What would you do in this situation??
So I have been working at my hotel job for 10 months now and in the past month Ive worked overtime every week because of other employees calling in. Im not a manager or a supervisor...Im an 18 year old girl trying to make it through school and I thought by taking other peoples hours I would get some respect and maybe a raise. Ive called in probaly 4 times since Ive worked here from being sick...And Ive been late a few time in the past but not anytime recently. One of the people who calls in all the time has missed about 10 days in the last month and about 20 days since Ive worked her and she has more hours then me next week. They moved me down to 19 hours out of no where. Ive been busting my *** and it seems like no one appreciates it or cares. I even took a 12 hour shift today!!! I love my job very much and enjoy it alot...but I feel disrespected and unappreciated. What should I do?
Rare situation.. what should i do? Girls with Flat butt?
I prefer boobs over butt any day. Haha Boobs are great. It can solve many world problems. So don't beat yourself over a part of body. Learn to embrace and love everything about yourself. :) Because you can try supplement and all that, but its not going to make your butt any bigger. Unless you have plastic surgery there, but that's will be like carrying a fake butt for the rest of your life. If you can't even love yourself first, then how you expect the man you're dating to love you?
How do I overcome from the situation where I am thinking about girls and relationships most of the time? I am a 24-year-old guy and my focus and interest have been decreased on other things.
Indian teenagers and men are not able to communicate to girls sometime due to lack of confidence or thinking if she ignores him or fear of society. Same goes for girls and women. We all have our needs and to fullfill it we need to share our thoughts with friends(of opposite gender) or girlfriend/boyfriend. Plus it's your age when you are on your peak of manhood. So thinking about it is ok. But overthinking and loosing your aim of life isn't.How to prevent this:Disable Google Chrome when you are not using it. Only enable it when you really need to search something reasonable.This might also happen because you are not satisfying yourself in adequate proportion per week. You should do it 2 to 3 times a week.If you are facing this problem then you would be getting erections . Why is this happening?it is happening because you are not utilising your energy and it is trying to get used in this way. So start working out or do pushups whenever you are in this condition.If you are indulged in some sort of activity your mind has to concentrate on it and so you won't have those thoughts. So try be as busy as a bee.I hope this might get you through your problem.
What should I do in this situation with a girl I like? I did something special for her 2 months ago, but I haven't asked her out, and we don’t talk that much right now? Do I ask her out, or is it too late?
It is never “too late” to start something, or try to.One big caution: your mention of doing “something special for her” two months ago, sounds a little as though you think on some level that you can buy affection, or that when you do things for people, that you can use that to obligate them to do something for you in return.I urge you to make sure that you don’t have any thought remotely like that in your mind. Not only will it make you appear manipulative, even if you really aren’t, it can serve to confuse you in the moment that you are making your opening “moves,” and cause you to tense up if she doesn’t react the way you hope.Anyway. No, when you interact, and then time goes by, and you later ask them out, you can (hopefully tell the truth) and explain that you’ve thought about them during that time, and decided to ask them out because of how you appreciated them over that time. If anything, that way, instead of you appearing to have made her a “fall back” position, you instead show her that she is someone who you savored for a while, before deciding to act.Good luck.
How do I erase a girl's thought from my mind?
I will discuss about 'memories' in general. Now that your memory is related to a girl you admire (or possibly hate) doesn't make it a different case. Essentially, it is a 'memory' and we will treat it as that.Well, human brain works differently than capacitors and flip-flops. You can register memories, thoughts, feelings, emotions and the like but you cannot de-register. ** (Except if its a case of a lunacy, aging, hemorrhage, Alzheimer's or an otherwise irreversible medical condition)You can however move a particular piece of information to a sort of oblivion. That's what we call the 'fading of memory'. You can do this by not trying to 'update the links'. Now, what is that?Let me explain. Each time we think about something we register that thought, the next time we reference that thought it becomes more prominent in our brains and is moved to a readily accessible zone (computer science students would find it analogous to 'cache'). The more you reference or access the same thought the more it would hover on your thought-space. The reverse is also true. The lesser you reference a thought the more faded it becomes. This should help you to overcome your situation.In a nutshell, Can I erase a thought? - No (Except for ** above)Can I fade a thought? - Yes. Focus elsewhere. I would suggest you learn to play a musical instrument.
GUYS---What should I do in this situation PLEASE HELP ME?
First one man. Bang her like a drum, you know she'll take it. I assume you're young, you don't need to waste your time with a relationship this early on. Save the nice, sweet girls for when you need it. First first first, don't be gay choose first.
I love that girl so much that I cannot bear the thought of break-up, and also I know we are never going to be happy together. What should I do in a situation like this?
You know what, fights and quarrels between couples can actually help in strengthening their relationship if you handle that in a positive way. Every girl, when in a relationship, gets miffed with her guy and secretly hopes that her partner would come pursuing her and initiate some romance. This indeed adds a spark to the relationship. You, as the guy, should take this hint and take advantage of the situation rather than being sad about it like a looser!Moreover, how can you say that you can never be happy with her? Are you some kind of fortune teller?! Just make her happy, enjoy every moment and she’ll definitely care about your happiness too. Don’t play with her emotions by breaking-up with her for the sake of your own selfishness and ineffectiveness! Don’t forget that you’re in a relationship with a woman and not any clown or entertainer that it should be her job alone to make you happy! A relationship is a give and take policy! What you give is what you get back in return!
Girl tells you: "you can do better than me" opinions?
So this girl and I have had a thing for quite a while. Probably 6 months. And she just recently all of the sudden told me that I can do better than her. Then I tell her stuff like I miss her and she says "don't" I say why? And she says "it's too hard on me.". Do you think it's possible that she really means this or she is just saying this as a nice way to shove me away... Like dumping me. Today I texted her and we talked for a bit... I then sent her a text saying if you want me to leave you just say goodbye and that you don't love me anymore. She never texted back. Another thing is that I would always ask her to do things for me that she never really could do because she wasn't like that and so on. Like sending me pics and what not. Do you think that maybe I asked her too much and she after a while felt bad and felt like she couldn't do it so then she thought that maybe she didn't deserve me. I don't know what to do with the situation. I've tried all kinds of things like telling her I love her and stuff but she always tells me stop or don't. I just don't get it, I don't know what to do to get her to be with me again. Opinions would be great. Thanks :) Tj
A girl thought I was following her when I wasn't and I got in trouble for it. How should I deal with this situation?
Retrospectively there is nothing you can do about it really and I wouldn’t be trying to initiate contact with her to apologise for frightening her or to make friendly overtures, because that will only make things worse.Unfortunately you just have to chalk this one up as a life experience and try to move on from it. You know within yourself you weren’t doing anything wrong and if you can look yourself in the mirror and know that you have honorable intentions when you approach the world, then it doesn’t matter what anybody else thinks of you. It only matters what you think of you.I would be doing things to protect yourself, however. If this girl shares the same route home as you, I would definitely be taking another way home and if there is no other way home, I would be making sure I change the times I go home, or method (take the bus instead of walking, for example) so you definitely won’t run into her again. The last thing you want to have happen now is to have her accuse you of stalking her because she keeps running into you.I would also try and be aware of your surroundings as you walk along. If you see a girl on the street and she’s looking back at you nervously or walking faster as if she wants to put distance between you, either stop and let her move away from you or change your direction so you’re moving away from her.It’s a dangerous world out there now and while it was upsetting for you to have this experience. Its happened because people are so aware of what can happen to them and how quickly people can disappear from the street. Even though they were wrong, at least the girl’s fear was taken seriously and acted on.Good luck, be true to yourself and try not to let this experience scar you or make you bitter. Sometimes bad things happen and there is nothing we can do about them but at least neither of you were hurt and you are free to go forward from this point.