I'm new to my period and could use some advice? (Girls and ladies only! :P)?
Ok, I'm also new to my period, im only 13 and i got it a few weeks ago so I can't really answer the questions but I'm really good at this helping stuff. I've done research before and from what I remember, I can help 1. (from research) it is normal for you to have your period after two weeks because when you first get your period, your period cycle could be unbalanced 2. (research) I too experience a brown discharge, and from research, they say it's okay and normal to have this because it's getting rid of old tissues inside of you. Maybe this is why you had your tissues coming out. I'm not sure how you know it's your tissue, but it seems weird. Try seeing a doctor, you'll be able to have better answers, advice from your doctor and maybe even medicine too. 3. (partial research) Mine lasted about 7 days when I first got it. Again, when you first get your period, the cycle may be unbalanced at first. 4. Cramping, feeling blooded and other stuff also you feeling terrible is just a side effect from your period. To ease the pain, taking medicine will help. 5. Most likely, no. 6. My mother told me to place the pad farther back for when your sleeping. Some people tend to sleep on their stomach more than their back, or the other way around. Depending on how u sleep, is where you should place your pad. 7. If your period is heavy, your probably gonna have to change the tampons more. I don't use tampons so I can't recommend anything, sorry. But I do know a good website that's meant for girls and it's about your period and about growing up. Mostly period x). Check it out at www.beinggirl.com it's really good. They also promote this brand for tampons and pads. There's a professional there who you can personally ask questions and see other questions that are mostly asked and they are answered. I hope I helped, I tried my best. Just remember to check out the site ( www.beinggirl.com ) and maybe you can find out more. You can also go on google and do some research like I do (I'm a huge researcher) and hope some of the knowllege rubs off on you.
She led me on and broke my heart I could really use some advice?
after the first date we really hit it off.from what I heard this girl was crazy about me it was long distance because of my job,so most of our contact after that was through text messages phone calls and then we started writing letters.everything was going great for a while but then she started getting distant after a few months. she would never return my text messages even after a week because I tried waiting it out once and it took that long she would say she was busy but nobody is that busy that they can't return a text for a week straight. eventually I got tired of it and I called her one day and told her thatI didn't think she was ready to be committed to a relationship and that if she ever wanted one I would be here but I was calling it offand she was completely okay with that at least she said.we still texted back and forth once in awhile and then I finally got to come home for the holidays and we met up for coffee and caught up. I feel like we were both avoiding the conversation about us at the time. I really regretted not bring it up because I wanted some closure about it but when I asked her if we could meet up again before I left she said she would be gone for thanksgiving and couldn't meet up.So I went back across the country.Ever since I called it off I've regretted it. I still really care about her and every time I see her in Facebook I get really down.I can't stop thinking about her and I want to tell her that. But I feel like I can't. Please give some advice.
17 year old girl in need of some relationship advice, please and thanks?
I've been with this guy for about three years. It started off really badly, arguing fighting, physically and emotionally, breaking up all of the time, he would flirt with other girls a lot, just calling them cute and telling each other how much they missed each other, but I don't think he ever cheated. If I was as smart as I am now I would have left him. But slowly I've been falling out of love, feeling like we don't belong together. But he is turning into a better person. He never talks to other girls, I haven't caught him lying in forever, we haven't even faught in a really long time. This is what is making the decision hard for me I think. I've tried to talk to him about like, if he sees a future with me or if he feels committed to me or if I make him feel committed. He says that it doesn't matter until later. My mom says the same thing. I didn't used to agree, I always felt like, if you're going to have a long term relationship you should at least think of the future some what, not just dating because you feel like it, especially not for three years. Should I feel that way? Is it normal to feel that way? Is it normal to want to be with other guys? What is right and what is wrong? He's the only boyfriend I've ever had, but really how many teenagers really find their husband when they are fourteen? How am I supposed to know if this is the guy I should be with, the guy that is going to make me happy, when he is the only guy I've ever known? Are you supposed to date a lot of people? I just need some help, thank you!
Signs she is using you1) She makes excuses not to meet you or cancel plans at the last moment without any reason.2) Her phone keeps ringing but her whatsapp "last seen" says otherwise.3) She never pays for anything, from that pizza to her phone recharge, but asks you to do so in sweet overtones.4) She will tell u a lot about her guy friends and make them sound much smarter than you intentionally.5) If you call at night before sleeping to share sweet nothings and she always hangs up saying she is tired or sleepy, I mean ALWAYS, thats a big red flag.6) She always texts or calls you when she is horny (Yes that happens!) or when she needs some help.7) Never replies or always replies late to your "I Love You"s and when she replies she subtly changes the topic.8) Openly flirts with other guys in front of you.9) Lies a lot. Of course this is difficult to catch because men usually don't think rationally in front of a girl he likes.10) Never gets physical with you. BIG BIG Red flag. Not even first base. But she is cool with sexting. Wow!11) She never calls you first unless point no. 6Tests to determine whether a girl is using you or not1) The false positive test- Ask her to recharge your phone once. Or to pay the food bill. She will most probably make an excuse. That's Ok.2) The foolproof test- She never maintains any eye contact with you. Eye contact comes naturally to lovers but not someone who is not in love with you. Also she will never get closer than an arm length to you.Warnings1) Not every person is same. Still, these are the most common red flags and greater the number, the more likely that she is using.2) Always be rational and don't get too attached emotionally.Final Note:If a girl really loves you, she will make sure that only your existence matters to her in her life.
Sorry for the late answer,The best way to go about it is to be straight up and confident, stand tall and tell her “Wazzup, you wanna meet up later?” not exactly along those lines but you get the idea,And the way to get to that confidence level is honestly all inside of you,Life is short as f***,there are times when you are standing at the edge, ready to jump into this whole new precipice of adventures or whatever, and you know something could come of it, there is that chance, and that chance will never happen if you don’t take that jump,if you like this girl, go ask her out or whatever you wanna tell her, go do it, if it crashes and burns, than just remember this great quote, “What defines us is how well we rise after we have fallen”- Anonymous, I know that’s a bit dramatic for this situation, but if you get turned down, then you move on and keep kicking ass,Find yourself another girl, get super rich, who knows, but one things for sure, you’ll know that she missed a great oppurtunity,Honestly the best way to boost confidence is to just go for it, the more you ask girls out, even if they turn you down, the easier it gets as I have heard.
First time dating advice please?
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I think i'm holding my girl friend back i could use some advice?
I think i'm holding my girl friend back from getting a career and a job in progressing with her life. She is a Filipina i met on my last year on my international trip i i'm a usa citizen who lives in texas. I met her on myspace back then when i wasn't interested in girls from the Philippines just added her because her photo looked cute but we started talking and had many of the same hobbies and interests. To the point that i mention i was going on a international trip and she offered me a room i can rent at her home where she lives with her mom by that point we were always talking daily for about 3 months. During my 6 weeks there we became a couple , and that was in 6-5-09 now its 6-3-10 she finally graduated from her 4 year college for business admin and she currently working on her papers to come here but i don't think she means to say this but she always mentions that she wishes she had a job like her friends and she got offers from different companies but she needs to work for them for a min of 6 months , in a way because she wants to visit me she giving up all those offers because if you work for a company it looks bad if you only work for them for a month then just leave them to go on a vacation. a quote from her is "If i was going there i would be working for a company right now like my friends" I'm not to sure what to do it really feels like i'm holding her back because she wants to open her own fashion store and she wants to start working to get money to open it. If some of you are reading and thinking shes just with you for your money shes not because she never asks for money ,but of course i do help her for her papers because at the salary they make it would take to long for her to get it by her self. I'm always feeling guilty when she says something like that because i keep feeling like i'm causing her to be unable to fulfill her dream because i'm asking her to come here and shes unable to work. I'm not sure what to do