Feeling Conflicted over a Girl With Spiritual Values....... Help?
I hope this is a joke. If not. Grow up and don't USE people... Slaves were used. Using people dehumanizes them. If you feel the need to use people.. then you need counseling. Typically people who feel this way or like to use sex like that.. were either sexually or emotionally abused as children OR feel demansculated and need to power down on someone to feel like they are worth something. Most of the time, this sort of behavior is about power and control. - Similar to Rapists. So.. please, if you are serious.. get some counseling. Severe pornography addictions can also lead to this kind of behavior. As for this girl. If you care about her as a HUMAN being.. you will not use her for sex but realize she is someones daughter, someone's sister, more then likely. Someone's future spouse and mother. Would you like it if someone used your daughter.. your little girl? Would you like it if some guy used your sister? - your little sister you use to protect? Would you like it if some guy had used your Wife like that before you knew her.. manipulated the women you love? What if you saw her with a kid.. would you be proud to tell her kids.. "yeah, I used your mom by making her THINK I cared about her..she was a sub-human THING to me.. a toy!" -- Would you? In my opinion.... non-religion makes it easier to justify these types of things and feel like you are just 1 person and she is just 1 person and you can quietly do these things without anyone knowing and still hypocritically act like a good person.
What if your 'soulmate' doesnt feel the same way?
I am dating this guy who i've completely fallen head over heels for. He's the best thing to ever come into my life! I KNOW im in love and its deep. I can feel that hes the one im supposed to marry, i just feel it. I feel like hes my soulmate and the one for me. However...if he doesnt feel the same does that mean my feelings are wrong? That he might not be my soulmate? He says hes never been in love like this and wants to marry me too and we're 'in love' very much, but sometimes he says 'hes not sure if im the right woman for him' but its when hes feeling insecure or when we have an argument or bad day or something. Anyway my main question i want answered is, 'If he doesnt feel the same way, does that mean hes not my soulmate?'
Why do girls like looking into their guys eyes?
"The eyes are the gateway to the soul".....since girls are emotional and vulnerable creatures, the way you feel about them is truthfully disclosed to them through your eyes.....can you stare 'em straight in the eye when you say "I love you" or do you look down or to the side? Or when they ask if you love 'em, do you respond (either yes or no) in any of the same manners? Sometimes, if she really likes you, her whole future with you is played before her eyes with your own eyes as the theater screen.....does the movie finish with a happy or sad ending? Do the curtains of your eyelids end the movie quicker than it should? The eyes say it all, and is also an emotional and intimate part of any bonding process.....straight up sentiments, and blessings to you.....
How do you know someone is your soul mate?
In my opinion, a soulmate is a person with whom you can connect with on a spiritual, deeper level. Also, that person makes your life more enjoyable and fun. To know for sure that you have found your soul mate, there are not many 100% signs, but if you find that you realize these signs of a soulmate[1] in your partner, then maybe you have found the one:You Just Feel ItYou Are Best FriendsYou Can Understand Each Other Without Even SayingYou Respect One AnotherYou Are On The Same Page When NecessaryYou Share The Same Future VisionHaving Frank Conversations Is Not A Challenge To YouYou Do Not Curse, Or Threaten Each Other With Breakup Or DivorceYou Are Comfortable Being YourselfHaving Intercourses With That Person Is AmazingYou Feel Each Other’s PainYou Know How To ApologizeYou Are Not Afraid To Be ApartYou Complete One AnotherYou Could Not See Yourself With Another PersonWell, it is very hard to find the one who has all of the above standards, but it is happy to find a person who has more than 9 signs mentioned earlier. That is great!Footnotes[1] 15 clear and subtle signs of a soulmate you have found - WikiYeah
Feel weird after my first gay experience?
i'm a college guy and i've been curious about having a gay experience for a while now, so last weekend i went to a gay bar w/ a few girl friends and picked up a guy. he was hot and we went back to my place where he sucked me and i was on top. it felt really good but i couldn't get comfortable with it, even though we did it a few times. looking back i don't know how to feel, the sex was awesome but i was really awkward afterwards and i can't make eye contact with the girls who went with me that night, they all think it's hot but i dunno. is this normal or did i do something wrong?