Why am I always rejected by the men I am interested in?
ALL women get rejected. I've been rejected by men more times than I can count. Every person you're interested in won't be interested in you.Rejection for men and women is not the same. Men tend to pursue, women tend to wait, select, reject guys they don't like. You'd think only men ever get rejected. But this rejection is mostly sexual. Women reject the men they don't want to have sex with. Men rarely sexually reject women. Women are far more sexually selective than men.Just because a guy is not sexually rejecting a woman, doesn't mean he is not rejecting her overall. If he is not willing to date her or give her an opportunity to be in a relationship, he IS rejecting her. Women sometimes don't understand when they are being rejected. The guy is rejecting you but won't mind having sex with you. Women rarely ever do this— want to be intimate while simultaneously rejecting the guy. But men do this every single day, every second. Sure there are some exceptions and not everyone is the same, but these sexual and behavioral differences between men and women are overwhelmingly consistent and common.Rejection is a part of life. Men get sexually rejected almost daily. On dating apps, constantly. Women get rejected less often but when we do, it is a deeper rejection. This is just part of life. We have to learn to gracefully deal with rejection.The most honorable, gentlemanly of men will reject you early in dating, before getting intimate. He would tell you that you're a lovely woman but not what he's looking for. Some men who are more avoidant may still be decent and will hope you just take the hint when they don't respond. That is somewhat cowardly behavior but women do the same constantly. People fear confrontation and the backlash they might receive. In either case, this is a very soft, kind way for a man to reject you.The worst ways men reject women that I've seen, is when they string them along for years in dead-end relationships. Those kind of men could have rejected the woman on a first date or the first month but they instead choose to reject her constantly, daily, for years.So don't be upset. Its better if a guy rejects you upfront instead of stringing you along or taking you for a spin. Rejection happens to everyone and learning to gracefully deal with rejection is a part of life.
How do you forget about someone you truely love but can't be with and you see them almost everyday?
Pain is the only thing that you'll feel. When you see them daily and know the fact deep inside your heart that they will never be yours.“The worst feeling is loving someone, but knowing they will never be yours.”Whatever you do for them to make them realize that you are in love with them deeply, they will never understand. You can actually feel that pain in your chest and stomach which will not let you sleep properly, breath freely. Day by day seeing them, you will feel that you are losing something, an important part of your life, a person with whom you always wanted to be - today, tomorrow & forever. Such feelings are hard to express and no one will understand the pain you might be going through. If you have loved someone truly, then you can’t forget them. That person might not be with you in the long run but their memories will always stay with you.You might stop talking to each other but you will never forget their voice. You might stop hugging but you will never forget their smell. Some people can stay in your heart forever, but not in your life. :(Things you should do to feel little better:1) Delete their contact number and stop making contact - calls, msgs, WhatsApp etc.2) Stop stalking their Facebook, LinkedIn, twitter profiles.3) Delete their pictures from your phone.4) Share your feelings with your friend.5) Start doing some physical activity e.g: Gym, morning walk, yoga. It actually works wonder.6) Meditate7) Don't be alone. Spend most time with your friends, family members.8) Try not to see them in the office. Obviously, you can't run or ignore them. If possible, change your timings.9) Take a break from office, go on vacation with your friends/family.10) Watch your fav web series on youtube.11) Avoid the places where you used to hang out.12) Focus on your career.13) Spend time with kids. Best Option. :)14) Put some inspirational/positive thoughts up at your work.15) Write a diary expressing your feelings.Just remember one thing, time is a great healer. Everything heals with time. Your heart heals. The mind heals. Your happiness is always going to come back. Bad times don't last.All the best! Stay happy! :)