Got Into A Fight With My Dad

I got into a fist fight with my dad?

Ok, i'm 16, and my mom and dad got into a fight.

My dad got really unstable and started breaking things and screamed at my mom. I went downstairs and told both of them to shut the f*ck up i'm trying to watch tv. Then my dad screams at me it's none of my business, I tell him he is f*cked up in the head. He goes apesh*t and starts screaming in my face. I pushed him, he pushed me, it escalated into a fist fight. I'm heavier built than my dad, so I beat the sh*t out of him and I have no remorse.

My mother is one of the kindest women you will ever meet, and my dad had no right to treat her that way. My dad is usually mellow and nice, but he can get emotionally unstable, which can make me angry.

Right now I'm at a friend's house. I'm not worried for my mother, but I'm kind of worried about my father. He's emotionally unstable and I feel like he's going to commit suicide or something like that.

What should I do?

Huge fight between my dad and I?

I got into a huge fight with my dad this morning. We barely ever fight.

My brother was being yelled at for not mowing the lawn for my 65 year old aunt after she mowed it herself. My brother said that he didn't know she was mowing and that we only found out when she was about halfway done mowing her lawn. My dad yelled at him and said that he was lying. Then I came in and defended him because I knew he couldn't have known she was mowing because we were both our computers, listening to music or watching youtube videos.
Then he yelled at me and told me to be quiet and he wouldn't listen to me. I told him that he was being really disrespectful and he yelled at me. Then I told him that if he's not gonna show any respect, then no one is gonna respect him back. He yelled at me again.

Then he made us go out to watch Harry Potter with him because he wanted my mom to ''get outside a little more''. He kept saying things to my little brother in the car, so I, again, tried telling him that we didn't know and that we were on the computer. But, again, he wouldn't listen and told me to shut up.

Then I started calling him disrespectful, loser, and tons of other negative comments like all the fathers I know wouldn't this disrespectful. And I annoyed him for a little while.

I was pissed for the entire day and didn't want to talk to him. Then when we got something to eat, we were argueing about it in the car again and he told me that he will never like me as much as he did before and that I ruin his life and that I should think about what I've done. Then he starts blaming it on me, but I kept telling him that he started it by yelling at me for no reason!


I know, I shouldn't have called him a loser and annoyed him, but I really don't want to apologize. Nor do I feel like I should apologize. I've been crying, ignoring him, and not eating for a day now.

He's really stubborn so he won't apologize either.
By the way, my mom's not helping either. She just goes to whichever side that doesn't get her in trouble and then she starts insulting me. When we got back home and when my dad wasn't around, she became all sweet and funny around me and I just didn't want to talk to her either.
Please, help.

My dad and i got i fist fight. What should i do now?

Alright so im seventeen now and in my senior year. Anyway i came from school at about 4 yesterday and my dad was in a pretty horrible mood and i didnt want to ask because he is the type when you talk to him when he is angry he takes it out on you. I started to make a meal for myself and left my noodles left to boil, i went up in my room. Ten minutes later i came back down, the water stopped boiling! My dad was sitting on his reclining chair and looked at me dead in the face and said " You ever leave a boiling pot in MY house ever again your gone." I never saw this side before and i was defensive and stood and front of him asking what the "f" his problem was and he got in mine. I ended up pushing him and he tried to grab me so i started swinging for my life. My dad just over powered me and hit me on every angle of my face and wouldnt stop till i started screaming. I left and now im at my friends, my mom called me and told me she knew of what happened and said he wont do it again and to come home. ( i think she is trying to protect him.) what should i do ? i dont feel comfortable going back now. I have never ever seen that side in my dad before and he is usually has a nice personality towards everyone and i couldnt never see that happening. help ? any useful advice?

I just got into a fist fight with my dad?

I too was raised by criminal parents (because face it, this is illegal), and for as long as I can remember, they'd constantly abuse me and my sister for fun, and my father would even occasionally rape my sister. They'd even perform the Russian roulette on us. 9 times did we have to get to hospital due to near-fatal injuries. ALWAYS would they come up with a story regarding who hurt us, and we were so injured that we couldn't even speak the truth until it was too late (we were under extremely strict supervision).

So at the age of 14, we decided that we'd had enough. We packed our things, while I took a hammer and knocked both of them unconscious (if they're still alive, I'll never know and I don't give a damn either). We got out of there without looking back. For several weeks we were homeless (though we did have money) but fortunately a very kind old lady eventually let us stay with her until she died 3.5 years later. By then I'd turned 18, and so had the right to a flat of my own. We had also got ourselves a good education and a part-time job (earning quite a bit). So we actually made it, through our own desperate actions.

Abuse is ALWAYS illegal, regardless of what you've been told, and the fact is, if you don't want to put up with it, don't. Move out! You're 18, and I was 14. Imagine how easy it'd be for you to just move your rear end out of there (you do have a job after all). It'll require some change, but if you really mean it, being free and in peace will be the only thing that matters to you. You can do it, and you must do it, otherwise you'll be stuck in this misery for life. Don't let that happen. Don't let them win. You're better!

UPDATE: And yeah, get him in prison, he's nothing but danger to society, plain trash. He needs to be locked up where he belongs. It's not like it'll be hard, the evidence is incontrovertible.

My dad and my boyfriend were fighting?

I havte been dating him for two and half years and we were pretty serious and I just can't believe this would happen. Him and my dad were like friends I guess, my dad really liked him as my boyfriend and then my boyfriend was with my dad and they started fighting and I think it was about me because mt dad is really protective. So anyway i just turned 20 yesterday anyway anyway my boyfriend comes home and he says "I wouldnt ever take advantage you know that right?" And then he says I love you and I asked him what happened and he aside my dad was pretty much being an *** and my dad got pissed off because my bf said we're not virgins. So then my boyfriend says sarcastically "im sorry but im apparently not good enough to date youat and you should find someone who's not like me, im sorry I wasted 2years of your life."And he just left. So I called my dad and he says josh left his phone and he was looking through his phone like total invasion of privacy! But anyways he looked through all of our texts and his pictures and I guess saw that he was wrong but I keep calling him and I left him messages and I've texted him and I called his best friend and he said that he's with him and he doesn't want to talk about it and he's like really sad about it. Wtf?? What am I supposed to do? Its not like him to do that and why would he break up with me?? Im so confused. Im sorry its so long. Thanks.

17 got in physical fight with dad...Advice?

I’m 17 and my dad is just 31, that 14 years difference in age. I’m his only child. Growing up with him was not easy at all, he’s always just been such a big kid when it comes to doing anything. Through high school he was one of these popular/jock people and in college he was same way. He was always the party guy and ladies man. When I was 15, I went to live with him (my mom moved and I wanted to finish out high school here). All my friends though my dad was the coolest, because he was so young and always up for having fun with us. So this is my senior year and last weekend he was out clubbing all night. I was really pissed off that he was gone yet another weekend and I called him out on it. He’s maybe a inch taller than me, but way more muscle. He just told me to watch my mouth or get popped in it. He always threatens to do that but never has. So I just keep on an he actually hauled off and slapped me. Without thinking about it, I hit him back. And then we were just fighting. He threw me down and started beating on me. I couldn’t get him off, I was just screaming for him to stop. He finally did. I got some of my clothes and drove over to his parent’s house. They were mad as hell and my grandfather called my dad yelling at him. So the next day my dad finally shows up and wants to talk to me. He sees my face for the first time, I have busted lip that all swollen. And I lifted up my shirt and showed him all the bruises he gave me. My dad just broke down and starting crying (I have never seen him cry before). He just starts saying how sorry he was and asking me to forgive him. I told him that I didn’t and left him standing there. I ended up going home a few days later, but I’m still not talking to him and I really just hate him right now. My dad just keeps on apologizing and saying he will never do that again. Which I told him his a** will be in jail if he ever puts his hands on me again. So my question, my grandparents say I need to forgive him, would it make me a bad person if I don’t?