My brother is getting married next month and my first cousin died today is that sukob?
No. That is just life. People are born. They live a little while. Then they die.
My cousin wants me to help her get an abortion?
please let also your friend to read my answer or say you to her these things: AND ADOPTION?(IF THERE ARE PROBLEMS TO KEEP THE BABY) Do not abort nor in dangerous way! You must think also about what is the best for YOUR child is there really a reason this child cannot live?I do not think so :) When you’ll have a chil you’ll think:why did I abort that child and why doesn’t this one? YOUR child needs to live,it will SMILE and in this smile you’ll see its “THANKS”. Maybe NOW she's young then she'll be older and she will be VERY happy with your child :D Think about it. YOUR CHILD ONLY NEEDs TO GROW UP THEN IT WILL BE LIKE THIS: Think about it. http://www.google.it/imgres?q=bambino&um... If there are problem you can give it up for adoption ! You kill him\her with the abortion, and even if you kill him to twenty years ..it's the same...! do not abort it! And do not use contraceptives! Say yes to life ... YOU LIVE THE SEX IN THE BEST WAY ONLY IN A SAINT PROJECT OPEN TO THE LIFE(CATHOLIC MARRIAGE)… Remember that you can give the baby up for ADOPTION! If your mother aborted you .. you would not be born! The same to you if she aborted you or if she killed you when you were 6 ... THINK ALSO ABOUT YOUR CHILD’S RIGHTS Think about it. say Yes to life =) You’LL BE VERY HAPPY with YOUR child :D
What do I say to my cousin about her engagement?
3 days ago, my cousin announced her engagement. Normally I would be very happy for her, but she is 20 years old, in college, and her boyfriend is not at school with her, but is in the army. I could get over all of this, but the worst part is they only started dating 2 months ago, right after she broke up with a short-term boyfriend, a marine. I was surprised when she said she would be living with him when she wasn't in school a few weeks ago, but when this happened I was shocked. I think a large part of why she's doing this is to rebel against her parents who have always controlled her, and she went a little bit crazy in college--her grades have been horrible and she is more focused on sorority life. All of her posts seem to reference marrying her soul mate and best friend, but she's only been dating him 2 months. Is there a polite way to tell her she's making a horrible mistake? I feel like I can't just lie and say that I'm happy for them, because unfortunately I'm not too optimistic about this going well.
Engaged after only TWO months of dating someone?!?
Love is blind... and when you are madly in love with someone it can make you do crazy stuff that you don't believe you will do yourself. Sometimes fairy tale story doesn't always applicable to everyone... It may ba a bit shocking to you but hey, just accept the fact and wish them well.
Should I disown my cousin who is 15 and having a child with a 20 year old and getting married in two months???
I found out today (2-26-07) that my cousin is having a child with a 20 year old and she is only 15.......should i forgive her and take her back in as a cousin or disown her and refuse to give her any help and support....she is also getting married....need help ASAP!!
Is it ok to marry my cousin who is 2 years younger than me?
There is nothing wrong with a 2-year age difference but to marry a cousin carries the risk of birth defects in any children you may have. You could have genetic counselling or IVF treatment to minimise this risk, so apart from that, all that matters is if you love each other and want to spend your lives together.If, as I suspect, you are from a culture which encourages marriages between first cousins (which is almost unheard of in the West), have you been encouraged to see your cousin as a marriage prospect in order to please your family? The fact that you are questioning the idea on Quora makes me think you are unsure, so weigh up carefully your sense of duty towards the family and your own wishes.
My cousin is getting married, and I'm sure she will ask me to have a role in her wedding. How do I look cool and not seem like I have been waiting for this moment?
Thanks for the A2A. I think you have some great answers here, but as someone who is getting married soon (A MONTH OMG), I’ll expand on a few things for you.Firstly let me say, weddings are sort of not cool in general. They’re OTT, they’re extra, they’re stressful and emotional and fun and crazy, but rarely cool. It’s hard to be cool when you’re googling wedding favours for the 40th time at 3am on a Friday because the bottle openers you were looking at aren’t in stock and your mother didn’t like them and you have a budget to stick to and and and… yeah. Weddings aren’t cool, and you don’t need to be cool to be involved in one. You need to be supportive, helpful, funny (trust me, the stress of wedding planning means some decent humour is SORELY needed) and honest, kind and excited.I’ll also add that you may NOT be asked to be involved. I’m sure you have a better idea of this than I do, but your expectations aren’t always met when it comes to this sort of thing. We chose to have a very, very small bridal party to keep costs down and to keep things a bit more intimate. Some people choose to have no formal bridal party, or to only include siblings. Sometimes these decisions are made to save a bit of drama elsewhere, not to offend anyone - I know of a few brides and grooms who have elected to forego certain bridal party members, so other people don’t get offended and cause problems. Just remember that if you don’t get asked to formally be involved, this isn’t a slight against you - weddings are complicated in a lot of ways, and sometimes it happens. But you can still be involved informally, which is a role that the happy couple may even appreciate more. I’ve given small but important tasks to a few non-bridal party people during this planning phase, and it has helped so, so much. We have ensured they are thanked and have plans to thank them formally in my fiancé’s wedding toast.Best of luck, no matter where you find yourself on the wedding day - remember weddings are supposed to be times of great joy and love, and being cool doesn’t remotely form part of that! Scream, cheer, cry - whatever happy reaction you’re feeling, it’s okay to embrace it, and the couple will be touched by how thrilled you are.
What is it like to be married to your cousin?
Edit 1- Thank you so much for the response. I actually decided to write after reading this:Anonymous's answer to What are some personal stories of being emotionally manipulated? I’ve been emotionally manipulated by my younger sister for over a decade. I now have low self-esteem, an avoidance of children and tweens, and a warped view of self.Whoever you are, I wish you all the best in your future endeavors and keep fighting. You gave me courage to write my own story. And there's a commenter who asked, 'why go anonymous if you're so proud?' I'm proud of myself for getting out of a marriage I don't like. I'm proud of myself for going against my parents because I trust and believe in my decision. I'm proud of myself for surviving without expecting any help from them.This is why I’m proud of myself.This is not an article with arguments, this is a declaration, for those of us who have survived.Cheers and have a wonderful day. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I was married to my cousin (my mom's brother's son) when I was just 17.I am from a typical south Indian family, wherein most families, girls are married off at a very young age. And my family follows the tradition strictly.My mom was married when she was 15.My grandma? 12, yes, TWELVE.I was married to my cousin who was studying in Chennai, and he was 22. I've never seen him in awhile and I remember playing with him when I was a kid. Our marriage was hard and difficult. He didn't like getting married to me and I was too young to know the trouble my family put myself into. We didn't behave like an ordinary married couple. He would sometimes yell at me, and leave the house early in the morning and get back home at late night. It was years later I discovered that he actually loved some other girl in college and they were still in contact even after the marriage.I soon distance myself from him and we only have a minimal conversation.I was turning 22 and I thought the life I live is meaningless. I don't find happiness in this marriage and I felt like I was being a burden to him.I filed for a divorce even when my family threaten to disown me. I left my family and choose to stay and work in Bangalore. Currently, 25, still single and couldn't be prouder.
Have you ever been sexually attracted or engaged in a sexual activity with your cousin?
Yes, and its quite natural to get attracted to our cousins especially if we find her hot.My cousin was married for 2 years when i happened to visit their place for some work and had to stay with them for about a month. In the beginning, it was a normal friendly relation with her, till one day when I accidentally caught her naked in bath. I immediately apologised and came out.But then things started changing. She started wearing revealing dresses in front of me, and even started changing with door open, as only we two used to be there at home. One day, while I was changing my dress, she came in the room without knock, and started chatting as if she is not even bothered about me being in underwear only.Eventually, she saw my d**k rising inside the underwear and to my surprise asked if I am not comfortable in that underwear, I can remove it (while pointing towards the erection). I was embarrassed but somehow I got courage and said “I can if you too remove your dress and become naked like I am” I had said it as a joke, but she took it literally and before I could clarify my intention, she actually opened her top and removed it and said, you can help me undress, if you want. I was shocked again but immediately regained my composure and came close to her and started kissing her. She pushed me and said what are you doing while winking at me. I said I am doing exactly what you wanted and I grabbed her again and started kissing. This time she responded and eventually we undressed each other and had a hot session in her bed till I released.This was not something instantaneous or something we regretted. We both had similar feeling towards each other and even continued this relation for another two months till she got pregnant.