How can i get my ex girlfriend back? (High school) girls and guys?
So here's the story... My ex girlfriend and i broke up a little over a month ago. We were together for 3 months and from the start of our relationship we both REALLY liked eachother. During our relationship we weren't really 'phsycal' we didn't kiss as i was waiting for a good setting. When i was with her i was always really shy and kind of stared in the distance when the others around me talked and i was always really shy around her. We had gone on one date which was closer to the start and it was excellent and her friends told me the day after she was crazy about me. From then i was always asking her to do something together, but she always used being busy with dance and singing as an excuse. A month before we had broken up the summer holidays began, we didn't end up seeing eachother for a month, she never accepted my plans to go on dates, although she did once and had to cancel. I think it was because of this we had drifted apart and i had a feeling she was loosing interest in me because we used to text for around 6 hours everyday late into the night and that started becoming less and she didn't want to talk. One afternoon she texted me, dumping me and asking to call it a day and just be friends. To be honest i really find it hard being just friends with her and i really want to win her back. School began 2 days ago and we have 4 classes together. The first day we said nothing to eachother. What should i do to get her back and get her interested? And how should i act? Would it be ok over time to ask her to the movies with me? :) If i can have some advice from someone who has been in this situation before or who has any opinions, i would really appreciate it! Thanks everyone :) We're also 16 if you were wondering.
Leaving a note on this girls car?
This is this girl that I park next to at my apartment complex and her spot is assigned next to mine. I’ve seen this girl a few times now and she seems like a nice girl. I hardly ever see her out side or coming or going but today I saw her once as we were both coming home. Later on I got back from the store and was heading into my apt as she was going to her car. She jokingly said quickly in passing “this is getting a little weird now” and I said back sarcastically “a little”. I’m pretty sure she was just being playful because the tone in her voice as pleaseanf and not angry. Now that she finally said something to me I’m wondering if I should leave a note on her vehicle to text me. This is what my note said: Is this still weird? Lol. I’m the guy who parks next to you. You seem like a nice girl, are you single? Text me if interested xxx-xxx-xxxx. My name is (fill in name) Have a good day :). -name Is this a good idea or is there anything I should change. I hardly ever see this girl outside so I think this would be the best option instead of waiting around. Good or bad idea ?
Ex girlfriend back in the picture! (girls answer only)?
Okay so my boyfriend is really hot, and I constantly have to deal with girls and women trying to get with him. I don't get jealous or anything because we've been together for almost three years and he doesn't let them get in between us.:) But the Only girl I'm jealous of is his one of his exes that he dated for a year! She was kinda like me; we both lost our virginity to him, and we both fell in love with him. Although she's dated two guys after him, she didn't do anything sexual with them because she saving herself for him! She occasionally will call him to see if he's single, she started going to his church out of no where, she just won't go away!! Here's the worst part though. She's beautiful. Like a younger version of adrianna Lima. And physically,to me, they were a perfect match :/ I'm far from concieted;but I'm not saying I'm ugly, I'm exotic looking , basically the only thing she has over me is her eyes, she has like these bright blue green eyes.- but anyways, she's transfering to me and my boyfriends highschool in one week (we're in our senior year) and I KNOW she will tell people she's his ex(she did it at church and at her old school). I just don't want people saying she's prettier than me and start talking crap and saying they should go back out :( what would you do in my position?:/ my boyfriend tells me not to worry about it and he starts getting annoyed whenever I talk about this. I just don't want to worry anymore .. Suggestions?
My girlfriend wants me to date other girls?
Let's think logical: If your friend told you to jump off a cliff would you do it(is what moms say) I say: If you love the girl and she loves you and your mom wants you to date other girls choice which is better your happiness or theirs. I'm going to be blunt: The idea is retarded if she said she won't date other guys and when the time is right you'll get back together, it's stupid. When you get married are you going to tell your wife to date other men and then when the time is right you'll break up with those men and come back to you, and yet your still in a relationship with your wife. That's like cheating on your partner, don't do it. Double no no. Stay with her and tell your mom what you think. Even though people probably won't listen to me because they think teens don't understand love, if you can love your parents you can love other people too. But if you don't take this as person trying to help then take it as a person who wants to get points and so buts a long answer.
Do girls try to make the boyfriends jealous?
Ok sometimes it’s done to see what the boyfriend’s reaction will be, I have to admit I have even done this a time or two to see what’s going on in my guys head. See the way some of us girls think is that if a man truly cares he will feel a certain level of jealously over you (he’s girlfriend). Now please understand that the females do not want overly crazy/jealous boyfriends, we just want to know that you value what you have. Now even though this little test is ok to try once or twice after that it is just trying to cause problems or get even with him for something. Which mind you never ends well. . I have known many couples that get back at each other until it just becomes an ugly war. And the other reason is just to upset him to get a few laughs, which mind you not very nice or mature. So simple answer yes females do this, some for 1 Testing purpose 2 trying to get even with him 3 just for laughs
Is it bad to make a girl jealous?
It is bad to make a woman jealous on SO many levels that you should go out of your way to learn how NOT to do that even by accident. Unless you have a death-wish or something? It so crushes a woman inside, she may never be able to open herself to you once that has happened. It basically ruins things between you. She will never be able to feel "right" about herself or you. Guys just don't understand how destructive this is and do things right in front of their own women that makes her die inside. A woman's emotions of love, attraction and sex are VERY different than men even know. They destroy our hearts so easily with selfish, thoughtless behavior. Now I find your additional details. You have insulted her in the worst way. She is deeply insulted. Clearly you don't "get it" and that is why she doesn't say anything to you. The other girls she is angry with for entertaining your conversation. Look at it this way. Say your buddies girlfriend has conversations with you and you let it go on without stopping it, or trying to get away from her before he sees you both and gets jealous..you with me here? He sees you two together and is upset...of course....you get that right? He doesn't ***** out his girlfriend. He comes to you and says what are doing? Stop talking to my girlfriend. You two don't NEED to be talking and I don't like it...can you see your buddy doing that? This is the very same thing. She is telling off these other girls for being out of line. Not yelling at you for being stupid. Does all this make sense to you now?
Trying to get into a guys mind!?
whats the 1st things guys look at when they pass a girl? why? How long until they look back? Do they even look back? how long will it take for a guy to say something?! Do all guys really have imediate intrests in girls with big boobs? If so why? theses are all questions that me and my friends have thought about! anyone wanna help me out! give a good answer and ill consider giving u the best answer thingy! but to do that u gotta answer all the questions! or as many as u can the more u give the more likely i am to pick u! :D