Ugly Guy/Ugly Girl + Decent Looking Guy/Decent Looking Girl aka Mismatched Couples, WTF?
Now, since I am a guy, I'll be the first to admit....LOOKS DO MATTER, HIGHLY. I am not a handsome guy, I'll also admit to that! But I go out a lot and see these mismatched couples, ugly guy/ugly girl + nice looking guy/nice looking girl and I agonize thinking, WTF, I mean really WTF?????? Now before you answer with the PC answer of "oh, maybe he/she is a nice person", seriously, reality check yourself!! Unless the repulsive one of the couple (and by repulsive, I mean fairly overweight, bad skin, caveman/cavewoman looks) is loaded with money, it is NOT natural for these decent looking men/women to have such little regard for their partners looks!! Even if the repulsive person is a "nice" person, how do you deal with the romance with someone who may have back fat, hair all over and generally all around disgusting!? Now of course, a supermodel male or female can be evil and have a horrible personality so naturally you wouldn't want to spend your life with them regardless of their looks. That I DO understand. But I also know that if you ask out someone, usually the person bases it off initial impressions, i.e. LOOKS! I think these mismatched couples are due in large part to the attractive person in the couple to have some serious psychological ISSUES!! What are your thoughts?
How come my friend, who is not that good looking is able to get a fairly decent looking girl?
Because you’re under the mistaken impression that looks actually matter. They don’t. Not really.Sure, they might help with the initial attraction, and getting your foot in the door, but personality plays a much larger role in finding partners. No one wants to date someone who is good looking, but an abusive asshole.If you ask women what they want from a partner, you’ll find the majority barely even mention any physical attributes. Instead, you’ll often see things like “funny,” “intelligent,” “kind,” “respectful,” “honest,” “confident.” You’ll notice how absolutely none of these have anything to do with how good a guy looks, and yet routinely women list these attributes as most important in a romantic partner.If you want to know why your friend is successful, trying paying attention to his personality, and less on his looks.
Can a girl date me if I’m neither good looking nor getting a decent salary?
Thanks for the A2A.Yeah, why not?Who said looks and cash are everything? Okay…They are somehow detrimental bonus points most of the time to some of us but really, it's not always a guarantee of having a stable relationship.We've seen hot millionaires go through nasty divorces and splits. A good example would be legendary swoonworthy droolworthy Brad Pitt and his ex Angelina Jolie.That aside, you can get a girl despite all this by making sure you actually work to get yourself in a better position where you'd be confident enough with yourself.All a girl wants is a guy with motivation. That alone gives them security for a future with you.So to answer your question again; Yes.A girl can date you despite your shortcomings as long as you don't let them determine how far you're going to scale.Most billionaires or millionaires you've seen today weren't born into money, they worked for it. And if you look close enough there's always been a lady behind most of them.So why not embrace that mentality and do the same?Ignore all the negativity and get yourself a genuine girl who'll stay by your side(because I'm positive as I'm sure of snow during Christmas *for lack of a better expression* that there are prospectives out there).You've got nothing to lose by doing so.So take a deep breath, believe and live.Break out of that narrow minded cocoon and see yourself for who got really are.A prospective husband who's investing in his family's future if he keeps on grinding.Everybody learns from hustle.If you stick to it, you'll learn to love it.
I'm a really good looking guy but cant get any girls?
ok so Im a really good looking guy, I've been told so many times by a lot of women of all ages and races and even by men like family members, friends, etc not in a homosexual way though, girls stare at me wherever I go and all of that, I'm also very smart i do really well in school, anyway my good looks do not even help me at all because when it comes to getting a girlfriend I fail miserably, the only girls I could go out with are really unattractive and It would never work out for me because I simply cant go out with a girl Im not attracted to , being good looking backfires on me and i get nothing not even a decent normal girl and it surprisingly started to affect my self-esteem now because i never had a girlfriend and I'm about to turn 20, also I've seen so many disgusting looking guys get really hot girls or a lot of girlfriends i've also seen the biggest losers and assholes get nice cute girls and i get nothing and it makes me feel like biggest failure and i feel so humiliated because how can a smart good looking guy get no girls but an ugly *** guy can?? It's being good looking a curse and not a good thing?? im not the best when it comes to talking to girls but im not bad either, im also a comic and very funny guy always love to make everybody laugh, that's one of my best qualities besides the good looks, I make girls laugh a lot but I still fall short, im also aware that there are other guys out there that really know how to talk to girls but they are usually so ugly! but however they get girls! how can just that one thing work for them??? Im really really confused! any help would be much appreciated thanks!
Why does every girl want a good looking guy?
Girls and boys alike are drawn to attractive people.This is just part of human nature. If you’re at a bar and a man or woman approaches you and offers to buy you a drink, whether you accept or decline will be dependent on how attractive you find the person. It’s just the way things are.However, initial attraction does not mean that girls will only ever want good looking guys.Appearance is the shallow, initial way of judging someone - whether you think they’re good looking, whether you like the clothes they are wearing, whether they have a nice smile, whether you like their haircut etc.However, lots of people actually form friendships with others first, and then this blossoms into a romantic relationship. You may initially become friends with someone not because you find them attractive but because you have some things in common, you like the same TV shows or music etc. You then become attracted to each other the more you get to know one another.Alternatively, some girls would much prefer a guy who is loyal, respectful, funny, friendly, caring, etc.Some girls care more about a guy’s personality and how he behaves, rather than what he looks like.So to answer your question, not every girl wants a good looking guy.
How important are the looks of guys for Indian girls?
Is he compatible on a mental level?Can u laugh with him till ur stomach hurts?Can u talk rubbish with him?Can u talk to him about anything and everything in the world?Can u trust him?Do u understand what is going to be his response for a particular situation?Are u restless after ur fight and want to go talk to him? (Though it is his mistake?).......................... (n it will go on)Well YES! Look of the guy does matter! The "LOOK" in his eyes!The rest doesn't matter!
What does it mean when someone says you're decent looking?
decent looking could mean many things. for me, it means u're not ugly and u're not supermodel pretty. someone one wouldnt mind bringing home to meet the folks. 1-10... decent... would be... 6? or 7? and everyone's taste is different. someone i might think is a 4, could be an 8 to someone else. thats why no one's really a 1 in this world. everyone is at least a 5 to someone else.
I met a really nice, decent looking, classy, educated guy but he has a REALLY bad lisp and its embaressing??
It sounds like you are still a little immature for someone like him. If you had the self-confidence of maturity you would realize that the opinion of others is not important - only whether you and the guy make a good couple. Why should you be embarrassed if he has a lisp? It isn't contagious and you won't catch it yourself. He is the one who has to deal with it and how shallow people will feel about it. This poor guy probably thinks he has finally found a nice girl who is able to like him for the inner person and not judge him by his speech. It is a shame that you are really a shallow, immature girl who could never look past what others may think.