Do you think I'm attractive enough to have a girlfriend in this life? Many girls turn me down so much that I have just given up.
I prefer to begin with the bad news: you might not be attractive to most of the girls you're attracted to. No one is attractive to everyone.The good news: there's nothing wrong with how you look.The future: your look will mature and your tastes will change, and the girls will also change their tastes as they mature. That could be a good or bad thing.The full picture: how you look is only one part of what girls want.This is the other stuff:It helps if they can brag to their peers about you, that's the superficial part of the equation where looks, money, fame, power comes in. This helps get you past their filter faster and easier.You're the type of person who can take care of himself and others, if needed. You're reliable, responsible, dependable, strong, solid, rugged. You take care of yourself, and you continously develop and improve yourself.This is part of the above, but important enough to deserve its own point. Show her you want her, but don't be needy! You're a man who has a full life (the above point is complimented with the below point in this one),You need to have a purpose. You don't need to have a good high paying career right now, but you'll need to have ambition and for it to look like you have a future you're working towards. Your purpose could be to make the world a better place, to take care of your family, to travel the world, to win an Olympic gold medal, to rebuild that junkyard car and restore it…. You need drive, to have something you're passionate about where your eyes light up when you talk about it.You're respectful and considerate of the people around you, but you're not a pushover. How you treat others in different circumstances tells her how you'll treat her, but you can stand up for yourself.You're able to make her laugh and feed her.That's the universe of things you can do. The rest is the work of finding mutual attraction and compatibility… that's trial and error and lots of luck.
How can I become a handsome and attractive man?
I used to look like this back in 2014.Fat and ugly.I look like this now! Handsome and attractive!Here's what I did to achieve not only good looks but also attention from the girls.Water :Drink LOTS of water .I personally drink 5– 6 entire bottles of water in a day ,2 while working out alone.Water keeps you hydrated and ensures that toxins are thrown out of your body.Skin Care : I started taking care of my skin.I use a scrub every 3 days and moisturise daily.I also use a skin cleansing brush once a week. Glowing skin is a plus ,always.Lips and teeth: I use VLCC lip balm everyday.I brush twice a day.Bright pink luscious lips are always a turn on for a girl.Workout: I lost 30 kilos and became muscular.You read that right.This is the main thing that transformed me,rest were just add ons. Muscles indicate masculinity and trust me the girls cant resist staring at a sculpted pair of pecs.Haircare: I started following trendy hairstyles —the undercut,pompadour ,quiff etc.I also started using serums and argan oil to keep them shining.They work wonders.Eat Healthy: You are what you eat.Eat clean stay lean steal the queen \U0001f4aa.Confidence And Personality: All of the above is rubbish if you dont have a personality.Girls like dominant rebellious guys who are confident about thenselves.A little humour will take you places.In the end I realised a true woman will go beyond the riums of physical appearance and love you.Treat her right,respect her for who she is and be a true gentleman .Thats all you truly need.All the best,Chickmags!Edit 1: Sorry i forgot to mention electrolytes and multivatimins.They work wonders.Edit 2: Thank you for the views and upvotes! I'll keep writing!
Do you have to be attractive to get a girlfriend?
I consider myself not bad looking. But what I dont get is the fat people, and the people with more acne than I do, have girlfriends. The world makes no sense at all. What do you think? I want someone skinny or average. I dont want a fat person. How can I think about spending the future with someone, when they aint going to be here? Here I am. http://www.okcupid.com/profile/JimCarrey...
Stoner-hippie boys, what do you find attractive in a girl?
OK.. as a somewhat stoner-hippie boy (except that I look after myself hygienically, support myself, and volunteer), I can say that I like girls who are similar I guess. Openmindedness is really important, having a great smile, making effort to be creative in looking sexy without wearing lots of makeup, and not being a typical hippie (doesn't bathe, borrowing money, get stoned all day every day). Just be relaxed, learn and read, and enjoy and be comfortable with your sexuality without using it as a means of making yourself feel better at my expense (no games!). p.s. it takes a VERY special girl to be able to pull off dreads.. I don't really like them personally, they're kind of gross and dirty. p.p.s. i agree with the below, preppy girls are annoying.
Do guys find girls in the military attractive?
Do guys find girls in the military attractive? i guess i am asking because, well, i would like to be in the military when i get out of high school. i want to attend West Point... but then, i would also like to have kids and a family in my future.. not anytime close to now...but in my future.. and i fear that the stereotype that all women in the military are masculine, husky, burly kind of people will drive guys away from me. and i am in no way, shape, or form any of those things.. i am a competitive dancer that loves sports and grew up in a family where war movies and books were the only kinds of movies and books.. and i also grew up with all guy cousins and two brothers.. we played army all the time.. so i mean, i am still girly.. but i like to kick a little ***.. but my main reason for wanting to be in the military is not to kick *** or break old fashion traditions.. it is for the discipline which i need to get through college, it gives me a plan for life that is bigger than myself, it gives me more than just putting on a performance in dance (which is my other option...to become a professional dancer), it means i am making a difference, but most importantly, to me at least, i want to be a counselor when i am just a bit older.. i want to counsel soldiers.. heavens knows they need it after all that they see.. anyway, i want to help people.. bottom line.. So, are females in the military attractive or well, scary? not that it would change my decision on wanting to go to West Point anyway..
Do girls find electrical engineers attractive?
When it gets down to the practical (yes, as distinct from biological) fundamentals and the filmstar dreams are burned out, most modern, at least semi-intelligent, women are hoping for a man who can offer them a financially secure future at a reasonable standard of living, will be reliable, stable and pro-active (e.g.of some use around the house from time to time), will have plenty to keep his mind occupied and hopefully off other women and have a profession she can at least respect if not understand. Engineers are high on the list (electrical or not). However, that is all AFTER it gets to the practical fundamentals. Before that the engineer frequently has something of a selling problem. He's often a guy more occupied with substance than with packaging and substance doesn't often clinch the initial sale. He often enjoys less exposure to women in his profession. So, dear engineer, work a bit on the early relationship stages (at least up to and including the first date) - look a bit smart, be a bit amusing (don't overdo that one), learn to listen constructively, get to know about what's going on outside engineering and maybe do some active sport, then, given your advantages in the later stages, you'll be a great score and moreover enjoy plenty of choice in the matter. Please take a moment to award one of you answers "Best Answer". That's partly why we do this!!
Ok so I've been thinking a lot lately about the future and what could happen in my life. Im only 15 but I do really well in exams and?
Of course you will have what you wish for, it is simply untrue that "only the popular and attractive people" get what they want. You have decided that you are not attractive and this may also be untrue. What you probably are is self-conscious and insecure. What is "attractiveness" anyway? Is it only looks? Is it personality? What about character, sense of humor, being ethical and honest, what about simply being a nice person? Listen: there is somebody out there for everyone, and more than one person, at that. You may be in a stage where you are, as yet, undeveloped, either socially , physically, or in terms of your personality. There may be, most likely, much more to come ! Stop measuring yourself against the "attractive and popular" set. By the time you all reach adulthood, things may well have reversed themselves. See if you can find the movie "Romy and Michele's High School Renunion". Its fun ! And, it carries a great message. Good wishes, P.S. : If you want to have more friends of either gender, try talking to them more. AND, show an interest in them, become a really good listener, and watch what happens !