My Best Friend Left Me For Her Boyfriend?
You want to know the honest truth? It's going to happen more and more. As your friends get older and start having boyfriends they are going to spend less and less time with you. It doesn't mean she no longer likes you; she's just entered a new and exciting phase of life that is going to consume some of the time that she used to spend with you. It gets even worse when your friends start getting MARRIED!
My boyfriend left me for my best friend :'(??
Hello my dear! I was once in your position, and if you trust me; I hope you'll heed my advice and I'm determined to at least try and give you some advice which'll help you! Spend 2-3 days letting out ALL of your frustrations, cry, scream. go crazy. mess up your room. Dispose anything that leaves you unhappy memories. Next, pamper yourself. You deserve a makeover. Get your hair done? A mini spa done by yourself to you, or a spa salon? Paint your nails. Give yourself a mask. GO SHOPPING!!! Learn a new skill, or do activities you love. SING DANCE SPORTS Watch movies all day long. Admire nature. Just spend time trying to understand yourself better- like a date with yourself. Apart from all these physical actions; You MUST remember your self-worth. Think about it, do you derserve such treatments? not at all. Why should you be blamed for the waste of time in a r/s? Is it even your fault? It is alright to cry and get depress, but never allow his remarks to affect you. NOT EVEN YOUR BEST FRIEND'S PRESENCE. I'm sure you're beautiful in your own ways as well. You've imperfections and maybe not great in certain areas like your best friend but I can guarantee you're amazing you several other aspects as well. You can't just let a setback like this tear you apart. You've to be strong for YOURSELF. And at the end of the day, everything that happened wasn't your fault or your loss. It was theirs, it was a foolish choice which they made as it resulted in themselves loosing such a lovely girlfriend and best friend. and you know how an individual could make a difference in a person's life but they oversee your presence and that is not at all a mistake of yours. I'm sure you'll be fine. Promise me as well as yourself that you'll stand strong and get by this phase. And trust me, once this period is over, you'll grow a lot for wiser and strong. Please never forget the beautiful you.
My boyfriend left me...for my best friend...?
I had been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He was the dream guy for me. We were perfect...we never fought. We never did anything but love one another. Or so I thought. My best friend since kindergarten and him apparently had feelings for each other for over a year, but never did anything. 4 weeks ago he finally told me that he's leaving me to go be with her. I can't believe this. I'm so hurt. I feel so betrayed. I can't eat, I can't sleep, I can't do anything but cry. I'm only 18. I know we're young. And I know some people will say that he wasn't going to be the one I married, but it still hurts. It feels like I'm never going to heal from this. I mean they were the only family I had. I'm alone now. If someone has some advice on how to cope, I need it. These days have been very sad for me. Please help me
My best friend left me for her boyfriend?
I'm sorry this is happening to you. I've been on both sides of the situation. It's tough when your friend is in a new relationship - they're just trying to balance all of their time between their friends and their significant other. However, your friend should never just continuously dump you for her bf. Odds are, you guys were friends first long before she started dating him. Friends always come first. Don't stop being her friend right away - confront her about it. Just tell her you feel like you guys aren't spending as much time as you used to. If she fixes it and actually spends more time with you, then maybe she was just trying to figure out how to balance everything. If she always still blows you off, find a new friend.
My boyfriend left me for another woman but wants to stay friends. Is he friend zoning me?
I've been through almost this same exact thing. I don't think you have a chance at getting back with him, and even if you do, are you really going to be able to put this all behind you? I don't think you will. I think that even if you DID get back together with him you'd resent him for doing this to you and you'd never trust him again. I think that he wants to stay friends with you because he genuinely likes you as a person. And I think that if you keep being friends with him, it will make him feel better about what he's done to you. He knows he hurt you and he feels like a jerk, and your being cool with it basically lets him off the hook. But there are no "feelings" left there, and even if it doesn't work out with the other woman, you'll KNOW you're his second choice. Don't be like me, please. I hung around, tried to be his friend, hoped I'd get back together with him eventually, hoped he'd choose me instead. What I refused to understand is that he had already made his choice; he wanted her and not me. And yes, that sucked! But if I'd just accepted that from the start (you can't really change it anyway) and moved on, I'd have been a lot happier. You should just cut contact with him for awhile. Tell him you need some space. Just be like "I know you want to be friends, but I can't be friends with someone who dumped me for another woman, at least not right now. Maybe eventually we CAN be friends, but right now I am going to need you to give me some space and stop calling. I'll let you know when I'm ready to talk." If he's not a complete monster then he will honor this request and let you heal.
I had dream that my boyfriend left me for my bestfriend. i woke up crying?
It's probably a sign of insecurity - it doesn't necessarily mean that your boyfriend likes your best friend or vice versa. They are two symbols in the dream - they're people you trust, and they're betraying you. So, when you're awake, you're probably experiencing some insecurities or are feeling betrayed. Hope this helps. :]
My boyfriend left me for my friend and everybody knows about it and taunts me. I feel terrible. What should I do to get over it?
Your boyfriend left you for your friend and people taunt you so you are feeling terrible. Grow up. Let him go and and let KARMA handle that. Make your image and position very very big that he will cry for you one day and people who are taunting you they will scare before taunting you. I don’t know why you gives chances to make you feel terrible. you are strong girl/woman. You can handle taunts and all. In life its really small things. Ignorance is best answer and don’t show that people you have any effect on yourself by themes taunting.Be happy. Be a strong girl of your parents. Focus on your health,career and dreams. you can achieve bigger. Life is really beautiful. you don’t know what is in your future’s plats. May be god had written most amazing guy for you who deserve you. Remember it’s god move in your life and trust me it will be awesome.Because god’s move is our destiny.
My best friend left me because her boyfriend forced her to choose between me and him. We were the closest friends and now I am all alone. I miss her like hell, but I don't think she does the same. I am not able to come out of this thing. Will she return or have I lost my best friend forever?
This situation is surprisingly common. I understand that you may be feeling hurt and angry right now. It definitely wasn't right of her to "choose" the boyfriend over you. But remember - the real villain here is the boyfriend. Due to his own insecurities, he is isolating and controlling your best friend. If she fights or wants to break up with him, she will no longer have her biggest outside support (you). And that will give him more control.So in this situation, I would watch her carefully. Watch especially for signs of emotional abuse. If nothing is wrong, she will probably eventually break up with him and come right back to you, at which point it will be up to you to decide whether to forgive her and re-instate the friendship.
My boyfriend broke up with me. He's the only friend I had, now I have no one. I've even lost weight because I don't know what to do with myself. This has been very bad for me, what should I do?
I know how it feels.I was in the same situation when "A Girl" left me, isn't it strange that we value some people more than others and ignoring others because we wanted to be with that "Special" one.I spent hours talking to her and now i was - all alone.A happy go lucky guy turned into a statue who just sat at a corner and thought about "What IF". Sunly i felt miserable and the worst part was she left me before my end term exams, I was devastated and i ended up with 2 backlogs. For the first time in my life I failed in exams.I just did nothing but think, the more i thought the more I felt miserable about myself as i thought it was all my fault.I felt ill and had no will to move on in my life.I was stuck with the past.The only solution i found was to be busy and i Joined Cat coaching, but when i went for class i remembered her because it was also her dream to Crack CAT. It difficult to concentrate, but I FORCED myself because i had no choice. Then I again Fell in Love:With myself, I realized it was best to love myself because i was the only one who would never betray me, and it did wonders.In Nov 2014:I gave my CAT Exam.In Jan 2015 gave The XAT Exam.RESULT:Got 99.87 Percentile in CAT.99 Percentile in XAT.Converted :XLRI (BM), IIM C, FMS,IIM I,and.. IIM A.Awesome IT is, going to Join the Best B School in the country.And that Girl:I didn't try to find, because I don't care anymore.Being Miserable is a Choice, I chose to be awesome Instead.Same i would suggest.Find something, you can devote your time to.Do anything that relieves you.Don't think about him.KEEP YOURSELF Busy, don't take breaks keep on doing something.Join an NGO , talk to children they are awesome.I have kept myself still BUSY will give UPSC in August.Yup, I did clear those back logs with 77% marks.