My guy friend is confusing me?
so my guy friend rejcted my feelings about six months gao.. however we are still friends but go to different schools. Heres the thing.. his actions are confusing. He most likely only see's me as a friend, but he doesn't make sense. Were not THAT close.. like, we don't see that much of each other as we go to different schools. however, we text EVERYDAY and ALL day, he even told me that he texts me the most, even more than his best friends and his family.. I don't get why I'm that important. e literally stay up talking until 4 am sometimes.. sometimes jokey, sometimes deep topics. But he always makes an effort with paragraphs, he literally tells me everything.. why would he make so much effort? he painted me an amazing illustration for my 18th and put it onto a photo album for me, with a photo he took of me inside. I was at an art event with him and another friend, I my other friend told me afterwards how he just kept staring at me and stayed close to me. I'm not sure, but I swear he acts slightly different, or shyer around me.. but I'm not 100% sure. When I mentioned another guy, he got all defensive about it, asking if I had 'he 'hots' for this other guy, why would he care? he also asked if I liked anyone at the moment.. I really like him, but he just confuses me.
My friend is confusing. Does he like me or not?
Okayy…So first of all there ia a fine difference between like and love…Your friend likes you or not cannot be clearly told by just a situation…He teases you that doesnt mean he likes you…But if his friends tell you he does…then it might be possible.And moreover the question arises whether you like/love him or not.If you like/love him…go tell him directly…if he feels the same…he will surely tell you his feelings…This is the best way to know what he feels…if he loves you…his deeds can also show that he is in love…He will always stare at you…he will care for you…he will feel jealous if you talk to other boys…he will try to talk with you as much as possible…you can see it in his eyes…It might be possible that he himself is confused whether he likes you or not…so we will have to wait till he realises that he do. Then hi himself will tell you the same.Hope it helps!:)
Why do guys care so much about their friends opinions?
Guys are wonderful little creatures and sometimes, not trying to dog them or anything but, they can't really think for themselves sometimes. Like they have to go to their friends for advice because they figure that their friends would have the best answer. Like a have a guy friend and he's very influential, he'll be with a group of guys that want to do something and he'll say thats whack and they'll do something else. I guess they just stick together on some things. Why I have no idea lol hope this helps chica :)
I'm in a kissing bet, and need some guys' opinions?
So me and this guy are flirty friends and we "hang out" which could be questionable as dates. Last week we were texting and randomly talking about who we would make out with in our whole school. Then I said that there isn't just one person I would make out with (joking around) and he said " if you kiss every guy on your 'list' in one week I'll give you 100000" and so this "bet" started. Now, we both know we have an interest in each other so I'm thinking this is the perfect oppurtunity. We are hanging out tomorrow and I was thinking about kissing him "for the sake of the bet" haha. So guys, is this a good idea? If you think so- how and when should I do it, and I need something clever to say to initiate it or something This should be fun.
My "straight" guy friends confuse me?
Okay so here is the story There is this really cute guy in my history class. Hes the captain of the school's wrestling team, he claims to be straight, is funny, nice and fun to talk to. I think hes kinda flirting with me during class? Like he'd always talk to me, try to steal my pencil, and steal my stuffs on purpose so i'd bag him to get it back.... and sometimes he'd ask me to copy notes and hes always cracking jokes... This other guy is in my geometry class, he also claims to be straight... He always say hi to me when he sees me and he smile at me all the time when he saw me. In geometry class we talk... and once he hugged me and it was pretty long. And my friends were like thats homo and he didn't care but kept on hugging me. Oh and I'd usually joke around about him being gay and he'd usually be like "Yeah I'm" but with the tone of trying to be funny? so idk if he likes me... Both of these guys are great. I really have fun talking to them and they can sometimes be really flirty with me. And Btw I'm bi and i dated girls and usually talk about guys. Some people know I'm bi so i'm not really inside the closet. I just don't feel like telling everybody that i'm bi but i'd tell then if they ask me... Do you think these two guys like me? Or is it just what normally straight guys do?like just joke around with their effing feeling .....D:
Girls I need your opinion, if you had a really good guy friend and he asked if he could date your younger sister what would you say?
While I'm not a girl, I have some experience in this 'friends dating a younger sister' situation.In the summer of 2012, my younger sister living in New Haven, CT and was working at Yale. My good friend from college was living in Stamford, CT. I took a trip up to my friend's house with my girlfriend to hang out for the weekend, go swimming, drink, see a movie, etc. We decided to invite my sister, too, since I didn't see her much. It was a great weekend; everyone had a great time.Lo and behold, on a return trip a month or two later, it was revealed to me that my friend and sister had started hanging out more and then dating. After the couple hours of initial shock, it sat quite well with me actually.The thing is, my friend is a great guy. He's trustworthy, smart, and fun. For all the same reasons I liked being his friend, my sister wanted to date him. I cannot blame my friend for liking my sister. She is great. I cannot blame my sister for liking my friend. He is great.Although, the situation here is unique in that I have quite some distance between myself and them, so I'm not privy to (and also safe from) their regular relationship issues and drama, I still run the risk of losing the friendship if/when they break up. However, it's not my decision to make. They're both adults and they pursued a path they wanted to go down. What was best for me was to step out of the way and let them lead their lives. I could do this happily, because I trusted him and I trust her judgement. I think you need to ask yourself:Is my friend a good person?Would I trust him dating a of friend mine? So, why not my sister?If those two questions can be answered with a "Yes". Then, let them give it a go. If those questions are a clear, "no". Then, tell him to buzz off and tell your sister to steer clear. There are plenty of guys I wouldn't want to date my sister. Luckily, my friend isn't one of them.