I know that my boyfriend loves me but sometimes he behaves like he is not at all interested in me. What should I do to keep myself calm?
You seem like this girl from the pic , waiting for her partner to start paying some attention to her ! I may be getting judgemental, but I think it's been far too long that you're dating the guy ...Well for a start, try following this-Stop being so possessive, dnt expect him to run after you 24*7. Be a tease ! Show some attitude ! Every boy likes a good chase , and appreciates it more if he gets it with more difficulty , become this girl in the pic , difficult to be wooed .Act like you don't care , even if he ignores you, dnt let him find it out that it affects you so much .Try flirting with some of his guy friends and try going out with them , but please dnt make out with any , unless you really wanna push him off the edge Go shopping, buy new fancy clothes , get a haircut , and bring some spice to the life. No boy can resist a gal who can surprise him over and over again . Trust me on the shopping thing, every boy loves to see his gf in bright new clothes.Get a life , get a hobby , show him you are independent enough and awesome all on your own and your life is as awesome without him in it too .Elevate yourself from such mundane thoughts as to why he is not showing any interest and why is he ignoring me and stuff , meditate , you will get your inner peace and you shall rise above all thisWell you're a girl, and you always have the option of withholding intercourse, umm , if it helps.Lastly , stop asking advice on quora and thus making your life public , even if it's anonymous, if he finds it out somehow and he gets to read it he shall be pissed (and you shall be pissed too because that's the only escape route you'd have then) So exercise some caution .I hope if you followed all this , in time , you'll have a perfect relationship again like the couple in the pic . So all the best for your adventures. Enjoy !
If you had to rank the characters of HIMYM (1 to 5) with 5 being the lowest, what would be your order?
According to me,BARNEY STINSONFor obvious reasons that he was the main attraction to most people watching the show. Even if someone hasn’t watched a single episode of HIMYM, still he/she would recognize him from the show. He was one of the most iconic characters of television history, one might say he was LEGEN wait for it DARY. One of the most awesome things about him was that he was undoubtedly a womanizer and his character was particularly offensive to women still most of the girls I know of loved his character. And most importantly, he was great friend or one might call BRO. He was a bro true to his oath. As he said,Whatever you do in life, it is not legendary unless your friends are there to see it.For Barney fans check this out Barney Stinson Blog2. Marshall EriksenOne of the nicest guys you will ever see, sacrifices his dream of becoming a judge temporarily and moved to Italy to fulfill crazy demand of his wife. Forgives his wife time after time be it excessive use of credit cards for buying shoes or leaving him and forfeiting a wedding and moving to San Francisco. Also a true bro to his oath. He is an example of how nice guys can too end up with beautiful girls.3. Robin ScherbatskyI found her heavenly beautiful. A no nonsense, no drama, resilient, tough girl. She does whatever it takes to follow her dreams. But she has a huge commitment issue.4. Ted MosbyOnce again a decent guy, but I ranked him low due to a lot of reasons such as:Almost destroyed his friend Barney’s career for a crazy girl he has known for a week, whereas Barney who bet his job for Ted to get the project for GNB. Barney might do crazy things to get a girl but still he had his principles clear “Bros Before Hos”Knowing that giving Robin that locket as a Wedding Gift might jeopardize her marriage still he went on to give her that, whereas when Barney slept with Robin he broke up his relations with Barney.He kept whining all his life for girls.5. LILY ALDRINThis is one character which I hated due to a lot of reasons. She absolutely didn’t deserve such a nice guy like Marshall. Period.
I'm married. But I really miss the freedom when I was single. I was able to date too many girls, and there were too many choices out there for dating. Now, I feel trapped with only one woman. What can I do?
That freedom doesnt last forever.You just think it will, go look at some people who stayed in that life and tell me what you see.You want the uncertainty and drama of new people all the time, well as you get older and need to work more hours buying a house and investments, you have more to lose and a mistake with the wrong date can bring it all down.You may not be ready for marriage now, but trust me you will get to the point you choose the stability of marriage over the percieved excitement of the unknown, or you'll never get the point and your life will turn into a trainwreck.Life is often picking which tradeoffs we can live with best. Being trapped is a state of mind, college students are free to eat ramen and drive a shitry car and take out student loans with all that freedom, you are free to build a life with someone and that's a freedom they dont have.If you want excitement get a mountain bike and go biking with your wife and fall down and get muddy and lost together and get some stories. If you see some chick and start imagining her in hot lingerie, go to Victoria's Secret and get some lingerie like it for your wife and surprise her with it.