me?

What is the point to get over? If they are hanging out without you, then that means they don't wan't you. They don't want you to be a part of them. Seriously, there is no point to even think about that, just let them hang out and you, you do something for yourself. Go out and enjoy with your own self. Enjoy the nature, the beauty and the sceneries. Develop yourself in some way. Go for a run, exercise or learn something new. If you seriously want to get over them, then don't give a fuck about whether they care about you or not. Care about yourself.Get good at something and start being busy, start learning new things. Remember, friends who are not interested to hang out with you are not the main people in your life. You have yourself, a great person, get yourself motivated and develop new hobbies.Even I am ignored by my friends lot of times. They hang out without me, they go out, have some fun and they never call me. I first felt bad and then realised that I should not waste time thinking about who cares about me or who does not. Learn a new language, learn a new skill, get into some groups or some ngo, you will find people who really like you. Get yourself up in your life, get successful, start reaching high in your life. And when they see you have become successful or you are in a nice position in life, they will get back to you. They will now want you in your life because you are successful than them or you have great friends than them. Make new friends,make a great network of friends. Why are you using Quora? Start reading answers and writing answers. Atleast it is a place of knowledge, not some gossip, time pass place. Always remember - Don't demand respect. But deserve respect.You have a lot of people in this world and you are struck with these people who don't care about you. Start learning new things, start developing your skills and stop worrying about them.And the last one.That's it. Lecture ends.

My best friends are always hanging out without me?

Okay, so I ve known this girl for five years, and we were best friends for about three years, and then this new girl came along. They started hanging out together, at first they included me, but after a while they stopped inviting me places, and whenever I ask them to go somewhere now they say no, and then a few minutes later I see their snapchat story updated with them together, with the caption, "squad goals

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