My girlfriend never wants sex?
weve been togethor over a year and a half. relationship wise were doing great but for the past 6-7 weeks we have only had sex once and it used to be a few times a week. she shuts me down everytime i try to iniate it and i feel like im in an episode of everyone loves raymond lol. its really frustrating and i dont know how to change the situation. i havent directly brought it up to her because i know it sounds like such a stupid thing to be upset about. any suggestions on what i can do to get things going again? ill be honest and admit im not exactly the best at initiating or the most attractive guy around but it really has been a while and its driving me nuts lol.
My girlfriend never wants to make out or have sex.?
I'm 25 and my girlfriend is 27. She has a very low sex drive and rarely in the mood for sex. She doesn't like to make out. When we first started dating we made out a lot, but it's been years since then. When we do have sex, it is usually me that initiates it. She is also very hard to "get off." Are there any ways I can increase her sex drive, and overall increase our romantic life? Pills? Surgery? Any ideas? I love her, but being rejected for sex/make out sessions really hurts my ego and makes me frustrated as my "needs" arn't getting met.
I wanna make love to my girlfriend? Please help?
You want to gradually get her more used to interacting on a more sexual level. Start with just touching her chest, her inner thigh, and around her pants line. Once she has become accustomed to that, progress to fingering, then oral sex. At the same time, you should try to make her feel more comfortable doing similar to you. Ask her to perform hand jobs and oral sex as she feels comfortable, trying to gradually make her feel more comfortable with such interaction. Before normal sex, your should have tried to engage in mutual hand sex and oral sex. After two year of dating, you seem very patient with your girlfriend, as well as know how to comfort her. You need to know how to judge when she doesn't feel comfortable anymore and react appropriately. Don't push her into any of these things if she does not feel comfortable or especially if she states specifically that she doesn't want to. Talk with her about this first, too. Say that you have an idea that you would like to try, and explain all of the stages. The point of this whole thing is to allow her to psychologically feel safe with you and like she will not experience what she did before. Initially, she might freak out a lot, especially with the first several attempts at penetration. However, in time, hopefully she will realize that she is in control with someone that she cares about.
My girlfriend wants to make love with me . Help ?
ok so i am a 20 year old and my gf is 18 years old. We are both virgins. We have been together for 2 months. We are both in love. And we want to make sweet love to each other. we have had forplay like we kiss and touch.i am asking because this one time, she was fighting with her mother and told me . Mom wants me to be a virgin until 19,20, 21, etc. But i am not going to wait that long if you Dont do it i will find someone who will do it. And i am like you know i want to do it. But we never are in the right place. And she is like, i know you want to do it even more than me. The problems are this. 1. Wen we get hot and horny, we are in the wrong place to do it. Like in her parents house or in other public places . Because is our first time. We Dont want to do it behind the stairs of the bowling alli or in my car park in someplace. The only option is in a hotel or motel. But i cannot seem to find the valor to say it to her.like tell her on Sunday when we go out lets go to the hotel and make love. Although we have talk about it and concluded that, that is the best place. 2. She wants to do it with out a condom. And i am afraid she could get pregnant the first time we try it. and number 3. She has touch my Di*k to see how big it was and she got a surprise and told me she thought it was smaller and is afraid of how bad is going to hurt her when we do it for the first time. Because she is skinny and she has never finger herself she is super tight. Hear are my question first. Like is it ok to tell her this day we will make sweet love in x hotel or can you tell me good place to do it the first time. And second tell me what to do, to not get her pregnant like good methods for example the ovulation stuff does it work or the pacht. Is it safe to have sex with out a condom. And 3 how bad is going to hurt her when we have sex and what stuff so that it does not hurt her. Thank you
My girlfriend never wants to do what i want to do?
Well i like to be outdoors and enjoy whats around me and i always like company, but before in the winter her excuse was oh its to cold etcc, but now that its warmer, shes gone to a different excuse like studying etcc and it just wont end, basically unless its eating dinner or going to the mall with her, she wouldnt want to do anything, as i like to chill out and relax outside etccc get close with her
My girlfriend never wants to have sex?
We've been dating for 10 months and we're very close and committed. In the beginning of our relationship she loved sex, she always wanted to do it, but she was very selfish in bed. It was all about her, then I said something and we started evening things out, ever since I started being more "involved" she never wants to have sex. And If I mention anything about sex, or touch her chest or butt she get P I S S E D, and I mean P I S S E D. She will punch me and tell me that's all I care about. She never takes interest in sex. If I talk about it at all she assumes I'm being a perv and a douche when In reality I just want a healthy sex life! All she ever wants is me to hold her and to cuddle. I don't like cuddling that much, and same with kissing, I hate kissing it's sticky and just eh which she doesn't understand so she thinks I don't like her which is not true. She says I don't show her enough affection which is bullsh it. I hug and hold her and kiss her as much as I can withstand without being grossed out. And if i refer to sex as "sex" and not "making love" she gets angry and ignores the question. What am I doing wrong? I don't understand. The most we have sex, If I'm lucky, is once a week not even, more like once every two weeks. I'm tired of this. I know she loves me and I know I love her but how do I improve our sex lives?? Ps- when we do have sex she says its amazing, so i dont think its the performance thats wrong....oh and she's never been raped or abused or anything i know for a fact
I want to have sex with my girlfriend, but she doesn't want it and I don't want to force her to. However, I have a friend who is ready to have sex with me without having any other feelings, meaning we are just doing it for fun. Should I have sex with her?
I’m going to tell you the truth. You are not married. You are a free agent! Free agents go where they are wanted. The answers you received are very idealistic, but they are not realistic. You may not marry your girlfriend. You may not marry the woman who is willing to have sex. But you don’t owe anybody anything except safe-sex! Every one of those women who gave you the idealistic answers will be the first to complain about a man who doesn’t know what he is doing when it comes to sex. As a young man, you owe it to yourself to experience as many women as your nature will allow. Wrap it up and keep your partner safe.Enjoy yourself and don't discriminate. If the woman is willing, you should be ready. Too many people in the U.S. commit too quickly and miss out on a single life. Then they are left wondering about sex with a new partner. Sew your wild oats now. And no you don't have to tell your girlfriend anything. If she not a part of your sex life, she's NOT A PART of your sex life. And be discreet, don't kiss and tell. Nobody needs to know. Once you are good at pleasing a woman, you won't have to say. They'll do it for you. ( television, telephone tell a woman!) When you are married you'll be a bit more worldly, and you should be more than able to satisfy your wife. Good luck.
My girlfriend never wants to have sex anymore?
At first we did it often like once or maybe even twice a week at first. We ve been together 3 years now and she don t like to do it at all. I ll ask or make a move and get rejected. She says she doesn t want to because it is too much work and it doesn t feel as good cuz it gets irritated down there for her and she says she s too tired all the time. I m lucky if we do it once a month if that. I love her to death and don t want another woman but I am wordering why she don t want to do it like a real reason. She recently wen to the gynecologist and told her it feels irritated when having sex and the doctor told her that nothing is wrong and didn t even ask her a questions about it. And she won t go see another either. It took me forever to get her to go to see a new regular doctor and then she told her to see the gyno so she could have a complete check up.
My girlfriend never wants to have sex with me?? (lesbian relationship)?
I dont know what to do. me and my girlfriend have been together for about 2 years now and for this last year nd a half she hasnt wanted to have sex! we have a pretty big age difference. im 19 and shes 29. i think that has a lot to do with it but STILL i know old *** people that still have sex. The other thing i can think of is that i have gained like 40 pounds since got together. i know i need to get in shape but still that shouldnt stop us from doing something every now and then. i have tried to play hard to get but its very hard. i have tried to play the confident role. i have tried to offer different things like games and toys. please.. some suggestions!! thanks.. ill pick best answer too