I'm good looking, but i can't get a girl?
I completley understand what you're saying I don't think you're conceited. You can be good looking but girls like guys who are more outgoing, you have to go up and talk to them and not be shy. I mean I see my friends with guys who are so ugly but they're so happy and fun and outgoing you kind of forget that they aren't the best looking if you know what i mean. Just get out there and approach the girls! I give a guy who will approach me and talk to me a lot more credit than one that just sits there and stares at me until I go talk to him. Understand? :) good luck! you only live once so get out there!
Do you think girls under 1.60 cm can still be good-looking? Why(not)?
Today only girls over 1.70 cm are presented as cute, sexy, smart and so on. But what about small girls? Why they can't be as good as the others? Isn't this a kind of discrimination? if you were a guy, would you date with a girl who is, let's say, only 1.50 cm?
Good looking guy cant get girls?
Okay, i' m an 18 year old male in high school and i know i' m a good looking guy because girls always tell me i am. the problem is i don' t get girls at all. I feel like i' m pretty funny and i can talk to girls okay. I just don't have the confidence to make any moves. For example at parties girls will always give me a gazing stare pretty much saying, " please talk to me" but i freeze up and never do it. Or when i do end up talking to a girl and we're flirting, I don't know how to make a move so they get annoyed and end up leaving. I also have pretty high standards so maybe I go for too much. So anyway I need help or answers to this problem. Either i' m cursed, have no game, have no confidence, or i' m over thinking this too much. Cheers!
Do all girls love only boys who are good looking?
No, dude she is absolutely wrong.Are looks important? Yes.Are they the only things a girl looks for? No.What else does a girl look for when it comes to boys? Is it money? Yes, we take a note of that too.Do girls only go for boys who are rich? No, that's not what the earlier point meant.Then, do girls go for boys who are good looking and rich only? No.Then what about average-looking ones but rich? Nah.Okay maybe, good looking but not rich? Nops.Yes we take into account how a boy looks and whether he is rich or not. But, no that's not what makes us decide on which boy to date.If a boy is good looking and rich but not considerate towards anything, we don't like them.If he is average looking and rich but treats everyone like slaves, nah, we don't like that too.If he is average looking and not so rich but behaves like a hooligan, noda noda.Money and looks don't make a person.You could be all rich and handsome from the outside but if you lack personality, we don't bother.Looks are important only because that is the first thing we notice in people. That's true. I might say that looks don't matter for me but I'll still differentiate people according to that.But do i only talk to boys who are good looking? No. Maybe i talk to them because they are rich? Not at all.Money only matters for me to see how well a boy handles that- that means whether he keeps his financial affairs private or boasts about them.You need to be comfortable in your own skin. That's what matters.We go for boys who are kind and considerate; who know how to handle situations when needed; one who can support us- emotionally when we need that; an understanding and good listener; and those who don't care about what girls think.Looks are only for outer beauty- it doesn't define how people are from the inside.And money, no, it's not everything.That said, i am obviously not including every girl in this context, some might have different opinions too.Don't let that girl's words make you feel bad about yourself. Be comfortable in yourself, don't let anybody else define you.
I want to get a girl, but I’m not good looking. I know I am very sweet and nice. How do I do it?
If you are not a Christian, I would advise you to become one, for several reasons. One, sweetness and niceness are valued in the Christian community. Two, there are more women than men in the church. Three, the women are traditional. They are looking for marriage, a stable life, children, etc. They expect to be faithful and submissive. Where else are you going to find that? Four, if you become a real, sincere Christian, you get to go to heaven and avoid going to hell. How can you beat that?But if you are already a Christian, I would advise going to a large church if possible, one where there is a good singles group in your age bracket. A lot of the large churches tend to be “seeker friendly” and have wishy-washy interpretations of the Bible that try to please everyone, and are not faithful to the scriptures. If you can’t find a large church that really teaches the Bible in honesty, you can still go to some of their singles social groups, but make sure you home church is sound.Also, Bible Study Fellowship has a section for singles who are under 35. There are also many Christian seminars and retreats, etc. that you can go to, and there are exclusively Christian singles websites. Volunteer work in a church or Christian organization is a good way to meet people. Then, last but not least, pray. God can find the right person for you, and if you put Him first, you are more likely to be blessed in all areas of life.“Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?“(For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things.“But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.“Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.” Matthew 6:31–34Put your life in God’s hands, be faithful and confident, and may the Lord be with you.PS I wasted most of my life rebelling against God. If I had it to do over again, I would do exactly as I am advising you.
Should I marry a girl who is not so good looking for her nature?
Definately “ go for it”.You might be thinking what about my 20s to 40s . That someone should tell you “ that you have a very good looking wife”. But think twice . Because looks don't last ever. What matters is how good she is in managing your family, How much she loves you.I would like to tell you one incidentI have one friend . His name is kanal. He is not so good looking. His skin tone is slightly dark . He is little bit oversized. He used to love a girl. When i asked him “ what's so special about her” . He just said “ i don't know”. Every day he went to school just to see her . It continued for around 2 years. One day he proposed her. And as usual, history stands in front “ she refused him”. That guy was broke. And you know why she rejected him. Because she had a crush on a dashing good looking man. But you know what “ this is what happens all the time”. Everyone expects better and better. If that girl would have accepted him . I can damn bet sure that he would have kept her on his eyes. When i talk to him i could empathy him.When in relationship of two one thinks is better than other then the self esteem play its role. Its been well said that its better to love someone who loves you . Looks is just asthetic whereas nature and personality is functional. Looks are subjected to change. Imagine yourself with a girl with height of beauty. You marry her . But what if she starts direspecting you. That is not obviliatable. And you know what if she thinks she is better in compare to you , definitely she will act autonomously. You won't be holding any importance to her. Whereas the girl with good, kind, nature will always be there for you with dedication .I, right now is in love or don't know what. The girl i love is arrogant,don't care for me maybe , independent, selfish and don't know what not . When i just keep distance from her ,i can't . I have this memory of her, what i felt at first for her ,which don't let me break with her. So I'm keeping it still. From this i could tell you that “ Yes dude , looks don't matter”. You are one lucky guy if you have got a girl with a good wit. Embrace her . Make her feel special. When she will be happy , you will find your happiness within her .Love and be loved.Hope this helps.
What do pretty girls think of not so good-looking boys?
I am not a pretty girl, though I have pretended to be once or twice. It was exciting, if a bit deceptive, and overall I felt "pretty" good about myself while doing so. But, enough about me, let's talk about your question.I think it is far more important to be a good person than to be a pretty, handsome, or sexy person. For the following reasons:Have you ever seen Mommy Dearest, the movie? Joan Crawford was an absolute hottie in her day, but really, who cares? She turned out to be a terrible mother to her children, and a little off kilter. Nobody wants that for the long term. Do you know the history of Arnold Schwarzenegger? He is a likeable person who cheats on his wife, admitted to using illegal drugs, and groped his office staff and co-workers. Please, who would want that guy as a real mate?Are you familiar with Michael Jackson? He was handsome and cute in his day, but what happened as he grew older? I'm not aware of many women who would put up with his behavior, just because he was handsome.These are just three examples of why most people do not consider looks as the most important facet of a human being's desirability. If everything else is right, and you are good looking, that is a bonus. It is a rare relationship where both partners are obviously hot like Posh and Becks, and history will let us know if they are also good people.In the meantime, focus on the proper things and a girl will come into your life, change your perspective, and you will find her the most beautiful thing on the planet. She will see you the same way, but only if you are about the right things in life, and not about beating your kids, groping the help, or...
Why R good looking girls so conceded ?
Here's where it equals out. A good looking girl will go for a good looking guy in hopes of a great catch. Most of the time the good looking guys are total manwhores and are just looking for arm candy. As she is conceited she thinks theres more to it than just having a banging girl hanging off your arm and sex with a hottie. For the good looking guy its nothing more than a trophy because they are just as conceited as the good looking girls. So really pick a girl that is average, they tend to be a little more down to Earth and not so caught up in themselves that they cant see a good thing if it hit them in the face. Which by the way is what commonly occurs when good looking guys go with good looking girls a lot of abuse tends to arise. I was a bouncher at a bar for a while and I watched it happen day in and day out. I aint Brad Pitt but im not Lyle Lovit or Tom Petty either. One young lady looked like Jewel minus the sommer teeth (some are here some are there). She would talk to me and when I asked her if shed like to go out sometime she said "I'd rather just be friends, its complicated). Thats slang for "I think I'm to good for you". Well she hooked up with this well dressed, tall handsome guy. I watched as the relationship grew and she still talked to me. Well one day she came in crying, broke heart and a blackeye. She asked me what I thought she should do. I said you should have said "sure I'd like to go out with you sometime" I know the value of a lady and how to treat them they arent trophys there something to adorn and cherrish despite what your looks are. So she got what she wanted, a great looking guy who gave her a blackeye and a broke heart. Should have picked what was behind door number 2.
I'm a really good looking guy but cant get any girls?
ok so Im a really good looking guy, I've been told so many times by a lot of women of all ages and races and even by men like family members, friends, etc not in a homosexual way though, girls stare at me wherever I go and all of that, I'm also very smart i do really well in school, anyway my good looks do not even help me at all because when it comes to getting a girlfriend I fail miserably, the only girls I could go out with are really unattractive and It would never work out for me because I simply cant go out with a girl Im not attracted to , being good looking backfires on me and i get nothing not even a decent normal girl and it surprisingly started to affect my self-esteem now because i never had a girlfriend and I'm about to turn 20, also I've seen so many disgusting looking guys get really hot girls or a lot of girlfriends i've also seen the biggest losers and assholes get nice cute girls and i get nothing and it makes me feel like biggest failure and i feel so humiliated because how can a smart good looking guy get no girls but an ugly *** guy can?? It's being good looking a curse and not a good thing?? im not the best when it comes to talking to girls but im not bad either, im also a comic and very funny guy always love to make everybody laugh, that's one of my best qualities besides the good looks, I make girls laugh a lot but I still fall short, im also aware that there are other guys out there that really know how to talk to girls but they are usually so ugly! but however they get girls! how can just that one thing work for them??? Im really really confused! any help would be much appreciated thanks!