Whatever happened to the sisterhood?
Why do women hate each other so much? I've never understood this as I have always believed in the sisterhood between women. It seems that all women care about is being better, prettier, and having more men than the other women. Has society damaged us so much that we want to kill each other? We're not going to counter false standards of beauty and double standards if we keep calling each b*tch, h**, and everything else. Women, what do you think happened to the sisterhood? Do you think we can ever get it back? Do you practice the sisterhood with your best friends, daughters, etc? Thanks for your answers.
Why don't guys take the time to get to know a shy girl? Why are they always into the outgoing ones?
People who seem approachable get approached more. Duh. And confident outgoing people look for confident, outgoing mates unless they're covering over personal insecurity.So shy girls shouldn't expect to get approached by confident, outgoing guys. If they do they're being unrealistic--and to some extent emotionally lazy, in the sense of expecting the other person to do all the work involved in two strangers getting to know each other.What shy girls should look for is shy guys. You don't have to brazenly walk up to a perfect stranger in a social setting, like those self-confident folks do. You can enlist the aid of friends and family, use a dating service, and/or do volunteer activities that created relationships through the activity. For example, put in a Saturday for Habitat for Humanity, building homes for the poor. Do this several times and you'll get to know others and others, you, through what the Germans call Kameradschaft--the brotherhood/sisterhood of shared work endeavors.There are hobbyist organizations as well as social service ones. I belong to a scuba diving club, for example, and I've seen several relationships form through the club. So even if you're scared of doing what outgoing types like me do, you can still find that special someone--as long as you don't expect to get more than you're willing and able to give.
What do I talk to a girl about, if I don’t know her very well?
I'm assuming you like this girl otherwise why would you ask...So on that basis, talk about what ever you feel like talking about. Do NOT get hung up on thinking what might she want to hear, or what topics she might like to discuss. These days girls like guys who don't bow down and chase them around looking for approval. If you want an actionable plan then here's something that isn't a cheesy line:If you both know eachother exist and haven't spoken yet....Catch her off guard. Next time you see her, don't stop and think about what to say. Head straight for her, say hi in a confident way with a smile and ask her why she hasn't said hi to you yet. Be jokey about it, don't be cocky. Whatever she says, chuckle at it, then tell her what you've got going on that night/weekend (something interesting), see if she engages and asks you about it, if so, carry on about it. If not, then ask her what she's got on at the same time as whatever you just said. (Use this in both situations - if she asks about whatever you said, ask her afterwards, if she doesn't ask, use it straight away)...As a reflex she will think you're trying to schedule asking her out...but you're not, you just told her you're busy on that day. But now she's thinking about you asking her out. Voila, you stayed out of the friendzone. Leave it at that.10x easier to talk to her next time. (Just don't approach her every single day straight away from then on)
Sorority sisterhood event.. HELP with a social event?
If you have any ideas on what I could do for a sober sisterhood event for 260ish girls.. Please let me know. I have a budget but it's not huge. I was thinking a movie night with a huge candy bar where everyone comes in their pajamas. I was just wondering how to make it more comfortable since we will only be in a huge room sitting in chairs.. We don't really have anywhere like a skating/bowling area that will accommodate this many girls. We basically have a huge room with a few screens and chairs/tables. Also, suggestions for movies are welcome too. I was thinking Magic Mike, Sorority Row.. etc. All ideas are welcome! Thanks
Good monologues for a 13/14 year old Girl?
Can't use the words slut, whore, ho, crack, drugs, and alchol sex or things like that. I would like one from Mean girls, The sisterhood of the traveling pants or A cinderella story, If you have a link to one of the Monologues or know it that would be helpful. Thankyouuu. (:
My best friend (girl) is like my sister, and now the biggest hurdle between us is her guy who doesn't want me to stay in her life and she has blocked me, but since she is my sister, I can't let her go off my life. I seriously can't imagine a moment without her. How do I get her back?
There's no difference between chasing a girl and chasing a girl while calling her your sister. If you are bugging her, she should be free to go away.No I'm not so rude. I'm with you, bro. Atleast you deserve a moment to talk and know what made her block you - the guy we're talking about definitely has some role here. If you have some common friends, maybe some of her girls, talk to them and give your point of view. They would forward the message.Well now, don't rant about losing a girl, although you call her a sister. In the end, she is not your sister. You didn't grow together fighting and saving each other like siblings. You will not see the challanges a brother sees when a sister is being married. So right now, just send a message and forget. Focus on your life, your career, skills, knowledge and yes, focus on having fun.