I am going to Lansdowne, Uttarakhand, India this weekend with my friend. What are the must see places and budget hotels? What shouldn't I miss?
Lansdowne is one of the best quietest and unspoilt Hill Station in India. It has been a popular destination since Britishers came to India. Lansdowne is well connected with motorable roads .It is located at an altitude of 1700 meters above from sea level Surrounded with oaks trees and Blue Pine forest in the Pauri Garhwal district of Uttarakhand State. There is huge numbers of places you can visit during your journey such as :1. The Garhwal Rifles Regimental War Memorial 2. Darban Singh Regimental 3. St. Mary Church 4. Bhulla Lake 5. Tin in Top 6. Bhim Pakora & Hawa Ghar There is plenty of accommodation in Lansdowne considering a very small hill station. Most of the budget hotels are newly built such as 1. Ajanta Guest House2. Lans Inn3. Lans View 4. The Oak Grove5. SB Mount Resort 6. Sadbhavana
My boyfriend is on a guys' trip. Am I wrong to be upset?
You aren't wrong but you aren't really right either. From what you said you don't really have a reason to not trust him and that seems to be the biggest issue. Posting a picture with a girl doesn't mean he did anything wrong. It doesn't mean the girl was invited along nor does it mean he did anything with her. She could have been a friend, a stranger, or someone that they hung out with that asked for a picture. But if you talked and were okay when he got back, it isn't fair to keep holding it against him. Also he is on a guy's trip. He is there to hang out with his friends, relax, and have fun. Give him a break and don't be mad that he isn't texting you 24/7. He shouldn't have to be checking in with you and you shouldn't be panicking or overthinking things just because he doesn't text you every hour. In the details you say, "I haven't been clingy, I give him space and let him have fun with his friends." But if you are mad because he isn't texting you all day, then you aren't giving him space and letting him have fun. You're mad and upset because he is out having a good time with his friends and not spending time on the phone with you. That shows that you don't trust him and you're insecure with the relationship. If you get mad at him for that when he gets home, you are putting him in a position where he has to choose between his friends and you. Wanting to have some free time to go out isn't wrong and he shouldn't be required to text you all day when he is out with friends. As long as he isn't doing anything illegal or cheating on you, give him some space.You don't really have a good reason to be mad at him and you're probably taking things too far. When he gets home talk to him and explain why you were upset. But don't attack him and make sure he knows that you realize you were overreacting a bit and are feeling a bit insecure. If you don't punish him or make him feel guilty, he will probably make sure to make you feel comfortable and secure when he goes out. But if you give ultimatums or yell, you're just going to drive him away. Then, you just need to build up the trust because that is the real issue between you.
Los Angeles materialistic?
I lived in the LA area for a number of years, and yes, the pressure can be very high to look a certain way and have certain things. Especially if you are surrounded by it and susceptible to it. When I visit LA now, I find myself getting very competitive and agressive and I just dont like that. Each person is different, but many many people are like this. As far as being diverse, it is and isn't. While there is some blending, the races are still quite segregated. Poor blacks don't hang out with middle class whites. Black neighborhoods don't typically overlap mexican neighborhoods. People of different races may or may not be friendly towards each other. But, there are so many different niches depending on where you are and what you relate to, that you don't ahve to get caught up in the Paris Hilton scene. You can choose to be a laid back surfer. You can choose to be part of the Rock N Roll scene. You can choose to be a casual college student. It's up to you what path you follow, but don't be fooled, even within those scenes, there is fairly heavy competition and ego. Good luck to you.