If a guy’s looks don’t matter, then why do girls only swipe right on hot guys on Tinder?
This question makes a hell lot of assumptions- 1.“if a guy's looks don't matter…” , says who?2.“Girls swipe right only on hot guys”..Who did this survey and on what sample population and what statistical test was used to prove/ discard the hypothesis?Look, understand one thing. Looks matter. They very much do. Tell me how many average guys would date a charismatic,confident, humorous girl as opposed to a botoxed bimbo? An honest answer would be appreciated and not idealistic rhetoric that would never see the light of action. From what I have seen the good, intelligent girls are generally total turnoffs as far dating is concerned because, well most men are insecure and are used to seeing women as maids minus a voice or a empty headed arm candy.Tinder or any such app for that matter are aimed towards casual hook-ups. That is what their USP is all about. So girls who use Tinder and seeking a diversion and naturally they would go for someone enticing. You may never meet again so better to have a little fun while it lasts.Indian Society somehow has this embedded idea that beauty is exclusively a female's domain and every Mr. Dark+Bald+Hideous is perfectly justified to look for a Miss.Fair+Lovely +Docile cow but the vice versa is not true. Naturally, since most Indian men can't exactly be considered what you call lookers !! So better to nip the competition in the bud. Very intelligent !!Yes, that precisely is what happened for very long. But with globalization and internet, the fact the male beauty is also a thriving concept has finally arrived in India which again has ruffled quite a few feathers in the carefully crafted notion of “beauty is a women's domain ” in India. So since girls too are checking men out has come off as quite a shock to our male brethren who are finding it tough to rise up to the occasion. Sorry guys!! But these are challenging times.
How can I make things right with this girl?
I kinda hate when stuff like this happens. There's a misunderstanding or a mistake and then people seem to want to have nothing to do with you anymore because of it. Anyways, do you have a chance? Sure. Is there anything that you can do to make her talk to you? No. There is nothing you can do. Unfortunately if you try to contact her over and over that will only strengthen her resolve to not say anything.Just message her one last time explaining the situation and apologize for the mistake. And leave it there.
Girls only watch movies for the "Hot" guys. Am I right to think this?
i don't think you are being sexist but i think you are generalizing a little, like i am about to do. girls in their teens to early twenties certainly view movies this way. when Pirates of the Carribean or LoTR came out, all you hear about is Orlando Bloom this, Orlando Bloom that, Viggo Mortensen this, Johnny Depp that, you don't hear anything about the movie itself, just they love to see the seemingly hot hero character killing people and making jokes. they are bad boys which girls like. And sometimes they are more obvious about it than guys are. Like when Titanic came out they fantasized about some amazing adventure romance with a boy etc. it's the same deal. they are more sympathetic/empathetic so the transference works better on them, they find themselves more readily identifying with the female lead and her fantasies too. until they mature, there are only relatively few who actually think about what they are watching beyond the glamour boy lead. i think part of it is related to the changes in emotional maturity and interest that occur as girls grow up, and the other part is that girls notice different things and in general think less critically about a movies message or methods and more about the emotional response. it's just the way girls are. guys are more analytical in general whereas girls are more emotional. i think you are seeing some of that in your experience.
HELP !! (GIRLS ONLY) Im using pads right now but im an athlete and i really wanna use tampons.?
Okay so please help me :( i really wanna use tampons because i am sick and tired of using nasty pads. So i was a little nervous about putting a tampon in because it looks scary, but i tried and i couldn't get it in i tried like 20 times and i just cant seem to get it. So i took some advice about looking in a mirror at yourself, so i did and i can see a small hole but there's this ball of skin blocking my vagina hole ? i touched it and it feels like squishy skin. i don't know what it is. I'm not sexually active and I'm 14. So please help ! I HATE PADS I NEED TAMPONS.
Are you a guy waiting for the right girl to come along ?
I've never had sucess with women. I've given up pretty much.
Are teenage boys or girls mature enough to make the right decision on relationship matters?
Never can a teenage boy or Girl can make right decision regarding relationships. See,most teenage relationships are just a show-off type of thing. Teenagers are influenced by Hollywood and Bollywood celebrities and their stories, they are influenced from movies and now even thanks to Netflix. They do not realize how beautiful friendship is, all they want is to have a girlfriend or a boyfriend and create relationship goals, good pictures on Instagram, making out new terms every year, new hashtag. All they end up is being alone. Teenage is that time of your life where you need to understand and introspect yourself, you need to think and take decisions for your future and not to get involved in something which is not even meant to stay forever.
Cartilage piercing on left or right ear? For girls?
Does it matter? I only plan on getting this on one ear. I know it makes a difference which ear with guys, idk. If you're a girl who has a cartilage piercing, which ear did you choose and why?